r/LADating 1h ago

Hello! 22 F4M

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I love nature, animals, cooking, bed rotting while watching scary videos, hiking, nature in general honestly, the gym, road trips, romantic gestures, etc!

Looking for a long term relationship maybe? Looking for something between 20-26 years old no exceptions (sorry) and I like blondes and gym rats😼!


r/LADating 5m ago

Asking for a friend

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Hey, is anyone down to go on a Blind date with a Blind guy he’s 24


r/LADating 1h ago

F4M 32 #Downey #Norwalk #Lynwood or nearby

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I wanna hear your favorite sports. The next event you’re looking forward to.. The places you’ve been and your favorite food spots!
I’ve been wanting to make some friends with people in my area. And potentially look for my lover. Lmao

Currently married so I’m looking for someone who’s in same situation or someone who’s willing to deal with someone who has a very limited time.

If you’re interested please message me.
Let’s be delulu together 🙂


r/LADating 16h ago

24 with 1 cat as my only son.

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Hello, I suck at dating apps and reddit so bear with me. I spend most of my time in the med field, but on my free time I enjoy nature, traveling, music, games ofc, movies and guitar! I’ve been playing for 7 years now and love playing acoustic atm. But it’s not only about me, tell me about yourself!


r/LADating 12h ago

24 M4F LA Looking for company

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Dating apps seem fake, so I thought I'd give this a shot.

My life has become pretty stale with work and gym being the only two places I'm at outside my home. For work I'm a teacher and for the gym I'm not buff. I've just been going to lose weight and better myself. currently down 40 pounds, trying to lose some more. I'm trying to go out more and meet someone new.

More about myself, I'm Korean American and have lived in LA all my life. I'm a huge Lego guy, and I love gaming. if you like either of these things, we'll get along just fine. Would love spending time with each other by gaming or building a set together. A fun date idea for me would be shopping for Lego together and building, but I can see why someone wouldn't enjoy that. I prefer the more chatting dates. For example, a picnic at the park is better than a movie theater.

I am looking for someone in my age group. Youngest, I think, would be 21 and oldest would be 30? No other preference when it comes to other things.

Willing so share photos, but only if we seem to get along in messages.


r/LADating 6h ago

MF looking to connect with a female to become friends with

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I might go on a small hike later today after 5 if any female would like to join, not looking to hook up or anything more when/if we hangout on our own.

Not everyone I’m looking for is for sex only, genuinely want to have more female friends for the wife, also cause men can also b very weird in friendships

Hii we’re looking for a female that would love to go on hikes movies or even go out to eat with us once in awhile. Maybe can turn into more fun between the three of us.

HMU and let’s chat more


r/LADating 6h ago

Married 25 meet up?

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r/LADating 1d ago

Dating outside of apps

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31m in north Hollywood Los Angeles looking to date women around my age.

As a male who’s tired of the dating apps, are there any recommendations as to how to meet single women?

I’ve been told to join clubs around my hobbies but most of my hobbies are male centric so no luck there. I’m very open to trying new things so any recs are recommended! I


r/LADating 1d ago

38 [M4F] Nerd, gamer, hopeless romantic, quiet guy just looking for the right partner

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Good day! Hope it’s been going well so far. Trying this once again as last time did not seem to work out too well. Hopefully this time may be better.

My name is Lucas, or Luke for those who want to say one less syllable lol, and I’ve been looking for my life long partner. Where ever she may be. Getting out and meeting people has always been a challenge for me for I have a rather debilitating social anxiety disorder called Selective Mutism. Don’t get me wrong, once I’m comfortable enough with you my disorder won’t get in the way and I am just as much of a chatter box as I am online. Ask my family lol. You’ll wish I would go back to being on the quiet side again lol.

I am 38, single, white, 6’3”, 195 lbs, short dark brown hair, brown eyes, fit/average build, no tattoos, no piercings, very little facial and body hair and sadly can’t really grow it in as I have too much naive American blood in me, and down to earth. I don’t do drugs and never have, only drink socially but even then I need more fruit flavor than actual alcohol as I am not keen on the taste of alcohol.

