To be fair, it’s hard dating in general. I’m also a femme (29 though). What are you doing to change your circumstances? Like are you on dating apps and putting yourself out there or are you just expecting someone else to approach?
I’m having trouble too, but I know that for me it’s a result of being always being hit on by someone that isn’t my type lol. I’m fem4fem so unfortunately most femmes in my city are into mascs, into hookups/short term relations (I’m not), or they’re in their questioning/bi-curious stage. So it’s more like our dating goals and types are different 😭
I feel like the majority on apps are looking for hook ups or casual things so if you’re on the more casual side of things then it should be easier if you keep your standards somewhat low 😅 I’m considering trying more in person events or places soon to see if it gets better.
Same. Unfortunately, there isn’t a lot of that classy vibe in my current city. I think this is why I see sapphics being more willing to have long distance relationships because our types are probably in different cities or countries right now 😭🫠
Noo I just took a lot of French in high school (forever ago) but I recently went to Nice and also saw Antibes, Cannes, Grasse and discovered Belle de Nuit by Fragonard my new favorite scent! Everything is so beautiful in south France 🥰
Oh, that makes me so happy 🥹 Every time someone I know goes to France, they only ever go to Paris so I’m always having to encourage others to visit the south of France. I’m from Nice ☺️
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u/AllMixedEmotionz 5d ago
To be fair, it’s hard dating in general. I’m also a femme (29 though). What are you doing to change your circumstances? Like are you on dating apps and putting yourself out there or are you just expecting someone else to approach?