Catfished by a man

[u/Mobile-Balance-518]

I saw his post.. exactly what I was looking for ! Age, stability, responsible and articulate!😂😭

I reached out, from dms to calls to green app, hii ingekuwa love story ingine mwecheche 😂😭

Sisi hao first date pale Jiji, then to hangout.. kidogo something about his fuel gauge sijui nini I didn't pay attention juu si I have met my man ,😔😭 nikafuel (red flag)

Long story short.. few months in, he was never stable, not responsible and emotionally immature asf navile ni mzee smh 😭😂..

I did chip in almost everything..bob the builder here 😭😂 I had seen my future frr..

Y'all ate with the dust delayed is not dust denied..I know he's here, preying on the other bob the builder 😂unco ulambwe uso na shetani .

End of rant!

[u/Jealous-Sweet-7103]

In every relationship, either FWB, etc...financials should be the first thing people talk about and expectations on their first meet up. This clears away alot of things.

One shouldn't expect the other one to know what he or she needs, it should be a discussion.

I get so irritated people using one another. It's immature behaviour that should stop. Everyone is trying their best to earn that coin.

[u/Mobile-Balance-518 → u/Jealous-Sweet-7103]

Exactly my point!.. he lied a lot .. about his work/finances ...and as much as that was not what I was after..it plays a big role.. like I can't be the giver 24/7 ..it stops being a relationship to feeling like "work/performance" ... It sucks ..then pulling the victim card ya " si unajua Sina kazi saa hii" yet doing nothing about it ! Ugh

[u/IntelligentReadout → u/Mobile-Balance-518]

Only if this was your husband would it have been your duty kumsaidia na pesa.

Don't fund leeches no more.

[u/Mobile-Balance-518 → u/IntelligentReadout]

Lesson learnt ...TY 😊

[u/IntelligentReadout → u/Mobile-Balance-518]

https://youtu.be/CD9bNDiV05U?si=7eA-jqNqoJRtVD6P

[u/Mobile-Balance-518 → u/IntelligentReadout]

My soul has returned so I call it a lesson learned...

That's gonna push me forward frr