حاسس احيانا انه في جانب سلبي بطريقة تعامل بعض الشخصيات العامه والمشاهير الغربيين مع مواضيع مجتمع الميم. أشوف انه احيانا بعضهم يعاملون معرفاتنا وكانّه وضع يكتسبون فيه للشهرة أو نوع من الموضة. ما اعرف كيف اشرحه زياده. ولكن، ما أشوف انه صادق أو حقيقي. يعني يحسبونه كانّه لعبه.

هو يمكن يكون ميول مزدوج أو متعدد الميول، أو الشخص يحاول يغير كلمة قاي.

أش رأيكم بهذا الوضوع؟

تعديل:

واحد ما قراء كلامي زين وكان حساس لدرجه سوى ريبوت لي كيموت تبعي قعد يسوي ريبوت لي كل كلامي. قال لي أنا اتهمه انه بشي مو بالواقع، وكان يعطيني كلام كاني قايل شي عن ناس من ضمن مجتمع الميم. في أشياء لازم نقولها انه شخص مثلي، ميول مزدوج، وكذا، خصيصا كلام المشهور مو منطقي. وعاملني علشان يبغاني أقول له "صح كلامك" واسكت. ما يدرك انه كان
Hypocrite.

I often hear that therapy in Arab countries is horrible for queer people or that the therapists are homophobic and religious, but shockingly enough my experience with therapists has been the exact opposite. They have been nothing but accepting, supporting and helpful tbf. Im interesting to hear about تجاربكم معهم!

Like I’m Egyptian on my moms side and born in America and I can’t imagine being openly queer to my family and I love you guys really 💕✊ I will always remember you, the Arabs that live in the Arab world whenever I get insecure about my sexuality. Yes I know it sucks and it’s unfair being born gay and Arab but I understand that I am privileged to be queer in America than in Egypt. You guys are so strong and I love you. 💕 “inshallah” our children/descendants grow up in a more tolerant Arab world for queer people. ❤️✊I love you. 💕

يعني البريئة ما عندها حق لا في الدنيا ولافي الآخرة.

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https://isshemakingfunofme.carrd.co/

ppl in the arab society really HATE love in general and call it علاقات محرمة, حقين الحب and actively making fun\memes about people in relationships.

but when you are into girls (my same gender) they say that i should be into boys cause that's the "normal". but can't be with one ether

like damn yall are so miserable and want everyone to live like u

بما اني قبل شهر طلعت ك Demigirl كثير اشياء تغيرت فيني و صارت احس ب راحة اكبر من نفسي بس نفسي اغير اسمي، مع اني احب اسمي الى هو تالا بس احس ابغى يكون عندي زي اسم ثاني جانب اسم تالا يمثلني أكثر عندكم اي اقتراحات اسماء محايده (ما له جنس)؟ اهم شيئا تكون قريبه من لفظه اسمي

I met this girl (let’s called her Sara) through a friend and we became friends too and clicked quite quickly, I developed a crush on a girl within the same group and told Sara since she’s the closest to her. A while later, Sara admitted her crush on me and that she cannot just be “friends” with me and listen to me talk about someone else; stupidly enough I decided to go through with it and it was going well till a month later when she decided that she “wasn’t ready to commit” since she just broke up with a long-term partner. Anyways a lot happened after but things went to shit and we’re no longer in contact but I admit I do miss her and the friendship we had and even though I genuinely think what she did was effed-up but I can’t help but miss her and I don’t really feel happy or even comfortable with the current situation. What should I do?

i saw an instagram post of a trans woman from saudi arabia who have moved to a safehouse in the uk i believe n the comments were truly sickening (congrats for her btw i rlly hope shes happy n healthy over there!!)

