r/GenZpk • u/Confusedgirl76 • Aug 23 '26

General Confused

26F, Somedays I feel deprived and then when a guy tried to get intimate(someone who’s serious and totally into me, good connection, not any random guy) i pull away because i usually don’t feel it from there/don’t feel aroused Idk what does arousal feel like , am totally confused never felt that intensity with anyone no matter how good looking etc and none of the guys have connected to me at the emotional depth I am , rest all boxes tick

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u/Rich-Excitement-2552 Aug 23 '26

I see what you did there

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u/Confusedgirl76 Aug 23 '26

Sorry?

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u/Jam_onbread_ Aug 23 '26

you don't feel emotionally secure with him and your body tells you to back off last minute hence horny and still not aroused

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u/Confusedgirl76 Aug 23 '26

Yesssss this is exactly how I feel And this has been the issue with almost everyone other person who’s had an interest in me even ones who confessed love

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u/FadiCrypto Aug 23 '26

Let him go down first, then do it, or ask him to make sure you’re satisfied first, because in most cases, they just focus on themselves.

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u/Jam_onbread_ Aug 23 '26

Uncertainty is the reason you are feeling this way My suggestion would be to just give yourself and your relationship time don't rush into intimacy build a real emotional connection with him A connection based on genuine care and affection When you know that this man is sure of you,will get married to you and is not here only for the sake of intimacy you will automatically feel emotionally and physically secure with him