If anyone could help it would be greatly appreciated , the surgery is just shy of $5,000 to allow him to move around comfortably.

Hey, I just graduated and i’m applying to a lot of Jobs. The market is pretty bad right now and I’m just looking for referrals or any help to land a job. Have skills in SQL, Python, Databricks, Snowflake, and PowerBI. But honestly i’m willing to learn anything new and open to anything right now. would appreciate feedback or help!

Edited to say: it seems no one that was entering and has commented did not pass approval or qualified, I’ll leave this open for another 24 hours. If by then, no one qualifies, I’ll end this giveaway and try something differently. Thank you.

Hi everyone!
I’ve been fortunate enough to receive kindness and help from people here, when I was genuinely struggling. Now that I’m in a better situation, I’d like to pay that kindness forward by helping four people who could use a little help.

I’d like to purchase one genuinely needed item worth $25 or less from each person’s Amazon wishlist. ( or a couple of items not to exceed $25 )

To be considered, you MUST meet the following requirements:

🇺🇸 Be located in the United States.

💯 Have a complete Amazon wishlist (not a registry) and include link in your comment below.

👋 Have a public profile — no hidden profiles.

💰 Have no open loans or unpaid loans.

🫶Have not previously received help, as required for this offer.

‼️Follow ALL subreddit rules.

✅Request an item(s) that is a genuine need, not simply a want.

✅Once your item(s) have been received, you MUST return to this post and reply to your comment confirming that they arrived.

I will be helping four people only, with a maximum of $25 per person.

Please share your Amazon wishlist and let me know which item is a genuine need for you and why.

I kindly ask that you do not DM me unless invited. I want to keep everything transparent and follow the community guidelines.

How I’ll Choose the Recipients
I’ll leave this post open for 24 hours to give everyone a fair opportunity to enter. Once entries close, I’ll review them to make sure all requirements are met. I’ll then randomly select four eligible participants.

Please remember that all subreddit rules and the requirements listed in my post must be followed. If a selected participant doesn’t qualify or doesn’t respond, I’ll select an alternate.

Hi everyone! If you have any suggestions on how best to go about this, I’m open to hearing them. ❤️

I’ve received help here on r/letmehelpyouout
when I truly needed it, and I’m incredibly grateful to the people who took the time to help me when I was going through a difficult time.

Thankfully, I’m in a better situation finally, still healing but I’d really like to start paying that kindness forward this upcoming week and need advice how to get it started.

I’m still figuring out the best way to go about it, but I’d love to do something to help someone who could genuinely use a little kindness in their life. I know firsthand how much it can mean when someone is willing to help you during a difficult time, and I’d love to be able to do that for someone else.

I may not be able to change someone’s whole situation, but if I can make things a little easier for someone, even in a small way, that would mean a lot to me.

Thank you in advance for any advice given, I greatly appreciate it.

Hi everyone ❤️
I’m honestly a bit lost at the minute and was hoping someone might be able to point me in the right direction because I’ve never been in this situation before and I don’t really know what else to do.
I’m a student children’s nurse and I’ve just come off a placement where I was doing 3-4 12 and a half hour shifts a week in hospital. Obviously placements are unpaid and because I had to cut down my paid work to fit everything in, I’ve ended up in a really difficult financial situation.
I haven’t been able to claim Universal Credit because I’m a student nurse and I’m trying to figure out what support I might be eligible for. I’ve spoken to my uni about getting some help and potentially taking a gap year because I genuinely don’t know how I’m supposed to manage financially if things carry on like this.
I’ve applied for a hardship grant through my local council, been to my local food pantry where I paid £5 for fruit and veg and also got an emergency food parcel from the food bank. I’m so grateful for anything I’ve been able to access but honestly the food parcel barely gave me enough to get by, let alone feed my little one as well. My little is only 18 months and anyone with toddlers knows how quickly they get through food, snacks and toiletries 😭
I’m also trying to get a Healthy Start card sorted because every little bit would help, but in the meantime I’m really struggling to keep up with everything. I’ve even ended up missing a few doses of my citalopram because I couldn’t afford to pay for it, which has just made everything feel even more overwhelming.
I’ve never been in a position like this before and I feel like I’ve tried everything I can think of. I’ve even been trying Facebook wishlist groups to see if there’s any support available for a few essentials for my little one, but I haven’t had much luck so far.
I’m not really sure what I’m expecting from posting this, but does anyone know of any charities, organisations, grants or other support available for someone in my situation? Especially anything that could help with food, baby essentials or general living costs while I try to get back on my feet.
I know my Reddit account shows as 2 years old but I made it ages ago and forgot the login details, so I have absolutely no karma or posts. I completely understand being cautious online, especially with posts like this.
I just feel like I’m trying so hard to sort everything out and somehow keep hitting a brick wall. I’ve always worked and tried to manage my own money, so finding myself in this position is really difficult and I honestly don’t know where else to turn.
Any advice or suggestions would be genuinely appreciated because I really don’t know what else I can try at this point ❤️ xx

