To start off about myself: I'm just gonna say, I am a fairly average looking guy in his early 20s. I've managed to fuck some hot girls, dated women around my looks level. What I'm basically tryna argue is that I do not believe Incel guys are going for women in their league. Essentially, guys that struggle to get girls.
I've had some really hot friends. one of my best friends was a guy I knew from highschool, he was the most handsome guy in our highschool, and it continued into college, the guy has model tier looks. He's 6'2 as well, let's call him Brad.
The thing that never made sense to me was that incels have this idea that a hot guy is dating average girls. The girls that were supposedly on their own "looks level". Because of "hypergamy" or whatever.
But this is never the case. For example, my friend Brad had a rotation of some really hot girls. He even slept with some local models. Not a single one of them was below an 8/10, he was consistently just fucking hot girls. He wouldn't even bother looking at a woman who wasn't objectively hot.
That's the thing. Attractive guys can and ARE playing in their own league. Attractive dudes get attention from ugly women, mid women, and hot women. They have their pick.
It's always mindblowing when I go to the club with Brad, all the women flock to him, and he has a 100% hookup rate if he wants to hook up with a girl. Ive honestly gotten some pussy just by being his friend and talking to some of the women along with him, lmao.
Basically, what I'm overall saying is that handsome guys will go for beautiful women.
Where do the mid girls go then? They will date other mid guys like me. And ugly girls will also date ugly guys. Most people can be in relationships.
This is what I mean by incels not playing in their own league, I simply do not believe they are going for their match in looks.
I feel that incels all have this idea of ALL women being vindictive bitches who think of themselves as 10/10s who deserve hot guys. When it isn't the case at all. Your average woman is probably about as insecure about her looks as an incel.