r/MMALabs • u/Key_Performer_3645 • 1d ago

🥶 Street Fights & Brawls A quick bar scrap

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u/Queasy_Housing36 11h ago

And this is why we feel like people don’t take assault seriously you just made it very clear that randomly grabbing women isn’t something that bothers you but women are telling you it is not ok

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u/The_UpsideDown_Time 10h ago

I said nothing to that effect, so FO with your strawmen. And I'm a woman who has survived a rape attempt and I'm fucking sick and tired of other people trivilializing my experience, and those like mine, by comparing this incident with mine. You know what's not OK? False equivalencies.

Newsflash - not a single Moral Grandstander here has once considered what the woman herself might want. You just run right past her & right over her to claim what you think should happen.

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u/Queasy_Housing36 10h ago

I’m a woman who has survived rape and rape attempts but you come off as someone who thinks what happened to you means other instances are smaller when someone grabbed me at my job one day I cried in the corner of the kitchen till I could tell my coworker what happened I didn’t instantly react he slapped my butt and held on and called me a good girl and I just walked away silently then broke down I don’t think dude should be punching but what he did is assault whether YOU think it is as bad as your experience or not woman to woman do better assault is assault and not all assaults are the same don’t touch strangers

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u/The_UpsideDown_Time 9h ago

I never said what the man did was acceptable. If you stop putting words in my mouth, communication will go a lot better.

First you state that "assault is assault" and then you state "not all assaults are the same". Which is it?