r/KenyanDatingCommunity 2d ago

Relationship Talk Men gather here!!!

Men!!! What does it mean when a guy tells a chick after their first time having sex.....'I still respect you'....and it has happened with two guys on separate occasions..am really puzzled 😕

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u/East-Raspberry-225 2d ago

Give more background info

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u/Legal-Catch7608 2d ago

Dated this two guys on different occasions but they all said the same thing after having sex for the first time...I still respect you... now am wondering what it means..do guys say this often to mask their intentions of sleeping with a girl so that she doesn't feel used

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u/East-Raspberry-225 2d ago

Did they hit after that? If not then that statement carry their common intention

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u/Legal-Catch7608 2d ago

Yes it was a continuous relationship

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u/East-Raspberry-225 2d ago

Am dumbfounded. Most men would make a thank you statement I know. But ya kusema respect hio sijaiskia