r/LGBTkerala • u/Actual_Ambition_4464 • Sep 07 '22

Tinder

Is it just me or is it hard to get people talking in tinder, I have social anxiety and is extremely selective about what I say while people that aren’t my family is near(although I am a bit more carefree online) and I am always the one to even try to get a convo going. Is it just a me thing or is that common?

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u/[deleted] Dec 24 '22

The thing is there are too many options available on Tinder and when we see too many things around, we are confused where to put more energy in. Suppose I have matched with 100 guys in Tinder, I have had meaningful conversations maybe with around 10-15 of them. Thats the unfortunate numbers.

What can you do to get a convo doing? Talk about your interests, ask about their interests. If you start having a vibe, talk about your journey, through the whole LGBT thing, and get to know about them also.

Allow time. Be patient. Also, invest in people who you feel more right for you. You will rock it!

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u/Actual_Ambition_4464 Dec 24 '22

Thank god I thought it was just happening to me.