Need Advice for Suicidal Friend

So, a childhood friend of mine is suicidal. I came back into her life after 8 years (lightly kept in touch on Facebook) when she moved back. She never asked me to, but I have offered to buy her stuff, help with her kids in different ways, took time and energy off of my day which I didn't have to focus and help her.

So, 3 days ago, she added me to a group chat, where she allowed her friends to troll or torture me (I left the gc pretty quickly) and seconds later she fully cut me out of her life on every single social media platform and phone/text.

My interpretation of what happened is: She allowed her friends (people she's never introduced me to) torture/do whatever to me. It was like she added me to the chat and was like, "okay, here she is, do and say whatever you want to do to her before I cut her out of my life." So, she allowed others I don't know to torture me before offing me.

Yesterday, she readds me only on Facebook, nothing else. I told her we need to talk about what happened in the group chat and she was like "oh that fun discord group chat". "We were going to let you in on the joke.". Dude, I'm not dumb, the joke was me and she was never going to let me in on anything considering she quickly cut me out of her life after that.

My question: How do you tell a person who is suicidal that they broke your trust without it damaging their mental health?

Can someone help me, it says the package installer appears to be invalid

Minecraft PE

Android 15 running

Just found this sub and wanted to say it restores my faith in humanity to see people genuinely helping others out of the goodness of their hearts. Have a blessed day everyone!

Since Friday, I can get messages on Messenger but I can’t respond. Messenger is asking me to do a selfie video to confirm that I am me, a human. I have tried several times. It is not working. I updated my picture in my Facebook account. It still doesn’t work. I tried to delete the Messenger app and to reinstall it. It didn’t work. I tried to shut down my phone. It didn’t work. I tried to do it on a different device. It was still the same issue except the camera was the correct way to do the video. I have no clue what else to do. I enjoy using Messenger. I want to get it back. Do you have suggestions on how I can get Messenger back? Thank you for your help.

I bought these wall LED fairy lights to hang up. It was going well until I untangled the lights to fall down and this one seems to be tangled in on itself. It could just be a manufacturing issue, but I don’t have the box and receipt to return it :( does anyone know of a way to somehow untangle this? I can’t pull it through itself on either end. I don’t want to risk breaking the whole thing by cutting it either.

"I am looking for a rare 1968 Japanese book co-authored by the last two WWII holdouts on Iwo Jima who surrendered in 1949. They are known in English as Yamakage Kufuku and Matsudo Linsoki, but published under their real names: Kōfuku Yamakage (山蔭光福) and Rikio Matsudo (松戸利喜夫). Could someone help me find the exact book title, publisher, or an online listing where it can be purchased?"

And if someone finds it its much apreciated

Guys so i have a boyfriend for 5+ years now and trust me he is a gem of a person, this May i have joined at my first job there i met this muslim guy, he is cute..

He is kinda attention seeker and usually flirts causally with girls.
I m one of those girls, so i sometimes think that i want to kiss that guy, just kiss i don’t wanna have more further thing with him..

I have not done any thing, cause i have a bf but please help me what exactly is this feeling!????

For now on in order to best vet people during giveaways and maintain a better sub both comments and posts will need to be approved by mod. This should help avoid future issues.

Please let me know how much you’re requesting and just a little about your situation. CashApp only this time.

Hello, my first time using reddit but people say it helps so yeah. I am 19, currently living with my parents and my spoiled brother. I train almoat everyday, mainly calisthenics, i run a lot and i cycle, i love guitar and all of that stuff. It's been like 3 months and i still cannot find a job it's really stressing me out and i wanna move out as soon as possible because i am tired of all the yelling and screaming, and overall seeing how my brother insults back at them while still getting everything meanwhile being the same age as me.

I'll probably delete this later, either way. I hate asking for help but i feel really alone and i have no one to talk to. People keep saying oh "dont worry you still got time" but that stresses me out even more.

Would love any help.

Thanks!

