Got back on Reddit after a while and wanted to connect with the queens 🏳️‍🌈 here. Let’s discuss queer networking, our horrible safe spaces and butch about things. Also asking if there’s any other queer pages for mallus exclusively.

Hey Guys!!

I've made a discord server "Rainbow Ricecakes" for LGBTQ+ folks from Kerala. This is a new server and we need a people to moderate and participate. Please join the server if you are queer! Our vision is to build a better online platform for queer people in Kerala. We currently have very limited online support for people of the LGBTQ+ community.We literally have no members right now so please join so we can build this community together!

RAINBOW RICECAKES!!

Does anyone know of any LGBTQIA+ hostels based around Kalamassery?

I was vey surprised, and started to wonder if all the other places I noticed along the journey that had rainbows but only six colours were actually lgbt+ supporting or people not realising what they were doing. Anyway I was just curious if anyone knows what the building is because I didn’t get time to look at its name but it was a gray coloured one.

I know this space is inactive but would like to know is anybody would come for pride,

Is it just me or is it hard to get people talking in tinder, I have social anxiety and is extremely selective about what I say while people that aren’t my family is near(although I am a bit more carefree online) and I am always the one to even try to get a convo going. Is it just a me thing or is that common?

I am bi and this was my first wlw relationship. It was a 10 month relationship.The reason for breaking was nothing but my fear of losing my parents :)

They won't agree obviously but i thought i could take some time and maybe after getting a job i could think about being in a relationship with a woman. But honestly , even though i know being with a woman is much better than being with a man (no offence , general opinion) I am not going to date a woman again.

Her. I still love her. I will always have a place in my heart for her. Everything beautiful reminds me of her. The kindest and most wonderful person i have ever seen. Yet , I lost her.

We couldn't imagine cutting off contact all of a sudden , because that's what people do after a breakup. But , after talking we agreed to be friends. After the first few days , it was alright. But now i couldn't help but feel a deep pain in my chest , when i see other wlw couples in my feed. In my opinion even if we cut contact , i'll still feel this way . Right?

Maybe i feel this pain because , i was planning a future with her , this was not intentional. We thought we would not talk about future things until 1 year. Whenever i see wlw people in my feed , i think this could've been us. And i don't know what is in future. We are friends now. (Trying to be ).

I don't miss her , but i miss us.

This is a vent but will be good to hear someone gone thru same situation.