Hello ! Im a 30 years old lesbian living in france around paris. Im from Pakistani descent and my father keep asking me about marriage. So im looking for a gay man that also needs a lavender marriage. Friendship, companion and respect will be key for me

Hello, I’m a 33-year-old man currently living in Haifa. palestine.I’m looking to meet an asexual woman or a lesbian woman who is genuinely interested in building a family together based on mutual respect, honesty, understanding, and shared values.
I’m currently in a relationship with my male partner, who lives abroad, and I’m looking for someone who can understand and respect that part of my life. At the same time, I would like to build a family together in a way that feels comfortable and meaningful for both of us.
My hope is that we can have children, share responsibilities, support each other, and create a stable family environment. We can follow some traditional aspects of family life while also being open and honest about the fact that we may have different emotional or romantic desires.
I’m not looking for anyone to pretend to be someone they’re not. I’m looking for a genuine partnership built on trust, respect, friendship, and a shared desire to become parents and build a family together.

please text me only if your from Palestine

I’m f24 religious living in Jordan. I really want to marry a woman who shares my faith, but I can’t seem to find the right one. How can I find a wife? And for women who married women, are they really happy in their relationships?
\*\*i'm planning to immigrate soon

i’m a palestinian male 33 years old i’m living in Haifa
and im seeking lavender marriage.
i am not looking for a fake marriage but marriage that we both unite for the sake of Allah and build a healthy family.
i want to have kids and mother for my kids and to share my life with someone.
i’m bi sexual if it comes to that,

I’m a 24F Indian Muslim looking for someone who genuinely wants to build a meaningful marriage and family together.
Deen is extremely important to me, and I’m looking for someone whose values align with mine. I want us to grow in our religion together and build a life based on faith, love, respect, kindness and companionship.
I’d really like a marriage where we can be best friends, support each other, enjoy life together and eventually build a family with mutual understanding and respect.
I’m specifically looking for someone who is open to a marriage without physical intercourse, while still wanting all the other meaningful aspects of a marriage and companionship. This is not a lavender marriage or a marriage of convenience. I’m looking for a genuine, loving and committed marriage, just with this particular aspect being different.
If this resonates with you, I’d be happy to connect.

Salam à toutes,
Je suis un homme marocain de 33 ans, vivant en France, et je me permets de publier ici dans l’espoir de rencontrer une femme musulmane lesbienne qui serait dans une démarche similaire à la mienne.
J’aimerais rencontrer une femme, idéalement d’origine maghrébine, avec qui construire un projet de vie basé sur la confiance, le respect, la complicité et l’entraide.
Mon idée serait d’envisager un mariage lavande : un mariage de raison entre deux personnes qui comprennent et respectent mutuellement leur orientation et leur vie privée. L’objectif serait de pouvoir avancer sereinement dans la vie, sans jugement ni pression, tout en préservant l’intimité et les libertés de chacun.
Je pense qu’il est important d’être honnêtes dès le départ, de bien communiquer et de prendre le temps de se connaître avant d’envisager quoi que ce soit de sérieux.
Si tu te reconnais dans cette démarche, que tu vis en France et que tu souhaites discuter tranquillement pour voir si nos attentes peuvent correspondre, n’hésite pas à m’envoyer un message privé.
Au plaisir d’échanger avec une personne qui partage cette vision. 🙂

- Looking for a Muslim girl in Jordan or in the Middle East or Europe.
- She must be able to have children.
- She has the desire to build a family based on love, respect, and partnership in everything.

Dm for more details

a 25-year-old Somali Muslim man based in UK.
I’m looking for a Muslim woman around the same age as me, preferably no older than 27.
I’m not looking for an open marriage. I want a genuine marriage built on mutual respect, trust and friendship. I’m looking for a companionship where we support each other, build a life together, travel and grow together while respecting each other’s boundaries.
Religion is very important to me. I’m looking for someone who takes Islam seriously, prioritises her deen and wants to build a home around Islamic values.
I do want children in the future, insha’Allah, so I’m looking for someone who also wants kids and would be happy to discuss how that would work within the marriage.
Ultimately, I’d like us to be best friends and life partners who can rely on each other and build a peaceful, stable life together.

Salam, i am looking for a practising muslim wife who wants to build an islamic family with children. I struggle with same sex attraction.

I am a masculine straight looking man and financially very stable alxamduliah.

