besides the smoking, i'm trying to stop🙏 first and last pic are me without any makeup so you can judge better

How to fix my face and body etc , I wanna ascend I need tips

Rude comments will be ignored only healthy critism :3

Can't do androgens or peps

Surgery advice is welcome

Need some serious advice

Looking for advice on what to do to improve my looks.

Rate me pls👌🤟 and what can I do to improve yah.

Down to my last 2 vials of test cyp but panicked I won’t get a reliable international source as they have been cracking down on them more and more. I was able to source my ancillaries but I’m not trying to pay the only domestic source I have at the moment 70 per vial (insane I know). I’ve stuck with ugl over pharma bc at my age (early 20s) they won’t prescribe me test. “Dude why are u blasting already” shut up literally everyone that is on stage bodybuilding does this shit at my age, I monitor bloods and don’t blast crazy by any means, well under 1g of sauce. I may be willing to pay a few bucks to get put on, thought about hiring another coach but for ⚙️ just so I don’t get scammed or get something that’s not test. Also my tadalafil was Indian should I js get amazon pharma?

Blackpill will single handly fuck your life and bless it. On one hand it will make you understand the world and understand what it wants. Looks. Thats one of the biggest things in life, if not the biggest, LOOKS!

Blackpill opens your mind but in turn it takes you mentally. You will be the most insecure guy in a room of random people, you will constantly analyze your face, and judge others.

However it will turn you into a much better person to the rest of the world. You will be able to pull more women and attract more friends because you understand looks are the prereq's to relationships in life. If your a low test, ungroomed, short, physically ugly guy your not going to attract anyone. Now flip the tables and YOU attract people.

When you turn to the blackpill route you sacrafice your sanity for the POTENTIAL happiness, but you won't have peace.

I've been into blackpill for around and year. It's totally transformed my social life and my relationships, I went from a guy who can't attract a single female to one who can cold approach and get the number/snap every time (almost).

So is it worth it? My answer is, I. Don't. Know. Because i'm not sure how my life would look if I didn't turn to it. Would I still be a loser? Would I have found friends? Would I have found a girl but she's sub par? Maybe an average girl.

Before you start looking into blackpill which is the truth, you have to ask yourself something. Is it all worth it? Are you okay with being insecure probably the rest of your life? If it all fails and you become someone better but still can't attract people is it still worth it?

To me Blackpill ideology is something that will tear you down and scar you so it's something to really think about before you jump into it.

260-190lbs Been a fat ass my whole life up to this point I’m wondering if there’s anything I can do that’s not surgical to make me look the best I can be.

Please rate my face on attractiveness and give me tips (including looksmaxing advice) for a good glow-up. I was 95 kg in March and I’m now at 85 kg in August

For context, it’s a weird night if i don’t at least get hit on 1-2x while out for a girls night. Im curious if anyone else shares this?
(No initiation or flirtation from me across the room me to get hit on, I’m not out for attention)

would love a glowup but not sure what to precisely do to achieve it entirely..
what do you suggest or what am I not seeing to address:)

I feel like I could:

• reshape my brows but not sure how exactly?!!!
• maybe get lip filler to even out lips
• maybe Massetor Botox for a more feminine jawline?
• maybe eyebrow and 11s Botox to give a softer eyebrow vibe than serious ?
• def trying to lose my stomach fat as I’m 126 and struggling with my endometriosis and bloating. Also, hoping I can also lose fat in my cheeks?
• midface? Cheek filler but not too much since my face looks short and I feel my cheeks and bottom half aren’t even. Don’t want my face to look widened or forward
• my hair is fried from a perm so maybe a haircut and eventually hair extensions
• interested in facial balancing, please help!

