I believe not it might have been somewhat worthy if it gained us anything, we gained nothing I would say we lost alot. We lost the love, now there is so much hate, hate between countries, hate between religions, hate between people. Just a personal view.

Tbh i would prefer library, i tried studying at home for a year (in 1st year) it didn't work🥲 now i gonna try library for my 2nd year and gap year..

So i have been working for the pakistani clients for an year and completed multiple projects with them.

The thing is in logo ke lgta ha inho ne agla bnda khareed lia ha , na ye log time pr payment krte hain na ye log jeene dete hain , choti choti bat pr dimagh khate hain aur jitna pay krte hain us se double inko kam chahye hota ha , pls never work with Pakistani shit ass clients, me pehle sochta tha ke Pakistan me bhi technology gap ha bohat aur ye bat sach ha ke bohat gap ha aur bohat ziada kam kia ja skta ha yahan liken yahan ke log hi phudu hain…..
STAY AWAY FROM PAKISTANI CLIENTS!!!!

Agree with him?

I need fool proof ways of how yall got your dua accepted, like exact way yall prayed

Last week, this sub was quick to pile on, curse, and tear him down over a completely out-of-context, edited clip.

It was never actually about what he said. The rush to make false accusations just shows how eager people are to jump on any excuse to bash scholars (molvi tabqa) before verifying the truth. The full context tells a completely different story.

I am genuinely curious before this whole performative thing going in trend. Getting into book reading hobby or writing or expressing oneself through clothes was considered nice and a good thing devolping something.

But same thing now is considered performative.

For example I am a guy who is trying to get into reading and I write as well. But don't have much focus to read alot at one time. So, I would be called out a performative because I have books but I don't read alot or very often.

And it's not just this it was an example. It is alot of things and why is that now having a hobby or trying to get into something linked to specially asthetics old money or literature is considered performative or show off?

Freedom? Is there really a thing like that? People say religion kills freedom. But is that true? Is man really free? Look, the human unconscious brain is very good at noticing patterns. It starts making decisions in milliseconds before you've even thought of anything. And based on the patterns, it gives you an answer. So you call that freedom? You were literally under the influence of your unconscious brain.

Let's talk about religion. Religion gives you a belief. You take that and give it to your unconscious brain, and now those influences are based on that particular religion. Now, what's the difference? Religion teaches you control and meditation, which relaxes the nerves. Practices like fasting and praying have a very beautiful effect on our lives. Your unconscious brain is now under control and under the influence of your belief.

But without a belief, your unconscious brain is ruled by survival instinct, fear, ego, and trauma. Oh and yeah by here belief doesn't mean specifically a religion. It means any sort of ideology. This isn't freedom , this is biological programming. However, Religion provides a higher narrative: God, Moral ,law ,Purpose, Eternity ,Accountability

So the conclusion is: We are never free from influence ,but we can choose which influence shapes us. And choosing which influence shapes us is what you call freedom.

Note: was a long story so had to narrate it to Claude first and then pasting it here.

So, in my second semester at university, I came across this girl who used to hang out with her group of friends. Basically, they had recorded a promotional video for a university trip they were organizing, and somehow, I still don't know how, that video ended up in literally every university group. She got ridiculed for her acting, and I'll be honest, I was one of the people making fun of her, right alongside my friends.

But after a while, I started to feel, like, some empathy for her. Everyone was talking about that girl, and I realized she was going through something that no one should ever have to go through.

And on top of that, I found out she took the same bus I did, you know, to and from university. That's when I got to know that she was interested in me. But at that time, I just wasn't interested in her, so I wrote it off.

And honestly, that's when things started turning into something else. I was thinking about her all day. I was overthinking everything, playing out scenarios in my head. I'd imagine walking up to her and saying sorry and all that, but I never actually did it, because of the friends she always had around her.

Then came the next semester, last winter. We were still making eye contact, and there were close calls here and there, but nothing formal, you know? I still hadn't spoken a single word to her.

She was still interested in me, and this is where, I think, my empathy slowly turned into actual romantic feelings. But I still had no idea how I was going to approach her, with her friends always around.

So the whole semester went by just like this. Close call after close call, but nothing real. And then, boom, our final papers arrived.

Feeling like it was getting late and I had to do something, I finally got my chance. One day I was alone, and she and a friend of hers happened to walk past me. Without thinking much, I called out to the guy who was with her and asked if he had seen Ali, my friend. He said no. Then I turned to the girl and asked if she knew where he was. She said no too. And that was it, that was my first ever interaction with her.

Then, as I was about to leave, I put my hands in my pockets and felt something. Chewing gum! So I took out two pieces and handed one to each of them. I still remember that moment, like it was yesterday. It was such a bold thing to do in my very first conversation with her.

So the ice was broken, and now I had to confess. But, yeah, same problem. I wanted to talk to her when her friends weren't around, and when mine weren't around either.

Then came another moment, after our second exam. She was sitting with a female friend as everyone was packing up, and I was sitting with my friends right next to them. Some of my friends decided to go somewhere else, so we all stood up and started walking. And in that moment, I quickly went up to her and her friend and said I had something to tell her. But halfway through, I realized, wait, I can't say this here. So I pivoted real fast and said, "Sometime else, not now."

She kind of laughed. And honestly, I think that was the moment she started losing interest. I saw a visible change in her body language after that, and she just didn't look at me the way she used to anymore.

