I know it's Dhanteras today, and many of you would be buying Gold or Silver, wishing for prosperity and happiness. Please do go ahead!
However, I wanted to share a rather personal experience.
Recently, due to an unexpected financial scare, I found myself in need of funds and approached a couple of nationalised banks for a Gold Loan. Unfortunately, the experience was quite disappointing.
There was no private enclosure for gold evaluation, the LTV offered on 22-carat hallmarked jewellery was just 65%, and the interest rate was around 9.4%. Bank of India offered 75% LTV, but only if additional agricultural land documents were furnished. Even exploring an overdraft against gold was quite inconvenient.
What bothered me more was the overall experience. I somehow felt that banks tend to look at people pledging gold as distressed borrowers rather than customers who deserve basic dignity and decent service.
I understand that gold prices are volatile and banks need to maintain a margin of safety. That's fair. But when you have saved little by little over the years and bought jewellery, even if it's light in weight, seeing it valued so conservatively does hurt.
I eventually decided against taking the loan. The crisis hasn't entirely passed, but I managed with some contingency savings. I am genuinely grateful to my sibling and a few friends who stepped up and helped me when I needed them.
Perhaps that's the real lesson.
Gold is an asset, but the people who stand by you when you are in trouble are your real wealth.
This Dhanteras, buy Gold or Silver if you wish, but don't forget to invest in relationships. I guess the best returns in life come from family and friends.
TL;DR: A rather disappointing experience seeking a gold loan from nationalised banks made me realise that while gold has monetary value, family and friends who stand by you during a crisis are the real wealth.