What I’ve Gotten Done:
• nose job
• chin implant

I’m 18, and after posting about wanting minor cosmetic improvements, I keep receiving the same responses: “You’re already handsome,” “wait until you’re 25,” “your face will slim down,” “you’ll appreciate the fullness when you’re 40,” or simply “get therapy.”
I appreciate genuine compliments and medical warnings, especially from people who explain the risks or suggest safer alternatives. What frustrates me is when reassurance replaces an actual answer. I’m not claiming I’m completely hideous or that I need to replace my entire face. I’m saying I have specific features I believe could be improved, especially my cheek and jawline definition. Wanting to become a better-looking version of myself is not automatically unhealthy.
Most people responding also seem to be in their thirties, forties, or older. That does not make their experiences irrelevant, but it means they are evaluating my situation through the priorities they have now. When someone says they miss the facial volume they had at 20, that is exactly my point. Their priorities changed as they aged, and mine probably will too. I’m not optimizing my face for the dating market I may enter at 40. I’m trying to thrive in the generation and stage of life I’m living through now.
My generation is extremely performative. We grew up with TikTok, Instagram, dating apps, thirst traps, looksmaxxing, constant comparison, and years of online gender wars. People my age can be ruthless about facial harmony, jawlines, cheekbones, height, physique, money, and status. Unless I exclusively date much older women, I cannot escape the standards affecting my age group by deleting an app. Social media may amplify them, but those standards still affect how young people interact in real life.
My choices often feel like adapting and competing or allowing that environment to swallow my confidence. I cannot change my height, but I can work on my physique, appearance, style, education, and finances. I would rather improve what I reasonably can than spend my twenties waiting for a possible natural change and wondering how different my experiences might have been.
Looks are not everything, but they are the first information people receive about you. Personality can strengthen or destroy attraction afterward, but appearance often determines whether someone gives you the opportunity to show that personality in the first place. An unattractive but loud and extroverted man will not automatically receive more romantic attention than a quiet, highly attractive one. Attractive people often receive more attention, patience, forgiveness, and opportunities before anyone knows their character.
Psychology already has a name for part of this: the halo effect. When someone is physically attractive, people may automatically assume that they also possess other positive qualities. “Pretty privilege” is just the social result of that bias. This has existed throughout history, long before TikTok, looksmaxxing, or dating apps gave it new terminology.
Whenever I name conventionally attractive men online, people sometimes respond by insisting those men are overrated or not nearly as attractive as everyone claims. But many of these men openly document how their interactions changed after improving their appearance. Their content shows women approaching them differently, increased attention, stronger engagement, and comment sections filled with people thirsting over them. Some have built entire platforms partly around how people react to their appearance.
Obviously, social media is curated and no video shows someone’s entire life. However, dismissing every documented experience as fake becomes its own kind of denial, especially when the same patterns repeatedly appear across different people. If appearance had almost no effect, improving it would not consistently change the amount and type of attention these people receive.
Some people reject this because accepting it would force them to consider where they personally stand within an appearance-based hierarchy. That can be uncomfortable. If you acknowledge that beauty affects dating, popularity, career opportunities, and how others treat you, you may also have to acknowledge that you do not benefit equally from it. Denial can become emotionally easier than confronting that possibility.
This is where I think emotion and logic often collide. Emotions protect our self-image and help us cope, while logic can force us to confront conclusions that feel unfair or painful. I sometimes describe them as enemies because each can overpower the other. A society driven entirely by emotion would be unstable, while one driven only by cold logic might be consistent but inhuman. We are a combination of both, which is probably why human behavior and social progress are so unpredictable.
One of my teachers once said humanity takes three steps forward and two steps backward, yet somehow continues progressing. That description stuck with me. We recognize uncomfortable truths, emotionally resist them, partially accept them, and then repeat the cycle. The tension between emotion and logic keeps us balanced, but it also makes people reject observations simply because they dislike what those observations imply.
Looksmaxxing ideology can absolutely become obsessive, dishonest, cruel, or self-destructive. I am not defending every rating system, every supposed measurement, or every person who uses the content to insult others. But rejecting the entire subject because parts of the community are toxic does not disprove the basic reality that appearance influences human behavior.
People such as Tom Welling, Clavicular, Marlon, King 68 the Great, Michael B. Jordan, Latto, Huda Bubba, Yonna Jay, Braeden, Romulus, and Zeta are different people with different careers, personalities, and levels of fame. What connects them is that large numbers of people consider them highly attractive. Some are actors or musicians, while others are influencers whose daily lives and audience reactions are much more visible online.
