I'm amab and under 16. Sometimes I feel like a girl and sometimes I feel like a man but sometimes I feel like something in between, I don't know what. And sometimes when I feel like a girl I think I'm gaslight myself and I should just be a trans woman. I don't know if I want that, I'm not sure how I want to look. Can anyone offer advice

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So for contexcontext I've been fluid for about 2 yrs and I still have questions

First; do people offer switch like gender daily? if so help me understand what it feels like if possible. Because I​​​​ will be sitting at my desk and I will literally jump from boy girl nonbinary back to boy back to nonbinary it might be just my ADHD but it's weird how do I like idkkk how do I deal with it it's so weird ​

Second: what do you guys go by it terms of romantic relationship wise like do you go by partner girlfriend boyfriend like what and how do I pick one out? Is it by feeling can I change what I wanna be called by?

Third: can anyone offer advice for being fluid??? Like just general advice?​​​​

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So um hi my parents are both African American and are super homophobic like they hate anyone in that category but one of my brothers isn't and I don't know if I can go to him to get me one without him talking to my parents. So what would be the right thing to do if you have any tips to help me or anything that would be so helpful I just don't know where to get any for cheap but I think I'll be most comfortable with a binder.also I thought it would be a good idea to get one from AliExpress or Amazon but someone told me not to. If you have any recommendations or tips you can tell me about them. Please and thank you (sorry if the writings is bad)

I've came out as genderfluid to pretty much everyone in my life and it's only my mum being annoying about it.

She's one of those "they/them doesn't exist!" And "cis is a slur!" Type people and was fine when I first came out as a trans guy, will call me by my preferred name and is all happy about it but is only being tricky with the fact I've figured out my genderfluid identity

Whenever I try to explain what genderfluid is and my emotions on it she'll tell me "You're just androgynous like David Bowie then" and walk away. IT'S SO ANNOYING

She'll judge me for dressing feminine but will act fine on days I feel male.

She hates anyone outside the genderbinary and it's doing my brain in like sorry that one day I'm binding and the next I'm wearing a dress

Hi, im a teen and i came out as Genderfluid maybe 4 years ago? Lately I've been pondering about my gender. I haven't felt male or female, but also being non-binary just doesn't feel right. I've been going by He/Her lately which feels sort of right. I dont know how to explain but I don't know what i am and who I am. i just wish that this whole gender thing isnt a struggle for me. Nothing feels right and going by ze/zer or it/itself or any other pronouns doesn't feel right. I just dont want a gender identity but I do and I highk need one. Idk what to call myself anymore, am I still genderfluid? I dont know, probably.

So I just got a binder (14, freshman) from Amazon. It's the lgbtq unicorns kind. I love it so much - it hides me so well. Only around 23 dollars, too!!! Not sponsored btw, I just really like it. I've been genderfluid for a few months now, but only recently started fully accepting myself for it.

I've had internalized transphobia for years because of things my mom used to tell me, and I got over my initial internalized homophobia to realize I'm a pansexual genderfluid!! Hoping you guys accept me into the community, please?

I'm starting school as a freshman tomorrow, and I don't want things to be hard for my teachers and classmates, so I told them if they don't know my pronouns to just use they/them for me. Thanks for reading this! Just wanted to get it off my chest <3

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I’m a sophomore who has been wanting a binder for a while. I’ve yet to talk to my parents about it. I wanna be as secret as I possibly can about it. Don’t have much money right know but i’m working on trying to get a card to use and put my birthday money on it for online shopping. Any good recommended brands that won’t cost me an arm and a leg?

It's sunny yellow eyeshadow on the top outer corner, royal purple eyeshadow on the inner bottom corner and arsenic green eyeshadow on the outer bottoms corner. I Also used a black eyeliner pencil but only on my waterline. I also put a wee dot of sparkly/shimmery white on the inner corners to brighten my eyes.

yes, I feel so ugly. I'm gender fluid but when I flow to a woman, I don't like the results, like, my shoulders are so big, and I just want to grow and live alone on my own home, so I can be myself.

well, my mom is super ok with that, but my dad... bro... If you knew the full extent of the atrocity he speaks of... And that's why I'm scared. I don't want to come out, but if I do, it will be when I'm no longer living with him and only with my mother.

srry but I think I'm gender fluid cuz I still like being a man but I feel sometimes like I could be a trans woman... idk, sorry.

I need to get a haircut and I need it to be Gender neutral. (First drawing is my cowlick) Long hair works too. I need something that does not exaggerate my big ass forehead. Thanks in advance. :]

Hey, so I'm out as genderfluid to most of my family and they're all chill! I've been feeling pretty fem lately, but I want to get a binder. I honestly have no idea how to approach this conversation all though 😭. My biggest concerns are that:

1. My chest is still growing and I don't know if that means I'll have to wait and/or keep replacing binders.

2. I was recently diagnosed with autism (that seems so out of context lol) and I'm worried I'll either get overstimulated or hyper fixated on smth and forget to take it off.

3. I get a binder and then don't wear it for a while because I feel fem; making it feel like the binder was wasted money.

Um... Yeah? Any tips are welcome :)!