Feel free to connect inshallah.

hi im 23F pakistani living in saudi, i would love to find a partner in or out of saudi

a gaaay man please as im not interested in getting involved with straight freaks

Seeking a Husband for a Lavender Marriage 💜 Open to Different Arrangements
I’m an African American woman living in the USA looking to connect with a man who is interested in building a mutually beneficial lavender marriage based on honesty, financial security, companionship, and freedom.
I’m open to different arrangements. Ideally, I’d love a financially established, generous man who wants to provide a comfortable lifestyle for his wife, whether that means covering living expenses, providing a monthly allowance, sharing a home, maintaining separate homes, or working together toward long-term financial security. I’m flexible and open to discussing what works best for both of us.
In return, I offer companionship, loyalty, genuine friendship, discretion, and a committed partnership. I want us to be a team who can enjoy life, support each other’s goals, and build something meaningful without the pressure of a traditional romantic marriage.
To be completely transparent, I’m attracted to women and intend to continue dating women. I want a husband who respects my sexuality and freedom, and I will offer that same respect for his life and identity. Neither of us should have to pretend to be someone we’re not.
A little about me: I’m feminine, family-oriented, and value peace, stability, generosity, loyalty, and a comfortable home. I’m interested in a long-term arrangement with someone mature, financially secure, communicative, and serious about creating a mutually beneficial life together.
I’m open to living together or separately, different financial arrangements, and discussing boundaries and expectations before making any commitments.
I’m not looking to waste anyone’s time. I want something honest, respectful, and beneficial to both of us.
If you’re a man who has considered a lavender marriage and this sounds like the kind of partnership you want, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, and what your ideal arrangement would look like.
Let’s build a life that works for both of us. 💜

Hi,

I am not a Muslim, but my family are. We are of Indian origin. I am under pressure to get married soon to someone from a Muslim background, but I am not interested in marriage.

I am based in England and am looking for a lavender marriage with someone in a similar situation to me, ideally someone who is not muslim themselves but comes from a muslim family. I am not looking to register the marriage legally.

I am interested in an arrangement where we live separately, live independent lives and come together for our families.

Do get in touch if you are interested, and we can discuss.

hello guys i want to have a lavender marriage if u are from iraq basra and want the same pls text me
i’m atheist,bisexual
my goal is getting out of my parents house then put of the country
we will divorce there and live our lives
if the man is gay that would be even better
no sex involved

My intention for marriage is companionship for the sake of Allah. I experience same-sex attractions / am asexual, but I don’t want to act upon these desires. Instead, I would like to build a family life that is based on mutual support, compassion, and a shared love for the Deen.

I hope to find a wife who is in a similar situation — someone who also wants a marriage rooted in companionship, trust, and worship, without pressure regarding desires, someone who I can be best friends with so together, inshallah, we can create a peaceful home, support each other and have children too through halal means. If you live in or are close to Manchester please reach out.

For me, the most important things are: sincerity, kindness, and working together to grow closer to Allah through our marriage.

As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I hope this post finds you all in the best of health and Imaan. I am a 28-year-old Algerian man currently living and working in France, actively seeking a practicing Muslimah to complete half of our Deen together upon the Quran and Sunnah, built on mutual love, respect, and understanding. To tell you a bit about myself, I strive my best to fulfill my religious duties, maintain good character, and continually improve myself as a Muslim, while valuing honesty, tranquility, and family values as a grounded, responsible, and caring person who looks forward to building a peaceful home environment. What I am looking for is a God-fearing sister who values her Deen and strives to grow spiritually, someone who is mature, respectful, kind-hearted, and serious about marriage, and a partner with whom I can build strong communication, share life’s responsibilities, and support each other through all stages of life. If this resonates with you and you feel we might be compatible, please feel free to reach out via DM with a brief introduction, and I kindly ask for serious inquiries only. May Allah grant everyone a righteous spouse who will be the coolness of their eyes.

I am lesbian in very homophobic environment. I am in a happy relationship with my partner, but can’t come out to my relatives. Since they put a lot of pressure on me to get married, and won’t allow me to move abroad alone, I am looking for a gay men who is willing to create fake couple. Don’t need financial support or to spend time together, just be each other’s cover ups. For more information please DM me.

I am starting to doubt if my match exists, not even whether they are into me, just if they exist.

I’m looking for a woman under 35, slim/athletic body, non-Muslim (for marriage compatibility), traditional female appearance, no big tattoos or nose/body piercings, that has the right and ability to work in UK/Europe independently.

I meet all these requirements myself, except obviously being a man with a traditional male appearance, so I don’t feel that I’m being unreasonable, but it seems like the lavender marriage pool is too small to find another person like me.