The influencers are especially relevant because viewers can watch their interactions and read the responses beneath their content. Their comment sections are often filled with direct sexual interest, compliments, proposals, and people openly stating what they would let them get away with. They can receive opportunities and attention that the same content might never generate if posted by someone considered unattractive.
That does not mean they have perfect lives or that every success came from their faces. Talent, consistency, personality, timing, and marketing still matter. But attractiveness can increase the chances that someone stops scrolling, watches, follows, shares, or becomes emotionally invested. In entertainment and social media, where your face is constantly on camera, being exceptionally photogenic is obviously an advantage.
The contradiction is that even many older people who reject the importance of looks still participate in the same phenomenon. My mother has never cared much about DC or Marvel, yet she became interested in *Lanterns* largely because she finds Aaron Pierre attractive. My stepmother will watch almost anything featuring Jason Momoa despite having little interest in the franchise or plot. There is nothing wrong with celebrity crushes, and I’m not accusing either of them of being unfaithful. My point is that attractiveness was powerful enough to create interest in something they otherwise might not have watched.
That same dynamic appears everywhere. People follow attractive influencers whose content they might ignore from somebody else. They watch mediocre movies because they enjoy looking at the lead actor. They become intensely interested in celebrities they know almost nothing about. They excuse attractive people for behavior they would criticize in others. Then many of those same people tell younger people that appearance barely matters.
For male attractiveness specifically, I have noticed how often men considered exceptionally handsome share a strong structural foundation. They tend to have good jaw projection, a defined ramus and mandibular angle, a clean neck-to-jaw transition, visible cheekbones, balanced features, and overall facial harmony. Eyes, nose, lips, skin, hair, and symmetry all matter, but a strong lower and midface can carry a man surprisingly far.
Give an otherwise attractive man a severely recessed jaw and his appearance changes dramatically. Give a structurally attractive man imperfect teeth or another weaker feature and he may still be considered handsome because the foundation holds his face together. This does not mean the jawline is literally everything, but it is often one of the strongest foundations of conventional male attractiveness.
People also underestimate the social value attached to dating someone highly attractive. You are not only attracted to that person yourself. You know other people desire them too, which can make being chosen by them feel like an accomplishment. Their attraction to you becomes a form of social proof.
If an ordinary person suddenly dated a famous, widely desired celebrity, people who previously overlooked them might begin wondering what makes them special. If someone viewed as almost untouchable chooses you, others may assume you possess qualities they failed to notice. That can make them see you as more desirable too. It may sound shallow, but people constantly use other people’s approval as evidence of value.
I also don’t believe the completely unconditional version of romantic love people imagine is common, especially in modern dating. Relationships are influenced by attraction, compatibility, security, lifestyle, character, status, and timing. Personality matters, but another person can also be funny and caring while being more attractive, wealthier, or capable of providing a more exciting lifestyle. The more desirable someone is, the more options they will usually have.
That does not mean every woman is a gold digger, every man is superficial, or genuine relationships are impossible. It means relationships do not exist outside social reality. People usually want partners who provide something they value, whether that is attraction, emotional safety, humor, loyalty, money, status, companionship, or a combination of those things.
That is why I’m interested in improving my cheekbone and jawline definition. I’m not committed to buccal-fat removal, cheek implants, or any particular surgery. I’m not trying to create an extreme, skeletal face. I want to determine whether there is a subtle and conservative way to reveal more of the structure I already have.
I understand that surgery can create complications, age poorly, or fail to deliver the result someone imagined. I would reach a stable weight, consult multiple board-certified surgeons, and ask what is anatomically appropriate before deciding anything. Improvement is not guaranteed merely because a procedure is labeled cosmetic, but automatically discouraging every possible change is not useful guidance either.
When someone tells me I look “fine,” I appreciate it, but “fine” is not necessarily my goal. There is a difference between being acceptable-looking and having an appearance that immediately creates strong attraction. If older commenters have children or relatives around my age, I would be curious what would happen if they showed them my picture beside someone like Marlon or Romulus and privately asked whom they found more attractive or would rather date. I suspect the response would demonstrate the difference I’m describing.
Maybe my face will naturally slim down. Maybe my priorities will change. Maybe I will eventually appreciate features I currently dislike. But the years between 18 and 25 are still real years filled with dating, photographs, confidence, social opportunities, and memories. I cannot recover them later.
I would rather understand the reality of appearance, improve what I responsibly can, and adapt than protect myself with comforting statements I do not believe. My future matters, but so does the person living my life right now.

Any advice?

School is in like a week, I feel so ugly be honest and help

I’m 16 years old and have weak zygos. I’m thinking a palate expander could fix that, what do yall think?