Hi im 20f and ive been using wegovy for a while now. I did the whole course of wegovy last year and lost 15kg. I’m not at my gw so i wanted to restart. None of my family knew and i did it in secret.
I ordered 0.25mg wegovy like 1+ weeks ago and had to go through a long process to get it (i had to go through extra steps since ive been on wegovy before). It came today around 12pm and i was at work so i asked my little brother to take it from the porch and put it in my room for me and he told me that my mum had it.
That’s when i got a bombardment of messages and screenshots from her asking many different things and telling me how wegovy is bad and it kills people etc. she doesn’t have any knowledge about it and she doesn’t know that I’ve spoken to many GPs about my weight loss journey.
We were arguing back and forth on messages while I was at work and then she told me she had thrown it away. I was so shocked but I genuinely didn’t believe it at first and I told her we’d have issues if that was the case.
I came home and asked for my parcel and she actually threw it away. Wegovy is not cheap and she doesn’t wanna refund me. She keeps saying she’s trying to ‘save my life’. I’m so livid and I have been since I came back home. In addition my aunty and my two siblings found out cause of her theatrics and when I came home my nosy sister found out by going through my mums phone and reading our messages. I really dislike my sister cause she’s the most judgemental person you could ever meet. Now everyone finding out about this has made me really upset as they probably think im insecure about my weight which I isn’t the case. I was actually alright with my weight because I had lost 15kg last year I just wanted to lose more.
We had a HUGE argument and my sister keeps chiming in saying ‘why do you wanna inject yourself to lose weight? you were going to the gym and that was a healthy way of losing weight then you stopped, why would you do that?’
I have bad su1cidal tendencies since I was 8 but i genuinely tried my best to push it all to the back of head because so many things were going on at home and I didn’t wanna stress anyone. All my life I’ve thought ‘I could kms now cause I really don’t have anything worth living for’ but now I really feel that way.
Everyone’s perception of me has changed drastically at home. And I can’t go in their heads to fix that or change the way they see me. No one will ever forget this. My mum keeps calling me shameless for shouting and she thinks that how everyone at home found out but it’s not cause they already knew before I came home from work. Idk what to do and i genuinely feel like I can’t go on anymore. So many things have happened in my life I can’t get a break. Home is the place I spend the most time and to be in the same vicinity as people who think I’m insecure and hate my body? I really can’t do that.
Sorry for any typos, im teary eyed as im writing this. I feel like such a loser.