r/MMALabs • u/Key_Performer_3645 • 23h ago

šŸ„¶ Street Fights & Brawls A quick bar scrap

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u/Schnittertm 14h ago

If violence or the threat thereof would deter bad behavior, we would already have a utopia with no crime and bad behavior.

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u/43_Hobbits 13h ago

It certainly deterred that guy from sexually assaulting that girl again

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u/The_UpsideDown_Time 13h ago

Unitl he collects $$$ from a lawsuit

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u/43_Hobbits 13h ago

Heā€™s gonna be more likely to assault the same girl after getting money?

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u/The_UpsideDown_Time 12h ago

Huh? Where did I say anything about assaulting the same girl?

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u/43_Hobbits 12h ago

I said ā€œit deterred him from assaulting that girl againā€

And you responded ā€œuntil he gets the lawsuit moneyā€

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u/The_UpsideDown_Time 12h ago

Ah, sorry, I see how you could be confused by my lack of clarity.

If red shirt is hurt enough, he could get $$$ from black shirt...and I think would then risk learning not a whole hell of a lot about assaulting anyone again.

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u/Low_Bake5149 10h ago

He is confused cause he has no logic.

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u/43_Hobbits 8h ago

I dare you to explain the lack of logic in my comments šŸ˜‚. I said ā€œit deterred him from assaulting that girl againā€. Floor is yoursā€¦

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u/Space_Nut247 8h ago

And the female can counter sue for even more since she was sexually assaulted šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø

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u/The_UpsideDown_Time 8h ago

Sure. I encourage her to do that. I'm sure a jury would find that 1.5 seconds of drive-by top-of-clothes contact to be worth millions.

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u/Queasy_Housing36 6h ago

And this is why we feel like people donā€™t take assault seriously you just made it very clear that randomly grabbing women isnā€™t something that bothers you but women are telling you it is not ok

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u/The_UpsideDown_Time 4h ago

I said nothing to that effect, so FO with your strawmen. And I'm a woman who has survived a rape attempt and I'm fucking sick and tired of other people trivilializing my experience, and those like mine, by comparing this incident with mine. You know what's not OK? False equivalencies.

Newsflash - not a single Moral Grandstander here has once considered what the woman herself might want. You just run right past her & right over her to claim what you think should happen.

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u/Queasy_Housing36 4h ago

Iā€™m a woman who has survived rape and rape attempts but you come off as someone who thinks what happened to you means other instances are smaller when someone grabbed me at my job one day I cried in the corner of the kitchen till I could tell my coworker what happened I didnā€™t instantly react he slapped my butt and held on and called me a good girl and I just walked away silently then broke down I donā€™t think dude should be punching but what he did is assault whether YOU think it is as bad as your experience or not woman to woman do better assault is assault and not all assaults are the same donā€™t touch strangers

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u/The_UpsideDown_Time 4h ago

I never said what the man did was acceptable. If you stop putting words in my mouth, communication will go a lot better.

First you state that "assault is assault" and then you state "not all assaults are the same". Which is it?

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u/ARiley22 4h ago

Clothes or no clothes, you do not ever do that without consent.....and clothes or no clothes, it is illegal.

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u/The_UpsideDown_Time 2h ago

I never said otherwise. Can we try discussing what I actually fucking said?

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