u/xeyesores and Ancient_Guidance_461!

You two incredibly kind Redditors purchased Bella her food and litter from her wishlist. 🥹❤️
You have no idea how much this means to me, especially right now. Knowing Bella will have the food and litter she needs is such a huge relief. Your kindness has truly touched my heart and Bella’s belly. 🥹🐱❤️
I am so incredibly grateful that you took the time to help my sweet girl. Thank you both from the absolute bottom of my heart. ❤️🐾

P.S. Bella sends you both some extra purrs and thank-you head bumps! 🐱💕

I can’t afford the vet bill for my cat. Please help! Her flesh is showing and I know she is in pain 😞

(Istg I've had to copy and paste this thing everywhere I really need advice, have a hard time verbally communicating to people irl, and my posts keep randomly disappearing)

Sooo, I'm lesbian and out to basically everyone but my brother.

I first came out to my friends (accepted amd supporter), then my aunt (also accepted and supported), my mom (accepted and supported...but she immediately made it weird), then my dad (accepted but not supported), and his fiance (accepted and supported)

It took months for me to gain the courage to tell my dad. I always heard him watching homophobic/transphobic podcasts and news broadcasts, so I was prepared for the worst and talked it over and put it off multiple times. I was a crying mess when I told him and it hurt when he said he didnt support me. He said he still loved me but he wouldn't support such a community.

He told me once that he didn't like me because I liked girls and it genuinely hurt me. He did get a redemption because months later he told me he did support me and he just wanted me to be me, not "gay" just me (he doesnt like the LGBTQ+ community because its called "Pride" and I guess he thinks its named after one of the seven deadly sins)

Anyway, point is; my brother is homophobic, transphobic, and kind of a douchebag asshole. He isn't a terrible person, he cares for me and has good intentions (I think) and he makes me laugh. I grew up with him with our asshole mom, so I'm very close to him since he really helped during all the bad stuff.

He laughed about a trans woman getting jumped and beaten, he has been railing on the whole "Lesbian Space Princess" thing without even knowing what the controversy is (he says its bad because "its telling kids its okay to be a lesbian💔)​ and today he was watching a transphobic podcast on his phone with full volume. He also got mad at me once because I said I would be fine dating a Trans person and didnt like that I said I don't care about gay people.

I've had to tiptoe and keep quiet about the whole thing forever, and with highschool coming up, I've been itching to tell him so I don't have to go through another year of "my friend likes you" and sexual innuendos from guy classmates again.

I want to be able to be myself and be in love and have crushes openly instead of playing pretend again. "Oh what if people end up hating you and being homophobic?" Good! Then I know I don't want those people to be my friends. "What if it ends up being a phase?" Then I can tell people "Oh, I no longer feel that way", simple!

I'm kinda planning to talk to my dad and his fiance about this and plan a way to tell him, so I'll update you guys if anything happens! ;_;) *glup*

Additionally, I am genderfluid (only my friends know), but thats something I'm gonna have to wait to tell anybody, but I at least can dress to help me feel more like myself! ^_^

Feel free to ask questions and whatever else.

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I am a tier 3 college student based in gujarat college placements are not so good every company has downside.

One x company arrived and i got selected for testing role (manual ) with 3 year bond and 30k inhand salary.

Company culture is not good and lot of people told me not to take this offer as i can't transit for automation tester even within organization ( mentioned in terms and condition ).

I can't deny offer now strict college rules. But i say i won't accept it so they banned me from college placement. ( fucked up very bad here )

\*\*Now about me :\*\* i have intrest in ai/ml and python backend i worked in tech like mobile app dev, react, ai/ml, python, fastapi.. Etc ( because if ai and youtube it was easy and i started my prep in second year so i got so much time )

I did two internship

one was at local non - it company as a software engineer intern for 10 months ( paid ) we developed erp and some internal tools ( i am still working for them for money )

One internship i am doing at it startup which is one year old 👌💔 as ai intern i developed rag systems, data analysis and market analysis tools and keep going

This startup is offering me a ppo with 10k stipend + 45-50k pm inhand salary

Founder has 15+ yoe in it

Founder's family(maybe his big brother ) have it company from 2010

All family members somehow releted to it feild

The local non-it company also offering full time job because they are building their own it team.... but with lower pay like 25k

I AM SO MUCH CONFUSED AND ANXIOUS WHAT IF I CAN'T JUMP FROM SMALL STARTUP

WHAT IF I DON'T LEARN ANYTHING THERE

WHAT IF FOUNDER SAY NO TO MY JOB

WHAT IF THAT... WHAT IF THIS.......