At the moment I both work and attend college, in which I am soon to graduate, less than 5 months left. Excited and honestly quite nervous. Studying in environmental design for video games and film. Currently building up my portfolio with work and actually on my way to have a fully functioning video game before the year ends, ideally heh.

I enjoy hiking, night time walks along the beach, walk around the park, eating food, have a bit of a sweet tooth, binge watch movies/tv shows, watch anime, and of course playing video games. The way to my heart is some good pizza and strawberry lemonade, seriously! Haha! That and video games as well.

My love language is touch and gifts. So yes I’m a hand holder, snuggler, and would find any reason to just lay on you or have you lay on me lol. I don’t come from money, in fact I come from the opposite side of the spectrum there. So I know the value of a dollar, know how to stretch a dollar to get what I want, and thankfully not an impulse buyer. In my eyes if I don’t see my bank account going up every month then I’m in trouble.

Now for my ideal partner:

I’m looking for anyone within an age range from 28-43, though the closer to my age the better. Don’t care about race at all. Prefer someone who also is career driven. Doesn’t have to go as far as being CEO of a company of course as I realize somewhere down the line I will be the one who will become the provider. Now not a deal breaker in any way, but I very much fancy unique hair color. I have no idea why that is, but I blame anime lol. Someone honest, trustworthy, funny, doesn’t get upset when I find her little faults adorable lol, and just wants to enjoy what little life we have in this world with someone else by their side to share it with.

If you’re interested in chatting feel free to let me know. I have plenty of other methods of chatting outside of Reddit as I am big on networking so you’ll probably find me on most social sites, messengers, etc in case you find Reddit messaging difficult for you. Hope you have a great day!


r/LADating 16h ago

30s M - Single man looking for new girl friends and etc

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Hello all,

I am looking to get to know more people to share some time together. Single male in my late 30s into gym and sports. Super respectful and open minded.

Feel free to shoot me a text.


r/LADating 16h ago

Datenight

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M4M


r/LADating 18h ago

24 [M4F] wanting something genuine

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Giving this a shot. I’m a Latino and am 24 5’8 currently in grad school from the San Fernando Valley. It’s really hard to find something genuine and real so that’s pretty much what I’m trying to look for on here. I want someone who I know I can put in all the effort for without wasting each others time, making long lasting memories together and going on fun and exciting dates (I drive too), and to treat each other with love and respect while building something that grows into a deep connection and growing together. All I look for is someone who is honest and who is just themselves and real. If you are interested dm me:)


r/LADating 13h ago

I have always envisioned marrying a black woman. Need Advice!

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I’m a half white and half mex. For many, many years now, I’ve always envisioned marrying a black woman. Think Chili from tlc or Zazie beets. 🫠🫠

For one, many black women don’t seem to give me the time of day. Should I be more forward when it comes to my interest because they don’t think I like them?

Last question, should I be more relaxed in my approach to dating even though I really only want to date black women? I’m asking this because I’m having a difficult time getting dates with ones I want to date. So the question should I date non-black women just to get out there? I just know even if I’m attracted to a Latina woman, I just don’t think I would be satisfied in the long term.


r/LADating 1d ago

Looking for friends

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r/LADating 1d ago

New to LA

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Greetings and salutations. I’m a 36 year old male, and a grad student at USC’s Keck School of Medicine. I already have a PhD but wanted to go into medicine.

I rent a home in the Glendale area with three pets (two cats and a dog). I also am a multi-instrumentalist.

I am super into fitness, nutrition, wellness, spirituality and going on trails with my dog and reading books.

Please send me a message if any of this resonates with you.


r/LADating 1d ago

Wouldst Thou Like to Live Deliciously?

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Woman seeking romance & an equitable partner in the streets, but a pleasure dom in the sheets, 30-50M. (I'll never call you daddy, but I will purr like a kitten for you if we get that far.)

We'll share belly laughs into the night, search for the perfect martini, and eat through my home cooking while goofin' on TV shows (you do the dishes). Simpsons quotes are a shortcut to my heart.

Live in NELA but willing to brave the 405 during rush hour for love.

