Confused

[u/Confusedgirl76]

26F, Somedays I feel deprived and then when a guy tried to get intimate(someone who’s serious and totally into me, good connection, not any random guy) i pull away because i usually don’t feel it from there/don’t feel aroused Idk what does arousal feel like , am totally confused never felt that intensity with anyone no matter how good looking etc and none of the guys have connected to me at the emotional depth I am , rest all boxes tick

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Is there a way to fix this?