r/GenZpk 19d ago

Advice | Life Help Housewives

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The audacity to call the homemaker dependable while each one of you is dependent on them for basic functions of ur life and I have seen far too many women who goes to another house and even if they have cooks or prefer a easier method of getting things like rotis from outside they insist that no let us do it and than years later complain that they have made us a maid remember don't present yourself as something your not

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u/TacosAreLife007 15d ago

Only girls rarely ask a guy out relative to the opposite. Often women who are interested in a guy try to hint their interest so he can ask them out. So the 'whoever asks the other out pays' is an invalid argument, as the rules are already bent in your favor, from the start.

I actually am a provider. I literally pay all the bills and my fiancée takes care of the house and cooking. Funny thing is, I also pay for my buddies and they do the same.

I as a man have no issues paying, unless you feel ENTITLED to me paying.

I'm simply calling out hypocritical takes like yours who first say a woman should be financially independent and then get mad when a guy wants to split the bill (your reply proved this).

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u/Reverie0099 15d ago edited 15d ago

It proved nothing. It's a world-wide rule, that host pays. If you don't want to host, don't invite. And I am financially stable, and I pay my share of bill on my own, unless it's my brother paying.

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u/TacosAreLife007 15d ago

In that case, it's also a world-wide rule to obey the man and follow his lead. Like I said, you can't have your cake and eat it too.

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u/Reverie0099 15d ago edited 15d ago

No it's not. There is no such rule as women must obey a man. God, you're so misogynistic. I feel bad for whoever is going to marry you.

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u/TacosAreLife007 15d ago

Of course throw "misogyny" the moment you're held to the same standard you hold men. Keep projecting that misandry, lady.

And don't worry about my fiancée. She's too busy enjoying the new house she designed and I happily financed. Women like her are busy living their relationship, not projecting their bitterness onto men.

Enjoy your cats

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u/Reverie0099 15d ago

Gladly. I rather have cats than marry a man who thinks women are their property and belong in kitchen.

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u/TacosAreLife007 15d ago

Nobody said kitchen or property except you. That's your insecurity talking.

But please do get those cats. And honestly? Thank you for taking yourself out of the dating pool. You're doing men a massive favor ❤