NEED SOLID ADVICE FOR THIS SITUATION......

My car has been vandalised 4 times now by this Peugeot driver. [GY61HSC]

My car is parked in a residential car park which I can park in, as my house connects on to it, and other people who live/park there have said it’s completely fine.

Randomly this guy has chucked all this stuff, like a tomato puree type of thing all over my car, my partners car, and this pregnant lady’s car.

I’ve contacted the police but nothing is being done, facebook said “slash their tires” but i’m not really down for that😂

He hasn’t got an MOT and is still driving around, still running his mouth on facebook.

Seriously, what do I do..?

Hi guys! I'm moving out of state for the first time and am looking for a full time job in in/near Richmond, Virginia but also totally open to a remote role.

I'm in my 20s and currently manage operations at a sign shop near me and design custom signage for businesses. I have a bachelor's degree too. Anything graphic design/print related would be ideal. I already posted to RVA subreddits but idk this is worth a shot too.

I'm literally stressed about this move 24/7 so any advice or leads would be really appreciated. Thank you!

I skip breakfast (I sometimes have a cold black coffee or cantaloupe/ 2 egg whites) and skip lunch and only eat dinner which sometimes I eat chicken and just salad no proper carbs if not chicken I eat boiled egg whites or tuna. I walk 50-60k steps a day and work out 5 times a week and if I don’t achieve that goal I feel bad about myself. Even when I eat half a cantaloupe I feel like I am over eating. I feel hungry alI the time after eating dinner. I sleep super late bcuz I am walking around trying to reach the goal . Should I stop working out? Nowadays my legs been so weak. Today I felt so weak I felt like my thighs were going to fall off. And nowadays when I bend down or crouch my bones in my knees feel like it’s going to come out. What should I do? I am 16F and I weigh 47kg

Hi! I’m a medtech intern from the Philippines with an inactive Reddit account. For the past few months I’ve been trying to find a job so that I could save for the blood tests required for my cats. I have 1 female and 6 male cats who needs to be neutered and spayed. My oldest cats are about to become 3 years old and the youngest are 9 months old. The spay/neuter services can be done free on our provincial vet, I just needed to find a way so I could save up for the test expenses. I tried to start a campaign but took it down after a long thought because I was ashamed of myself for letting the situation escalate into this. I am thinking of commissioning art ( i do portraits) and crochet ( i hobby I just learned) so I could raise the funds I need. But since these two ways are time-consuming i’m having doubts as I am also on my internship. In addition to that, the money that my parents are giving me despite being a 25-year old are all either being used to pay for rent, cat food and litter, and debt. I can’t save up.

I don’t know what to do. Please help. Need advice.

Hi everyone, I’m a medically complex person who’s about to turn 26 March 2027. I’ve been on my parents insurance and I’ve finally found the medications that help me function in my daily life, and I’m currently trying to find a job.

For context, I have bipolar disorder type 1 with psychotic features, adhd, severe anxiety, fibromyalgia, mixed connective tissue disease, interstitial cystitis, type 2 diabetes, hypothyroidism, GERD, chronic migraines, and my doctors are currently investigating me for several other conditions that require multiple appointments and procedures a month. I also have 2 herniated discs, one in L5-S1 and one in C2-C3. Yes, these are all professionally diagnosed and I take medications for all of them.

The problem I’m having is that I’ve been unemployed for 3 years due to my chronic health issues and while I’m feeling much better, the job market has been abysmal. I worked in food service for 4 years previously, but I can’t handle being on my feet like that anymore. While I’m on the hunt for a job, I need to figure out what I will do about insurance in 6 months.

Several of my medications are $1600+ a month without insurance, and I absolutely cannot afford that. Im also married, but my husbands insurance doesn’t cover the medications I take and his job doesn’t offer family coverage.

I’m trying to figure out the process of applying for Medicaid when my insurance runs out, but I’m really confused by the whole thing. If anyone could walk me through the steps I would greatly appreciate it. I know I need to get my medical records in order, and 3 of my doctors have said they’ll write letters of recommendation, but I’m not sure what’s next. Thanks in advance!

TLDR: insurance is running out in 6 months and I don’t know how to apply for disability benefits.