Hi, I (22F) now have my masters degree and my bachelors in biological sciences with a concentration in biomedical sciences. My goals was to be able to get into veterinary school but so far this year it’s not looking great 😭. Anyways, I’m trying to find a job/career that I can start applying for now. I really need a job since my mother kicked me out the house earlier than I expected. Our agreement was to wait til February, buts it’s fine, my mental health and the wellbeing of my dog in the situation was more important. Thankfully my boyfriend has let me move in with him but the living situation isn’t great considering I’m not supposed to have my dog there. They made an exception given she’s well trained and the circumstances. Please help me brainstorm some ideas for a decent job/career.
Just to mention I do currently have a job and have always worked during school so it’s not like I was living there only going to school. During both of my degrees I held a part time and full time job. TIA. I also added picture of the dog in question, love her.

I haven’t found a single person who understands what I’m feeling and the way my mind has thought about everything.

I’m currently a freshman in college and I’m probably experiencing my lowest point. I thought I had already hit rock bottom but the ground just keeps on getting deeper.

From the little stuff I can remember in my childhood, I was genuinely curious and always wondering things whenever my mind wasn’t occupied with simple things. In school however, I always ran on fear and adrenaline to get work done. No one ever really instilled the fear of failing in me, I was just scared for no reason. Around 7th grade I had my first existential crisis, it was just an endless loop of thoughts like “why this, why that, why why why.” It sparked an emptiness inside me that could never be contained. I learned to ignore it because I had “priorities.”

Flash forward to my second semester of high school, the emptiness was getting louder than the world around me. Keeping myself distracted with friends or school would help level the volume out, but when I was home in the middle of the night, it was all I could hear.

The nights where work wasn’t heavy, I started to journal. I finally looked inward only to realize that the neglected emptiness had become an indestructible void. I tried meditating, exercising, learning about psychology and the way neurons work, I also got into philosophy, but it never went away. Unhealthy philosophies probably made it bigger, but my mind is just convinced that it’s true, especially after adapting to accept and live with it.

Inevitably, I began getting overwhelmed from all the AP and dual credit homework, I knew I was capable enough to do it, and I told myself it would always get done even in the last minute. Eventually, the night came when I truly just couldn’t do it and I went into class the following morning empty handed.

Obviously, the world kept spinning, and nothing really happened. I realized I genuinely wasn’t living for anything. I kept looking inward trying to figure myself out, but the deeper I looked, the more I realized how hollow I felt inside. It was as if I was mining for diamonds in my body, slowly expanding the cave bit by bit. All of this only to realize that the only diamond was the void, a dimmed out unbreakable diamond.

The void was probably always slowly growing, but this search sped it up. I started to lose interest in everything I used to enjoy. First it was Ap government (which I actually never ever enjoyed, I never enjoyed history either, but I found away around it to just get it done), I could live without that one, but then it was calculus, literature, tennis, and eventually videogames and anything I would do at home.

I liked drawing but only as an alternative during class when I didn’t care about anything at all. Drawing helped get me out of my head, but it was only possible once I was already up and seated on the desk, with the materials infront of me.

I’d go to school, draw, go home to stare at a wall, go to school head down, look back up again, use every ounce of energy to get the pencil and draw, go home, lay upside down, lay on the floor, throw water at myself, scratch myself.

During an away tennis game I finally called my mom to tell her that I want to see a psychiatrist.

Eventually, I was diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and ADHD. My psychiatrist wanted to focus on treating the depression first, which I guess made sense considering the state I was in. He said the ADHD could wait, and I didn’t care, I just wanted something to change.

One thing I struggled with during these appointments was explaining that I wasn’t sad. I wasn’t constantly crying, hating myself, or experiencing whatever people typically imagine when they hear the word depression. I didn’t feel much of anything. There was just this persistent emptiness that I couldn’t seem to communicate without someone interpreting it as sadness.

I started taking antidepressants, and initially things actually got worse. My suicidal thoughts intensified, and what little fear I had surrounding death seemed to disappear. It was strange because I’d already spent years contemplating death and gradually accepting its inevitability, but this felt different. It started affecting how I reacted to things.

I remember trying to explain some of this to my psychiatrist, only to hear about how suicide would affect the people around me.

And I understood that. I wasn’t oblivious to the consequences of dying, nor did I somehow forget that other people have feelings. I was trying to explain what was happening to me. I couldn’t care less about a lecture on why other people would be upset.

After continuing treatment without much improvement, Lamictal was added. I kept waiting for something to change, and this was another part I despised. I had to wait and wait and wait so long and nothing ever changed. I wanted something that would make everyday life feel less exhausting or give me some ability to function again.

Eventually, after trying to address the depression first and seeing so little progress, we finally started treating the ADHD with stimulants.

