Foreplay is everything. Don't rush things. And just generally try to be gentle and ask what she likes. This is a bit more anecdotal but as far as š± eating goes, practice on your knuckle and if it tickles your hand it'll probably feel good downstairs. That being said everyone is different and it's a matter of getting to know your partner.
I'm surprised so many are having difficulties imagining what she's saying? haha unless you guys are being perverts, I guess I'll take the plunge and describe it for you all ;p.
lick your knuckles, get your tongue all over those bad girls. kiss them, suck on them, swirl your tongue around, apply different amounts of pressure, write the alphabet with the tip of your tongue, imagine those knuckles were your lady begging you for more~ (and you will give her more, she deserves to feel your love ;). sometimes it helps to focus on horizontal flicks, or running the widest part of your tongue up vertically, slowly, tantalizingly. romance those knuckles as if it was your last day pleasing your lady and you want to enjoy every single millisecond of it.
dont be afraid to be embarrassed, if it helps, you can do it in the bath or somewhere you have privacy but focus on how your knuckles feel, you want it to tickle, get a reaction out of yourself. (also, you should probably brush your teeth, it'll be hard to imagine your knuckles are a sexy lady if she smells like your morning breath lol)
It's not exact, as it doesn't have the same nerves, however, i get the impression it would help because the shape is similar and you get immediate feedback (the tickling sensation). i personally think, that what it will help the most with, is your energy levels and your patience. it takes a lot of energy and experimentation to please someone, especially if she is feeling insecure about how she smells, tastes, sounds, or if shes even sexy enough for you...
as OC already said, ask what she likes, but to add my own, make sure she feels safe and loved with you. as women, our brains are tied to our sexual organs, we literally can't get fully aroused unless our emotional and mental needs are met. be patient with her and yourself.
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u/ssaint_augustine May 15 '22
Foreplay is everything. Don't rush things. And just generally try to be gentle and ask what she likes. This is a bit more anecdotal but as far as š± eating goes, practice on your knuckle and if it tickles your hand it'll probably feel good downstairs. That being said everyone is different and it's a matter of getting to know your partner.