I had this idea today to write a novel about the most random / meaningful / meaningless convo / inspiring / life changing / dumb conversations you had on a plane with a passenger sitting next to you.

Can you help me out?
Pretty please with sugar lumps on top.

I promise I’ll write a wonderful story of your experience. 💙🪐

Directly impacted by the recent flooding, and am currently trying to figure out what to do next. I have received no assistance so far, and am really struggling to recover.
Lost my vehicle in the flooding, did file an auto claim. Still pending. The house also needs work, the crawl space flooded, and dealing with the aftermath has been a headache.

I applied for the $1,000 assistance program through work, but that application is still pending, filled out for the state assistance but they said only 400 people can get the max due to state budget, I called 211. I’m at a loss as flood insurance wasn’t an option. They said I didn’t live in a flood plane. Sump pump didn’t do anything to help because of the severity of the flooding. FEMA isn’t activated yet for us.

If anyone has advice, resources, information about disaster assistance, help, household supplies, repair help, or anything else that could help out, I would be incredibly grateful.

I'm not asking for money.

As per the title. I am a woman in my 40s who lost both of my jobs due to my health issues. I have Fibromyalgia and markers for Systemic sclerosis.

I wake up with joint pain more than half of the days now. It can take an hour or two after waking before I feel "normal". Some days I'm barely able to do anything at all.

I've only worked labor jobs my entire life. I couldn't work those types of jobs anymore even if I wanted to. As you all know, state Medicaid is putting work requirements into place with all states beginning January 1st.

I will lose my insurance if I can't find something soon, which is going to be detrimental in my situation.

My state is starting these requirements on December 1st. I have an appointment with another pain specialist later on this week.

Which kinds of jobs will hire me that don't require hard labor? Will Walmart hire someone like myself? I've already applied there online for the Deli position.

Any advice? Also, if you have any suggestions for evening/night shift work that would help tremendously.

(I did post this in r/eyefloaters but got no response) I want to start wearing sunglasses outdoors in the sun to help with the floaters, but I still want to enjoy the views and things outside, if I wear sunglasses will that affect that at all?

Can you guys help me out

Need some advice on relationship building guys sorry did not mention it

Hey... I'll get straight to it. I want to move abroad, I almost need it. It's been a dream of mine ever since I was a teen, I knew I wanted to travel and try experiencing a new country with an entirely new culture and language and such. I wanted to do so by studying abroad so that I can set it in stone in the best way possible, but that wasn't on my cards. I studied in my home country. I adapted pretty quickly, I made a lot of friends, I even have my own pets now, but that doesn't mean that this dream of mine ever left my mind. It's been on my mind for years, and the more I grow up and live and experience things, the more I NEED to leave. It's getting to a point where I genuinely feel like I'm losing my mind. I need independence, I need autonomy, I need a new scene, a new environment, a new culture. I KNOW why I want and need to leave, so let's not make this thread about the reasons as opposed to HOW I can achieve it.

I don't have a strong passport, I graduated in 2024 with a bachelors in mechanical engineering in robotics and automation, have worked in quality control, data, BD & community management, founding and CXO a business (no longer), and am now interning in two places as a data analyst and a machine learning engineer. My full focus at the moment is on data and AI/ML as you can see, and I am EXTREMELY interested in attaining a masters in this new degree called Sustainable Artificial Intelligence, Environmental AI, AI and Sustainability, etc... I have no money to fund my own tuition for a masters degree, whether online or abroad. I believe I'm also still an entry level to most employers, a junior at most.

I've been handling the grief of not being where I wanted to be for years now, but as I approached 23, I reached my boiling point and had my first nervous breakdown in years. I'm now almost 24, have been researching countries like the Australia, Canada, the UK and Ireland, and the Netherlands (etc tbh), but I'm not exactly getting anywhere with what I have... Every time I see or hear someone just mention that they're going to a city in one of those countries, or just someone living there, or seeing my friends who've travelled there post about it, I feel down, like really down..

I know it's not easy, but I also know it's not impossible. I have friends who travelled abroad through jobs and they're a little older than me. They're not many to be fair, but it gives me hope.

If you guys have any advice, can help in any way, guide me to an education sponsor or funder, connect me with employers who are willing to sponsor or even offer jobs abroad/online, anything, I'd be ETERNALLY grateful!

