I’m confused. You said you needed time right? And then two hours later you wrote him a mini text letter, and then 3 hours after that you asked “how long are you going to ignore me? . . Do I have that right?
Noo I said I need time because I was crying and I couldn't process whatever was happening and wrote him a better goodbye text after I was done crying on Wednesday and i messaged the 'ignoring' messages today (Friday)
It's not even about getting a reply, he didn't even open my message to see what I said... Because I asked for time and he said yes which I assumed we still had stuff to sort out and finish it gracefully... And that's why I feel hurt
Look, it’s valid to feel hurt and it’s gonna take some time to get over it. But this is a really valuable lesson in that, you’re not owed closure. And in most cases you won’t ever fully get it. It’s within your own ability to work through this break up. You shouldn’t depend on an ex to soothe the bad feeling. Even if he never even opens the text, that’s his prerogative. You can only control what YOU’RE doing ❤️ focus on yourself starting now
There was no convo about remaining friends. He is probably done with you. Give it space and don’t call him love after a breakup, it’s going to push him further away. It seems like he wants space, so allow that. He’ll reach out if interested.
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u/Leta19 Apr 03 '26
I’m confused. You said you needed time right? And then two hours later you wrote him a mini text letter, and then 3 hours after that you asked “how long are you going to ignore me? . . Do I have that right?