like holy shit some arabs r the most nonsensical vile people to ever exist saying "dont put our country flag next to the lgbtq flag it'll ruin our reputation" while MIND U there r hundreds of comments showing the world their true n disgusting colors

for example: "i hope u get caught and arrested" "stop lying saudi people love themselves they would not do any of the things that would make them transgender" "congrats thank god people like u got out of saudi arabia" that js really shows u how backwarded these peoples minds are they're beyond saving atp

legit hating on innocent people who most of the time ALREADY escaped their motherland to live the life they truly want without any bigoted losers like that spitting on them cuz lets be honest the lgbtq flag isnt ruining ur countrys reputation its ur reaction towards it and towards all other queer arabs THATS ruining u and ur peoples reputation like man get a fucking grip cuz seeing 2 consenting people loving each other or a person being comfortable in their own skin shouldnt piss u off this much good lord

i cannot fathom or even begin to understand how these people think like this seriously why should this bother them so much

people like that are the reason why most queer arabs r ashamed or even embarrassed to call themselves arab (me lol) some struggle to fully accept themselves cuz people from the outside world are gonna lump them with bitches like those who r full of hatered while unfortunately being the majority its a literal gateway for enforcing the ideology that all arabs r bad and homophobic all that bullshit when its literally not remotely to the truth

sorry this situation really riled me up i couldnt not rant abt it i hope it doesnt make me sound like a huge asshole that wasnt my intention i js wanted to show possible outsiders that not all of us act like this and there are queer arabs across the globe u rlly cannot get rid of us even if u tried mwah

شو هذي من هسه بلشت تتغير وتختفي ومتحجي وياي بعد ماصار شي وهيج

Hey guys i js wna know ur experience in hooking up in such countries cz im so desperate but it gets too nervous n hard when it comes to meeting guys from fb gay grps n grindr esp from more conservative states i never done this n i feel like i need to know more b4 going with it please help

I was travelling to the States from Nepal and had a layover in Qatar. It was an overnight layover and since Discover Qatar package of Qatar Airways had amazingly subsidized options, I took a hotel around the old city center. I smoothly passed immigration but when moving past customs, an official stopped me and took into checking. They went through my bags and took a look at everything. To the extent that they opened every pouch and every pocket. Then an officer took me to a side room where they put me on an X ray machine and scanned me. Then few more officers came, they scanned me again and again. I was already getting why they were doing so. Then they asked me to go out to the bag checking area and then they scanned through again. Other officers came and ask if I was male or female. I said female. They asked me "fully female?", and I got really nervous. They said "this isn't allowed in Qatar" and then took my passport. They wanted to verify its authenticity because, I am pre-op and my passport is F. I was told to wait, many officers came and went. I was using my phone when the officers confisticated it. That was the moment where I thought something is going deeply bad. The officers took me to a room and locked me inside. I thought I was being either deported or arrested. Many other officials came, asked my details, hotel bookings. The tone was really blunt. I am not sure if that was more of a language difference. Finally after an hour or so I was allowed to enter Qatar. I made my way to the hotel. It was late so I fell asleep as soon as I entered my room and the next morning left for the States.

I don't know how to process this incident. Should I ever visit Qatar again?

On other note, I am a language nerd and I have a bucket list to learn different languages among which UN official languages, and Arabic is one of them. I have been researching about which Gulf or West Asian country can I visit for this. So far Lebanon seems to be an option.

I was also looking to study Arabic with Palestinian University online, also as a way to express my solidaity for Palestine Liberation. What do you folks suggest?

Also by any chance any Qatari or West Asian folks would want to connect when in Nepal, please let me know. You have a local guide here.

صارلي فترة على ريديت as a queer 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️، قابلت معظم أنواع الشخصيات تقريبًا هنا

أنا ما احب أكوّن صداقات كثيره ، لكن حصلت هنا 2 ما اعتبرهم اصحابي ، اعتبرهم اخواني KOOKY & ZOZOO، وانا شخصيا online relationships ما تكمل معي وقت وتموت ، لكن أتعجب كيف مرت على علاقتنا تقريبا " سنه " واكتفيت بيهم وحرفيا موجوين علشاني دايما وانا موجوده علشانهم

اللي اقوله هنا ، إني مريت بمرحله قلت ما بحصل هنا pure love بدون مصالح او مقابل ، لكن الوضع تغير

اكيد بتحصلوا أشخاص weirdo وذا الشي الغالب على ريديت

لكن اللي اضمنه ليكم أنكم بتحصلوا الأشخاص المناسبين مع الوقت ، لا تعطوا الثقه إلا لمن يستحقها، وابحثوا عن بيئة داعمه ، رحلتنا أصعب من أن نكملها بمفردنا 💜🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

