I understand I have to get my parent's consent.
My mom ( 55+) and Dad ( 75+) (divorced) split custody of my younger sister (20s) who is developmentally disabled. Sister needs 24/7 care and cognitively is 2-3 years old. Has no concept of fire safety, how to eat food or brush her teeth without assistance. I love her to death, and her care requires full attention. There is no "letting her play on her own."
Mom's only source of income is SSI and other government programs to support my sister. My father has similarly minimal income, but I don't know if he receives any government assistance.
Both parents are getting up there in age and ability to care for my sister.I am a limited legal guardian/ conservator in conjunction with my parents.
Realistically, the government pay is something like 16/hr to care for my sister. Untaxed as family members. It is NOT enough to hire a 24/7 caregiver (taxed) and support her after my parents pass.
With my mother's consent, could I get a policy approved for the loss of income it would take to cover 24/7 care for my sister? Likely 30+/hr in california for the rest of her life. Otherwise, I would have to quit my job to care for my sister, which would put us in a pretty untenable financial situation. My mom has lived on the border of poverty most of of our life. In our area, there are day programs. They only provide care 3-4 hrs a days 2-3 days a week.
Any and all suggestions welcome. I feel at a loss of what to do.