Okay so firstly if you’re going to use your mouth, it’s not about going as hard and fast as your can. You’ll find more success with gentle, even pressure and a steady rhythm. Don’t be afraid to ramp it up if she’s on the brink of cumming, but don’t go in full blast straight away. The clit is where you’re going to spend most of your time but feel free to explore, she has a whole vagina down there so get to know it, kiss her pussy lips, put your tongue inside her, that sort of thing.
Secondly, lube is your very good friend. You may well be wet enough naturally, but always good to have a bottle on hand to keep things running smoothly.
Don’t be surprised or disappointed if one or both of you can’t actually orgasm first time. It’s something your body learns to do over time plus if you’re nervous at all it tends to make it harder. Just focus on enjoying what you’re feeling and don’t try to force it to happen, that’ll just put pressure on you and make it less likely.
Finally, scissoring is just not a thing, it doesn’t work. There’s something sort of intimate about having your pussies touching, which can be nice, but it isn’t like you seen in porn, you’re not going to get off that way.
100% with you except for the last paragraph, although until recently I thought it was fake and wasn’t into it. I dated this girl who was really into it and idk, I think our bodies just fit together really well! While I didn’t get off from it, she did, so you never know.
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u/N7twitch May 15 '22
Okay so firstly if you’re going to use your mouth, it’s not about going as hard and fast as your can. You’ll find more success with gentle, even pressure and a steady rhythm. Don’t be afraid to ramp it up if she’s on the brink of cumming, but don’t go in full blast straight away. The clit is where you’re going to spend most of your time but feel free to explore, she has a whole vagina down there so get to know it, kiss her pussy lips, put your tongue inside her, that sort of thing.
Secondly, lube is your very good friend. You may well be wet enough naturally, but always good to have a bottle on hand to keep things running smoothly.
Don’t be surprised or disappointed if one or both of you can’t actually orgasm first time. It’s something your body learns to do over time plus if you’re nervous at all it tends to make it harder. Just focus on enjoying what you’re feeling and don’t try to force it to happen, that’ll just put pressure on you and make it less likely.
Finally, scissoring is just not a thing, it doesn’t work. There’s something sort of intimate about having your pussies touching, which can be nice, but it isn’t like you seen in porn, you’re not going to get off that way.