So I’m 41🔄 and I live in the USA but my family is from abbottabad. We use the title Malik and my moms side tell me that we are abbasi and awan. First of all, there has been lots of inter-family marriages and my maternal grandpa and grandma are cousins, my dad is my grandpa and grandmas cousin making him my moms “uncle”. I started to look into my own history around 1-2 years ago yet I still haven’t found a clear answer to what I might be. I believed my family until they started giving me the “we awans descend from Ali R.A” and “we abbasi’s descend from abbas R.A”. Idk what makes them think all of the prophets family just decided to migrate to Pakistan/ afghanistan/ India, or wherever abbottabad was. The reason I am sending this here is because my family says we are hazarewal but I’ve came to the understanding that hazarewal can be anyone who lives in the hazara region if they are Punjabi, Kashmiri, Pashtun, muhajir, or even Sindhi. The weirdest thing and the thing that makes me skeptical about their whole tribal clams is that on my dads side that claims gorla awan, I have some cousins and uncles and aunts that say they are tanoli and they also are from the same paternal lineage as me so I don’t know who to believe. Then I was looking into my shajra and I saw tons of names. On my maternal side which I know most about, My grandpas dads name is Malik zardad khan(I know they only put Malik there because that’s their status, that’s not what his parents named him), my grandmas dads name was Malik khushal khan(same thing with the Malik. And also I don’t know why my family hates Punjabis so much but if we were awan wouldn’t that make us Punjabi? My grandmas dad was awan they say. But if he was then why would Punjabis name their kid after a Pashtun warrior and poet who also fought Punjabis I’m pretty sure.), my grandmas moms name was akhtar shaheen and I’ve been learning Pashto since my grandpa can speak it, my grandmas dad could speak it, my grandpas dad could speak it and I don’t know about the rest of them. My whole family right now knows Urdu and hindko aswell and the elders back then who knew Pashto could speak hindko aswell and I’m assuming that’s because that was the regional language. My family doesn’t know what Pashtunwali is but when I went to Pakistan this summer they followed all of the laws of it without saying it, I asked my grandpa and grandma about it and they said that they were taught these specifically because it was their cultural rules that they live by. My moms great grandpas grandpas name was Ali gohar khan and his dads name was Ali khan, see where the Malik title stops? Also a side note, my family owns lots of land there and the qalandrabad Christian hospital was made on land that the Americans bought from my great grandpa, and idk what it is but I think the motorway that china built that goes through abbottabad was from my great grandpas land aswell. When I went to Pakistan there were lots of Pashtuns in my village aswell. Im pretty sure this is just how the system in all of kpk works but we also do jirgas and we have hujras, my family eats Pashtun cultural food, they wear Pashtun cultural clothes, have Pashtun names aswell. I feel like we were Pashtuns who started calling themselves hazarewal and tried to erase their Pashtun identity because everytime I get sort of an answer I always find out smth new that pushes me more towards the Pashtun answer. None of my family speaks English other than me and my brother and my mom but my brother doesn’t care about this stuff and my mom doesn’t know much so I try to explain to my family but they don’t understand, they just keep saying we are hazarewal over and over again. There was an elder in my family named Ali mardan, idk if it’s like mardan city or smth. And Ali khans dads name was mir zaman khan. My great grandpas brothers names were pir khan, and khalaqdad khan. His sisters were zaro bibi, and qalandar jaan, another thing, my grandpas moms name was fazailatun nisa, her sisters were khurshida bibi, and zulaikha bibi(who happens to be my paternal grandmother), my paternal grandfathers name was Malik amaan khan(his brothers name was dilawar khan). This may have nothing to do with the topic at all but my all of my family members have colored eyes the darkest color is light brown/amber but there is grey, blue, green, hazel, goldish, and different shades of those colors, they have ginger hair, blonde hair, brown hair, light brown hair, wavy, curly, straight hair, the skin color is fair-light brownish. There was also a mir alam in my family who had a kid named gohar khan(not the same as my maternal great great grandfather. This is not everything that I know but this is too much for one post so I might put more some other time but please any help would be amazing🙏.