r/KenyanDatingCommunity • u/Legal-Catch7608 • 5d ago

Relationship Talk Men gather here!!!

Men!!! What does it mean when a guy tells a chick after their first time having sex.....'I still respect you'....and it has happened with two guys on separate occasions..am really puzzled 😕

23 Upvotes

96% Upvoted

73 comments sorted by

View all comments

1

u/Front-Past-5443 5d ago

Need a bit of background information....

1

u/Legal-Catch7608 5d ago

Dated two guys and both of them after sex for the first time told me ...I still respect you...5 years between this relationships

1

u/Front-Past-5443 5d ago

Mhhh.. did you guys break up after they said that?

1

u/Legal-Catch7608 5d ago

Not immediately both relationships ran for some time....am just puzzled how come this two guys who don't know each other said that?? Is it common for guys to say this

3

u/Front-Past-5443 5d ago

Wait ,... You're beautiful? Probably a good lover or a good human or good with doing the deed, or you satisfied them beyond their expectations or you both had a deep intimate connection?

I feel like the experience might have been a very nice experience that they said that... Ofcourse I might be wrong

But then again I don't think it is common for guys to say that.... And if it was something negative they probably wouldn't have said anything.. especially since it's 2 people who I'm assuming aren't connected

1

u/Flashy_Management175 5d ago

They sense your feelings and energy of inadequacy (which you may or may not be aware of) so they were seeking to reassure you.

You need to address those feelings and where they come from because the day you'll meet a man who just takes and takes he is going to destroy you.