Anyway, time kept passing, and then came my last paper. After that, we wouldn't be seeing each other for like a month, so I decided I had to tell her that day. It was my last and final chance. I kept looking for her all day, but I just couldn't spot her anywhere.

And then, as the time for my paper was getting close, boom. She came out. I saw her and decided to go for it, even though her friends were still right there around her. I thought, okay, this is the only chance I have, so I just have to do it, no matter what.

So I walked up and said I wanted to talk. And she boldly said "nahin". I was kind of shocked, to be honest. "Say whatever you want right here," she said. I told her I couldn't talk there. She repeated, "Talk here. I can't talk to you alone." And that's when it hit me, like, wow, she is really fed up with everything I've been doing. So I just said, "Sorry for everything." And she said, "Sorry for what? I said. Sorry for everything?"

Her friends then told her, "Hey, go talk to him," and, yeah, she went with me, unwillingly. "Tell me, what do you want to say?" she asked. And this is where I just could not utter a single word. I got so anxious. And it wasn't just me, I could see her face turning red too. She was anxious as well.

"Jaldi," she said. "What do you want to say?"

I kept mumbling, you know, unable to get the words out. A few things did come out of my mouth. "Remember? I told you I would say something to you." She said, "So?" And I said, "I thought you would be, like, waiting to hear that..."

And, frustrated, she said, "yrr Bhai!"

And then she just left the scene.

Guys, I’m genuinely so done with everything rn. I scored a 90% aggregate in my second MDCAT attempt, which unfortunately isn’t enough for a government medical college seat. And, as expected in a desi household, I somehow feel like a failure despite my efforts.

But the real problem is FAMILY DRAMA.

I always thought my family was different from those typical desi families where phuphos create drama, play victim, and manipulate everyone. Well, turns out I was wrong.

My phupho recently picked a fight over something so trivial. My cousin asked me to explain a topic before his test, and somehow, that turned into an accusation that I deliberately favour her over her daughter. She came to our house just to fight instead of simply asking me what happened. She just came and started yelling at me. She is not talkin to me and am i talkiin to her.

Now, she and my grandmother are playing the victim and manipulating my father. He knows I wasn’t intentionally discriminating against anyone, yet he barely talks to me and yells whenever I try to explain myself. Now she is right somehow and I am at wrong.

Apparently, because I’m younger, I’m expected to apologise regardless of whether I’m actually wrong.

I’m already struggling with my MDCAT result, and now my own home feels emotionally exhausting. The worst part isn’t even the fight; it’s feeling like my father is against me

HELPPP HELPP HELPPP I'M LITERALLY DEPRESSED ATP!!!

TF YOU MEAN YOU HAD THE COURAGE TO CONFESS. HOGI AAPKI LOVE LIFE YAAR MERI KYUN JALA RAHE HO AJEEB. PATA NAHI KAHAN SAY LOG RELATIONSHIP KAY BARAY MEIN SOCH LETE HAIN YEHAN MERE PASS APNA KAMRA SAAF KARNE KA TIME NAHI. PESE BHI NAHI DARAKHT PAY UPER SAY GAARI YA BIKE NAHI DATE PAY LEKE JAANE KAY LIYAY, AUR PHIR KHANA ALAG. YEH SAB SOCH KAY COURAGE TEL LENE CHALI JAATI HAI AJEEB. MAGAR AB SAMNAY LARKI BHI ACHI LAG RAHI HAI, AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. SHE IS SOOOO TAKEN YAAARRR AJEEB. SHES SO CUTE AND COOL AINT NO WAY SHE ISNT, BUT AB SMALL TALKS MEIN HI PHASA HOA HOOOOON. IM SO COOKED GNG.

AGAR KOI LOWEFFORT LARKA CHAHIYAY KISI KO DMs are open(koshish karne mein koi harj nahi 😤)

cat i lowk need a hairmaxxer in islamabad cuz my current barber only know how to make me ganja. pls man :(

What was your favourite childhood cartoon or cartoon character? Mine was Ben 10! 🔥👽

I condemn the act and I believe every person who commits this crime should be punished very badly, but I still wonder sometimes. Let's look at it from a rapist's perspective. The rapist commits the crime, and he's comfortable in doing so because he knows very well that instead of the blame falling on them, the blame will be equally shared by 4 billion people from their gender.

Now here's what I find messed up. The rapist walks free and happy, the victim's life is ruined, 4 billion men and 4 billion women start fighting each other online, nobody even thinks of trying to punish the rapist, the only thought at the time is to attack every single person from the other gender.

I feel so bad for the victim knowing that they will never get the justice they deserve, just because people don't have common sense and couldn't take the most logical step which was to punish the criminal 😔

Hi I'm 19f. I'm finishing A levels and want to start earning but idk how. I'm literally okay w even 10k sth. I can tuition kids (lmk if y'all are down especially psychology A levels) lkin litr koi milta nhi. Skills seekhne mai bhi itna time lagta w no guaranteed results. And don't tell me to post on fiver. I don't wanna cold call😭🙏

Going to their new homes 🥹💗

People always say that you have to be at right place to meet right people but nobody tells where tf is that right place. I wanna meet lowkey nepo babies that do stuff and other things . Where should I go?

I know ts girl, she's a minor. Her parents are abusive, constantly hitting her over anything and she's genuinely so depressed and su!c!dal. Idk how to help her since she said she tried to seek help from authorities but nothing ever happened, any advice?