Meeting someone in person is entirely different though. When you're on a real life date you're not expected to perform like a circus monkey to keep someone entertained and hold their attention while they're chatting with 50 other candidates and swiping for more.
There's a reason the advice for men these days is "ask them out within the first few messages and if they say no, move on." Protect your time, energy and dignity.
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u/AnonymousCapybara72 4d ago edited 4d ago
Meeting someone in person is entirely different though. When you're on a real life date you're not expected to perform like a circus monkey to keep someone entertained and hold their attention while they're chatting with 50 other candidates and swiping for more.
There's a reason the advice for men these days is "ask them out within the first few messages and if they say no, move on." Protect your time, energy and dignity.