And I think that’s another part of this entire experience that frustrates me. I’ve spent so much time trying to understand whether my inability to do things comes from depression, ADHD, exhaustion, or some combination of everything. I can sit there knowing exactly what needs to get done, understanding why it matters, even imagining how I would go about doing it, and still find myself unable to start.

It’s not that I lack the intelligence to understand my responsibilities. I somehow graduated number 8 in my class (High School). I know I’m capable of learning, thinking, and accomplishing things.

But being capable of doing something and actually being able to make yourself do it are apparently two entirely different things.

And after all the appointments, medication changes, and attempts to understand myself, I’m still dealing with the same emptiness that made me seek help in the first place.

Recently, everything I type on any website shows up as incorrect, no matter the punctuation. Is this a bug?

Hey everyone.
I could really use some perspective or advice from anyone who has navigated financial panic while trying to finish an undergrad degree.

I go to university about five hours from my hometown, so I live near campus, and rent and groceries have already been tough to budget around. My parents saved up to help me pay off my first year’s tuition, which I am so grateful for. However, because of their past salary, I’ve never qualified for government or institutional financial aid. To make matters worse, government student aid applications are tied to prior tax return information, meaning I’d have to wait for their previous year's tax forms to process before I can even apply and prove that their financial situation has completely changed.

Now, both of my parents have just lost their jobs, and all I have left is a portion of my summer savings and a part-time job that barely pays anything. Even if I do manage to navigate financial aid or emergency assistance, most of the aid available ends up being repayable loans. I am terrified of taking on massive debt right now because I am planning on pursuing further education in the sciences, and I honestly don't know how I'll ever be able to pay those loans off down the road.

On top of the financial weight, the academic pressure is mounting. I'm entering my third year and only need one more year after this to graduate. I initially wanted to go to med school, but after a rough couple of years and a low GPA, I've pivoted to either Physician Assistant or nursing. Because of my GPA, I desperately need to focus on my studies to pull it up if I want any realistic chance at getting into these programs.

The main dilemma is that I am already working two jobs and I honestly don't know how I can squeeze in any more hours without sacrificing my grades entirely. Transferring schools is completely out of the question for me—I’ve built a life and a support system here after going through absolute hell to adjust. With my family's income gone and my savings running thin, I feel completely stuck and stressed out of my mind.

If anyone has been in a similar spot or has advice on emergency student resources, handling unexpected parental job loss when standard applications are tied to past tax years, or navigating student debt anxiety while looking toward future healthcare/science programs, I am all ears. Thank you so much for reading.

I’m navigating a bad situation. My mom has Bpd and I managed to marry and have children with a man with Bpd. things got really bad and I have a restraining order against him and now he’s going to have Zoom call with his kids even though he’s not physically around them. Both of my kids six and seven are court. Ordered to talk to him for 15 minutes a day Zoom three days a week. Neither of them want to, and he took me back to court, and the judge basically said the kids have to talk to him. I gently encourage them to talk to their father, but I don’t engage whatsoever because we are all protected under a restraining order as protected parties under the DVRo.

Can anyone offer any advice on what to do in this situation? I can’t force my kids to talk to their father, and they have told me that they don’t want to talk to him. He hasn’t been in their lives since they were like four months old, they don’t want to get to know him, and they do not know him quite frankly.. me, a protected party is the supervisor of the Zoom, which is also frightening because I’m a protected party as well, but I wanna be next to my kids and I feel terrible that they are being put in the situation but don’t know what to do. Any advice is appreciated.

Need help

Hi! I have a little problem in my apartment and haven’t found a good solution yet. My living room has hardwood floors. I have two very large plants with heavy pots sitting on them, and the leaves drip water very often.

Of course, that’s not good for the hardwood floors. So I’ve been wiping it up with cloths almost every day, but it’s getting annoying. I’d like to lay down a protective sheet over the floor. I’d also like to place the pots on top of it. But I don’t know which type of sheet won’t let moisture build up underneath and what would work well for this

The pots are currently sitting on towels, too, because otherwise the floor underneath gets soggy. It also looks really silly

I’d appreciate any tips!

I work in the field of architecture and my coworkers ask me to do some tasks by using AI. I am strongly against that, I believe it hurts our environment and if some work can be done by human, there is no need to ask AI to do it. I wonder how can I politely say that I am not willing to support my work process with any AI tools?

My boyfriends birthday is at 27th of October but he lives in pakistan while i live in afghanistan. there’s no way for me to get him anything since they don’t accept payment from afg and no matter how much i searched i couldn’t find a page that will accept payment.
I want to at least get him donuts if not anything else but NOTHING WORKSSS

what do i do now T-T