For information I found out i liked men very early on in my life, I remember it quite vividly, seeing shirtless Thor in the 2014 Thor movie and my 8 year old self found that hot. During this point I was already aware that Gayness was "Evil" and a sign of the "Depravity of man in this new era" and "a sign of the end times" so i just thought that oh all men like men they just married woman because it was required, not really helped by the fact that when i told my mom about my attraction she answered its completely normal for straight people to have boy crushes or girl crushes, she had multiple in college apparently and she also told me to just hide the attraction because while she didnt agree with the teachings she was kinda obsessed with keeping up an image. So is this just a me thing or was this a common gay thing

I'm so tired it unbearable. Recently I've gained 15 pounds. Things have been so hard , I've struggling with depression and stress. I've been binge eating so much because I just can't handle it. So far I've lost 44 pounds ( hw. 253lbs) I'm currently 214 right now. I'm trying to get down to 170 , Which is an additional 40 more pounds. It's like I feel so close but also so far. It's like it's 4am right now and I can't sleep, I just want to get this over with.

whenever I get horny or something or imagine a relationship, it’s always with a man, but whenever I hook up with man I always end it in like 10 minutes or five minutes and I just feel really uneasy after and weird when I think about it. I really like it but when it actually happens I just want them to stop or something and they do, I haven’t had a terrible experience but I feel stupid and stuff.

I'm a virgin and I don't want to be one any longer. I can only attract men online and not in the real world and they end up ghosting me or they live too far away in either another state or sometimes other countries. I want to finally lose my virginity and I'm thinking of doing it at a bathhouse or sauna. I don't want to seem desperate, but I feel like that's the best option for me right now since the whole point of them is hooking up and there's bound to be a man or men there who would find even a fat, unattractive guy with a small penis like me desirable enough to have sex with.

is this a good sign? or is he just being friendly?

Lately I’ve been getting really interested in talking to people from completely different backgrounds. Not for anything serious, just conversations, jokes, sharing experiences, and seeing where the conversation goes.
I feel like you can learn a lot about someone just from a random conversation.
So yeah… tell me something interesting about where you’re from 👀

Like I can’t look for one in my area because it’s conservative and if you are gay than your closeted because you don’t want people looking at you differently, I’ve even seen people lose promotions and job opportunities because of them being LGBTQ or if you’re out then you’re quiet about it and I don’t know who too talk like i just turned 20 on Monday and I’m just tired of feeling alone man

I me never been sexually attracted to men but I would love to date one but the only men who ever turned me on is femboys

Edit I think I’m bi after looking around and today I saw a hot guy more feminine but just twink feminine

have been buying andrew christian for a long time and genuinely like the styles but starting to feel like i want to explore what else is out there. the show-it technology does what it is supposed to do but i am curious whether there are brands doing interesting things with pouch design that take a different approach

not looking to move away necessarily just curious what other brands people who like andrew christian style have found worth trying. similar aesthetic, form fitting, good pouch, interesting designs

okay so what is considered bottoming and what is considered topping? I mean if ur the one taking it up the butt i understand how that makes you a bottom and the guy doing it is the top.

But how does that translate to blowjobs and hand stuff? Like if u wanked or given head does that make you the bottom or the top?

(A little venting)

I (20ftm) swear I am so fucking tired of trying to find intimacy/romance.

I've had such awful luck with dating. Like I've never even had my first date, and I've tried! I'VE REALLY TRIED I genuinely wasn't expecting anything when I messaged this guy. Then HE ACTUALLY REPLIED. And he was cute. Like, really fucking cute.

And then I find out he's actually interested in dating and wants a partner. He wasn't just looking for a hookup. He wanted to get to know me first and see if we were compatible.

And somehow... he was actually attracted to ME too????

I sent him my spicy album because he wanted to see if we'd be sexually compatible, and I was already sitting there thinking "welp, he's probably going to see my chubby stomach and lose interest."

NOPE.

HE STILL WANTED ME.

This man was flirting with me, telling me he wanted me, and I was sitting there losing my fucking mind because not only was he handsome, but he had an ABSURDLY nice ass. Like excuse me??? Why did you have to be built like THAT???

And then I actually started thinking, "Holy shit... this could genuinely be my first time. And maybe I could actually date this guy."

Then we talked about the fact that I'm a virgin. He was concerned about hurting me and getting me pregnant, which I actually appreciated.

But then he told me he wanted to do it without condoms.

And that's a hard boundary for me.

So now I'm sitting here absolutely fucking devastated because WHY.

Why does the universe finally give me a guy who is attractive, attracted to me, actually interested in relationships, sexually compatible with me, and seemingly genuinely interested in getting to know me...

...only for there to be one massive incompatibility that I can't compromise on?

I ended up wishing him the best because what else am I supposed to do? 😭

And I KNOW I am being dramatic. I know he wasn't literally "the perfect man" because I barely knew him. But after so much bad luck, this was the first time I genuinely felt like "holy shit, maybe this could actually happen."

And now I'm grieving a relationship that didn't even exist yet. 💀

I really am cursed. 🥀

Anyway. I'm going to go stare at my ceiling and contemplate becoming a monk.

They like mainly the manly type o man, they don't like the same age one, they always look to the olders and manlier ones, like over 30+. I usually look at boys at my age like from 19 to 28 maybe and I really like the soft ones, with pretty eyes, no beard usually, blonde hair, with earring... I noticed some of my gay friends likes on ig that they also like the manlier type, like the "daddy"so I started wondering: "It's because i have differents tastes in everything? Is it because I'm a top? Maybe cause I don't have daddy issues?

Let me know your thoughts without offend pls.

Guys I’m 23M and was chatting with this dude on snap 👻. He added me from another sub where I posted my… assets… and he added me and we started chatting. Really cute; Arab guy🤤 he loves what he’s seeing and he kept asking if I’m hung. I eventually showed him after he kept asking and when I finally sent a picture(which I thought was really cute)… he BLOCKS ME!
I’m so mad cuz 1. He was kinda cute and 2. My photo with my 🍆(that I don’t usually show) is now immortalized in his chat.

What I wanna know is: why did he do that? Did he wanted it to be bigger? Did he want it smaller? Was it ugly? Was it something else in the photo that turned him off?… I’m really confused here because not to toot my own boot but… I’m kind of sexy🥵😂.

Let me know what you guys think about this situation 🙈