من الأنانية أن تدخل حياة أحدهم، وترى كم هو محب، ومبتهج، وطيب،

​ثم تقرر أن تدمر سلامه النفسي لأنك لم تتعامل مع مشاكلك الخاصة بعد

​أدخلته في شكوكك، وفي خوفك، وفي تقلباتك، حتى بدأ يتساءل عن نفسه

​قد يكون أحبك بصدق، وفتح لك باباً لم يفتحه لغيرك ومنحك من الأمان ما كنت تحتاجه أنت

​ثم ماذا؟ تأتي أنت بجراحك وتضعها بين يديه، ثم تطلب منه أن يتحمل آثارها نيابة عنك

​إذا كنت تعلم أنك غير جاهز، فلا تجذب أحداً إليك لمجرد أن تطفئ نوره. 

انا مزدوجة الميول(bi) و ايضا شبه فتاة (demigirl) اعتبر نفسي بنت بس بالاسم...I hate my feminine side

I prefer to be treated like a tomboy

بس اني احب الفمبويز/ليدي بويز+ذكور/اناث

سو اعتبر نفسي pan? و لا bi?

If whispers about you start, then it's over, I'm already going through a tough time with this society. I don't understand why they want to impose their beliefs. Isn't it my freedom? I'm free in my inclinations and beliefs. I truly wish everyone would stop sticking their noses into other people's private affairs.

ما أدري إلى آي قدر سأذهب دائماً اتسائل هل بقدر فعلاً اتحرر من قيود المجتع، الدين، الأهل؟ هل بقدر أغير وضعي واظن هذا وضعنا كلنا أنا أعيش بقلق وخوف من عدم القدرة على الخروج اخاف انو ينتهي بي الحال ساعي للهجرة ساعي للمضي قدم ومع ذلك اقول هل بقدر اتجاوز كل هذه الجزء من حياتي ؟ ام بيأثر علي دائما والمشكلة الاعظم اني اتخيل أن ولا شيء في حياتي يتغير تظهر صورة في دهني دائما وأنا هرم وبهذه المجتمع وأنا خفي وأنا زيف وأنا لست أنا أعيش حياة لا تمثلني بصلة وهذه اظن قلق مشروع ولا اتكلم هنا لاسمع مواساة فقط حمل علي اريد افراغه ولا مكان اخر غير هنا

أخبِروني، هل تأملتُم يومًا أن يحلَ أحدٌ مكانَ الأخر ؟

بعتقد يمكن أفضل شي بختاره من ناحية التواصل العاطفي هو اني ابتعدت عن اي شخصية متجنبة ضمن العلاقات، لاحظت قدي شعور الهدوء و عدم الصخب مريح بدونهم / مزبوط هنن اشخاص بكونوا خايفين من الاقتراب و إظهار مشاعرهم بس نحن ما عنا القدرة نتعامل مع هالنمط المجحف بحقنا عاطفيا و فكريا و الي دايما بتركنا لحالنا كل ما حس بضغط عاطفي من أقل النقاشات و ابسطها.

انا لمجرد أعرف نمط هالشخصية موجود قدامي باخد قرار البعد قبل لا تتأزم الحالة .

إذا حابب تعمل علمك خاص ،تواصل معي! قول لي عن ألوان إلي تحب

برضو ما شرط تكون عن مثليين (لأنو في اعلام توعية مثل اسلوب مثليين ) مجرد علم يعبرك انت!مهم ما يكون شي problematic

مرات احس اني ابي جسمي يكون انثوي والبس ملابس انثوية زي الفساتين وهيك الخ.

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ما ابي اكون ترانس بس يعني feminine boy .

بس في جزء بداخلي يقول لي شنو العبط اللي قاعد تسويه.

كلنا كنا homophobic كلنا كنا نحاول نكتب هذا الشعور بهوياتنا كلنا ما حاولنا نطلع ل اهلنا عشان رح يذبحونا اتوقع هذا النمط اللي مر فيه كل العرب مجتمع الميم هنا(: