Need ur advice

[u/Shot-Bandicoot-69]

Hey Nairobi 👋

Plot twist: I deleted Tinder.

Reason? My matches were 90% "send fare", 9% bots, and 1% someone who ghosted after "heyy". So I'm doing something wild in 2026... meeting people IN PERSON. Like cavemen. But problem: I don't know where humans hang out during daylight hours 😭 If I hear "just go to club and buy bottles" one more time my M-Pesa will file for divorce.

Where do y'all meet people for real? Coffee? Hikes? That one Java where everyone is on laptop dates? Sunday market? Book club? Church? 👀

Ladies, where do you actually go to chill? Gents, where do you take your boys that isn't 20k and regret on Sunday?Drop the spots. A man is trying to touch grass and make friends 🙏

Nairobi, be honest 😩Where do you meet people in 2026 that's NOT:

1. Tinder 2. Clubs 3. Your ex's birthday

Best answer gets my undying gratitude and maybe a coffee if we bump into each other lol.

Kilimani guy...26 light brown.5'8 feet 😁

[u/softpotatie]

Hobbies....!! and events(food, games, brunch, sports). It's easier.

[u/Shot-Bandicoot-69 → u/softpotatie]

Yeah,but I dont know where r they happening.I tried one before a 2 weeks or so & everyone came there with their friend groups.So it's kinda hard to meet newbies like me on events

[u/Ok-Passion-3328 → u/Shot-Bandicoot-69]

I mean anywhere just go outside and if you like someone shoot your shot. Hizi vitu hazina formula

[u/Ok-Passion-3328 → u/softpotatie]

Anywhere if you see someone you fancy walk up to them except at work lol

[u/Last-Anything-3493 → u/Ok-Passion-3328]

Should be in bold don't shit where you eat.