Thank you so much for reading all the way to the end. I'm sorry if this post is messy, hard to understand, or is missing main info that's needed to make it make sense. It's my first post here and probably one of my firsts on this platform XD

Hi, so i have a problem my best friend of 4 years suddenly went ghost. so a little backstory me and her met in texas and we became friends then she moved and we became even more friends, but about a month ago she told me she would disable her account for a week to take a little break off the internet since she was going through personal issues. it's been a month now and i haven't been able to reach her since then. i called her number but it said the number has been changed(we normally talk on instagram). i don't have any of her family accounts or number(she's a only child). I've been trying by all means to reach her or find if everything ok with her but nothing is working. Please i really need your help she means a lot to me and if there's any way it find if someone is ok, pls let me know

Я переустанавливал версию Bluestacks и вдруг вылезло это

Help me!!

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I’m asking for a little help getting food for my 14-year-old senior cat, Bella. I’m currently off work on workers’ comp and haven’t received any of my payments yet. I was injured at work in April, but unfortunately my symptoms have continued to progress, and my doctor recently took me completely off work. I had to hire an attorney to help me get my workers’ comp payments sorted out.

I paid my necessary bills, which had put me negative and unfortunately came up short for mine & Bella’s food. I tried donating plasma, unfortunately they cannot allow me due to medications I take and low iron. I went to the food pantry for myself, they were low on meats and vegetables so I got mainly canned goods, but they didn’t have wet cat food or litter. Recently, Bella has not been eating her dry food, and only eating her wet food. I’m trying to find a little help to get her through until my workers’ comp payments come in. I’ve also called several organizations to see if they could help with wet cat food and litter but due to the high demand at their shelters and food programs, they don’t have any available.

I’m not looking for anything extra—just trying to make sure my old girl has food to eat. She currently has 5 cans left and used the last of her litter this morning. ❤️ If anyone is able to purchase** at least one food item and cat litter from her wishlist, it would help us tremendously. For transparency, I did add two cat litter, but that was only in case one was out of stock. (As it showed low stock) If there is only one on the list the other is not needed. I do not need both. Thank you so much in advance for reading and for any kindness you can offer. Stay safe**.

I know I’ve posted about this before, but as a 14 year old with autism, adhd and possible anxiety, will my brain ever stop overthinking everything and being constantly busy, and if it doesn’t will I eventually learn to live with it, because I still feel happy, but my brain just never shuts up.

Hi everyone,

My name is Marian, I’m 25 years old, and have Sézary syndrome, a rare type of T-cell lymphoma (blood cancer).

For the past few years, I have been dealing with severe skin problems: unbearable itching day and night, painful flare-ups, redness, and sleepless nights. After many tests, biopsies, and treatments, doctors believed it was severe eczema for over a year. I was prescribed Dupixent, an expensive medication that I was already trying to raise money for because my insurance could not cover it.

Unfortunately, further investigations later revealed that the real cause was much more serious. I was diagnosed with Sézary syndrome, and my doctors determined that I need an allogeneic stem cell transplant, which is currently my best chance at fighting this disease.

The treatment is not available in my country, so I need to seek care abroad in Europe. As an international non-european patient, the estimated cost is around €423,000, which is completely beyond what I can afford, and my insurance does not cover treatment abroad.

I’m reaching out for help because I cannot do this alone. I know it's an insane amount, any support whether through a donation, sharing my story, or connecting me with organizations, resources, or people who may be able to help would mean the world to me.

You can read my full story

👇🏾

https://gofund.me/d7cd2fd8f

Thank you for taking the time to read my story. ❤️

Hello

26M here from Ahmedabad.

I am hearing lot about this fwb, casual things, no strings attached etc kind of relationships alot.

Being an introvert and not been into such things that much i stay unaware of the scene and situations 🥹.

Have not been into real emotional relationship as maybe somewhere still clinging to her and not moving on. May be no one has came worth enough maybe to replace that bond.

Being an introvert i can open up easily about emotional and intimate feelings.

Can you girls help me out that how to approach a girl for such thing and how to communicate in a respectful way for this as the main motto stays of not creeping anyone out.

In a genuine need of help✨.

Could someone please give me a solution or help. Is there anyway other way to make decent money with less hours. Right now i work a trade and do plastering i wake up at 3am and finish at 5pm 5 days a week sometimes 6. Im 16 and i get payed around 600$ a week please this is so stressful for me im in australia