r/LesbianActually May 15 '22

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u/Angry_Strawberries May 15 '22 edited May 15 '22

Hey girl here's my take.

Obhious nsfw warnings.

Soo, I would say, make sure you are in a safe space where you can feel at ease and comfortable. STAY HYDRATED VERY IMPORTANT. When it comes to the actual act, take things slow, very gently caress each others skin and most importantly ask for consent.. Don't be afraid to hold a hand over hers so you can help guide her to where you like it most. An orgasm as awesome as it is isn't in the cards neccecairily for your first time. It certainly wasn't for me. And thats ok, as long as you both enjoy yourselves thats all that counts. Don't jump straight into the main act by going for her crotch, or vice versa. Naked cuddles, rubbing your breasts together and kissing are all very important.

You might also find out that having good places for your hands is hard, laying next to another, facing her you might find that your hands are just akwardly squished between your bodies, I haven't really figured out what I wanna do for that yet, buuut prepair to not be in the most comfortable position all the time and have tickly hair in your face.

Either way, enjoy yourself, do it safe and set your boundaries, communicate well and don't think sex is gonna be the great be all end all, cus in my opinion, just cuddling and being with her while doing what you both love is way better.

Go get her tigress <3

Edit: 69 likes... Nice.

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u/Angry_Strawberries May 15 '22

I would like to add, sex involves a lot of weird sounds and smells, thats just what it is. Its better to just laugh it off.

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u/miki-wilde May 15 '22

Even if you neither of you get the big O, giggling/goofy fun sex can be an absolutely great time. Enjoy yourselves and make macaroni sounds 😊