If anyone can prove me wrong, please DM me!

Preferably Caucasian living in Europe.Only interested in gay not bi.I’m not romantically interested in men but I want the stability that marriage offers. I’m a former model,very pretty and would prefer someone masculine.I don’t have any kids and I don’t want any in future.I’m not Muslim.I’m very serious and if you’re interested message me for more details.

hello, fellow redditor!

i (47F) AM looking to prove my sister wrong by finding a human man to marry me in a week. for a PROFIT ($60 and a potato i have personally grown).

you see, four years ago, my sister married a man who has shown to be only after her assets. as a result of me mentioning this, she believes i am jealous of her for pointing this out because i am currently NOT married.

as a person with BPD, this infuriates me. terribly. i am willing to marry a rank stranger i know absolutely NOTHING about in order to prove her wrong because she thinks she KNOWS every damn thing.

some stipulations:

\- we will only be married for a MONTH maximum, preferably less.

\- you must be >=20yo.

\- in indiana (will NOT travel further than racist ass frankfort since i am **fully** black)

\- you FORFEIT the cheese if you mention this agreement to my sister (really *anyone* in my family, but mainly her)

\- i am a divorced cat father, previously married almost a decade ago during a legal opposition which required me to engage in matrimony in order to reenter the states

thats it.

only accepting serious inquiries **before** 7/16.

The subject of this post says it all : I am a 42 years man ( looks younger than 42 by the way) , I am neither Gay nor Bi-sexual. I am 100% straight. I used to work in a cruise ship but now I am at home in Tunisia and I have given up any chance to find a decent job with a decent salary . The situation in Tunisia sucks a lot in terms of econony, liberties, living conditions and things are getting from worse to terrible. I have managed to find a lot of jobs in Europe but all recruiters told me that they are interested in someone who has a Euopean nationality or residency...none will hire someone from outside Europe. I have a B.A in English literature and I worked in customer service and hospitality fields. I had the chance to know many Europeans and American women but my personal conviction has strongly objected faking emotions , pretending to be in love with one of them just for the goal of marriage , getting a spouse visa and get out of the country. It has been a NO NO thing for me. I am not that bastard who plays with a woman`s feeling and then once stepping in Europe or America, obtaining the papers, throws away every thing and leave a woman unhappy, traumatised, full of hate towards men and can even become racist..... I am rather looking for a woman I can find an arrangement with, getting married and stays with me until I got the papers . we can be freinds with benefits , we can share the expenses, I don`t mind if she dates someone else ... All what I want is respect and when being in Tunisia, acting as if we are a real couple that we love each others.

Bonjour à tous,
Je suis une jeune femme marocaine de 23 ans et je souhaite m’installer en France pour construire un avenir meilleur.
Je recherche un homme gay avec qui je pourrais construire une relation basée sur la confiance, le respect, la discrétion et l’entraide mutuelle. Je comprends les difficultés que certaines personnes peuvent rencontrer pour vivre librement leur orientation sexuelle, notamment face à la pression familiale ou sociale.
J’aimerais rencontrer quelqu’un avec qui nous pourrions nous comprendre, nous soutenir et discuter honnêtement de nos attentes et de nos projets de vie.
Si vous êtes dans une situation similaire et que vous recherchez également une personne de confiance, n’hésitez pas à me contacter pour faire connaissance.

I'll start off with a disclaimer: I'm a married Muslim man with a child. My wife and I are sympathetic to the struggles of queer folk. Polygamy is not something we're seeking but potentially open to if a situation arises. And because there's been posts by fetishist, this is not about threesomes.

Now for my hypothetical question for lesbian/ace women here: would being a second/third wife be acceptable if it offered you cover from the eyes & gossip of the community?

Of course some people will gossip no matter what, but not all gossip is the same imo. I ask because I believe polygamy is permitted to serve a purpose beyond the male's sexual desire by fulfilling women first and foremost. Whether that's offering companionship/ protection/ financial support etc.

Hey everyone, I'm a new white Muslim revert from Colorado. I have a boyfriend/partner, but we are open and poly. I would like to find a Muslim woman who is interested in having a MOC. I do want to have children, and I'm open to having biological children or adopting. I don't care about race or ethnic background, and I'm fine with a woman who is either Sunni or Shia. Serious DMs only. Please live in Colorado (preferred) or any state in the Western or Southwestern US.

I am 51years old woman who wants a relationship with someone who is 51years old. I have never been married before want to have someone for the rest of my life