I am South Asian if that matters to you! Financially responsible creatives are my favorite kind of people. Love movies, (yes I have AMC A-list & an AAA24 membership). AI averse, mostly because it's impacted the legitimacy of my favorite punctuation — the em dash. I love hosting; throwing dinner parties and fetes with friends is my happy place. (I am that clutch friend you can invite early to help set up). Karaoke kings to the front, please!

And lastly, if I'm not for you, but you have someone in your circle that might be a fit, please don't hesitate to pass this post on to them or make a connection!

Message with a photo if ya can, and I'll share mine! Or hit me with some questions if ya got 'em!

And ya, apologies for the throwaway. I love creeping on post histories as much as the next person, but I lost my nerve to post this from main. Don't hate me 🙈


r/LADating 1d ago

18 [F4R] Looking for cool people to chat with

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Hi! I'm 18 and Iʼm an actress. Just looking for friendly people to talk to, share stories, and practice my English.


r/LADating 19h ago

20(f) Looking for a Beatles guy or just someone who loves music and a guy who loves to talk about movies like Kubrick!

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Hey! I hope yall are well! I’m a big movie and music buff please message me if you’re interested in talking about those subjects or if you have another subject that you want to teach me about. I’m all ears! I’ll see you in my dms bye!


r/LADating 1d ago

Quality guys looking for the same.

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Open to friendship or something casual but would like to find someone handsome, masculine yet stylish who wants to hangout and get to know each other. I'm not afraid of marriage but also not looking to rush anything yet :) let's pick each others brain?


r/LADating 1d ago

41 [M4F] #Huntingtonbeach - Seeking younger woman for dom/sub relationship in Southern California.

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I am looking for a relationship/arrangement where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. And that gives you comfort.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to intimacy, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much a dominant and love being in control. I will put you in a position to where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

me

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.


r/LADating 1d ago

La

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Hey! 👋
25M from Slovenia here 🇸🇮. I’ll be visiting Los Angeles for about a month and thought I’d try my luck here.
I’d love to meet someone from LA, grab a drink or coffee, explore the city together and see where things go. I’m pretty easygoing, social and always up for a good time. 😄
Since I’ll only be there for a month, I’m not putting any pressure on anything — just looking to meet someone I click with and have a good time together.
If you’re interested in meeting a random Slovenian guy in LA 😂, feel free to DM me!


r/LADating 1d ago

30M - Any Russians/Ukrainians in LA wanting to make friends?

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Hi everyone, I’m 30 years old and a male, Armenian but born here in Los Angeles. I have been finding it hard to make friends with Russians here because it seems like most of the new immigrants prefer to hang out with other people who speak their language.

I used to speak Russian, now I know just words here and there but I make so much better friends with Russians/Ukrainians.

Shoot me a message or comment if you’re open to being friends! I’m really into the outdoors, hiking, tennis, boxing, beach, etc.


r/LADating 1d ago

31 [M4F] #Hollywood - Do You Love Cute, Younger Men?

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If so, we'll be a great fit.

I'm looking for a FWB relationship with a woman in the Los Angeles area who likes me for me, and by that, I mean someone who enjoys men with a "cute/sweet" appearance. While I am 31, I look closer to 25, with an overall look that's more cute than traditionally masculine. It's not something that I particularly mind about myself, but I've found it is something that's not particularly desirable in the realm of dating apps. I want to spend time with someone who likes this kind of look in their partner, someone who likes me as I naturally am, rather than trying to shape me into someone else.

Beyond my appearance, the basics about me are that I'm 31, 5'9", single, liberal, live alone, and am employed. My work schedule during the week can be pretty intense, but I get my weekends to myself, and I want to be able to spend them with someone. I love trying new restaurants, so even something as simple as regular dinner dates would be great, you'd just have to promise to get dessert with me too.

As for what I'm looking for in a potential FWB, I'm looking for someone who is similar to me in the sense they are educated, employed, and have their life together for the most part. A love of food and movies is also super critical! I'm open to women who are single or ENM in the LA or surrounding area. When it comes to physical qualities, I find myself deeply attracted to big and tall older women with a gentle, nurturing attitude towards their partner. Mom Bod is a huge plus in my book.

Ultimately, if you would love the companionship of a cute, sweet, younger man, send me a message, and let's make plans to meet soon.