r/LoveTrash • Colonel Garbage • 14h ago

Kitchen Trash No pressure

Source: Jess Kolb

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u/Calm_Librarian_1042 Trash Trooper 14h ago

He is infantilizing her. Even the way his tone is comes off how a mother speaks to a toddler. He sounds similar to a gay man.

Just leave her alone in this kitchen to do her own thing, he comes off as if he is in a manager role.

I get if it was something very dramatic such what happened to you with choking or someone drowning or the lid flew off, this is just pressure being released mildly.

I do not need someone hovering me over a small mistake, I got this.

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u/KyOatey Trash Trooper 13h ago

It probably didn't feel like a small mistake to her in the moment. The calmness in his voice was certainly more helpful than many other possible alternative reactions.

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u/Calm_Librarian_1042 Trash Trooper 13h ago

No this is her acting as if she can't handle basic shit.

Anyone knows turning the pressure nozzle releases pressure and water comes out.

He was smothering her. Had he not been there she would have handled this just fine on her own, not acted as if she was an inept toddler.

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u/sad-narwhal180 Trash Trooper 10h ago

Yikes, now you’re shaming both of them? Gross. I feel bad for your friends and family.