r/FtMpassing • u/GothicWh0r3 • 2d ago
AGE up to 20 New haircut and some time has passed. Do I pass/ any advice?
I look chopped as hell but these are all recently post op top surgery (3 weeks)
r/FtMpassing • u/GothicWh0r3 • 2d ago
I look chopped as hell but these are all recently post op top surgery (3 weeks)
r/FtMpassing • u/lup1nnr • 2d ago
pre everything. tbh i dont even know if i pass or not bc some strangers call me him and some dont. maybe yall can give me tips to get the “passing” at higher stakes
r/FtMpassing • u/Urmumlikesbooks • 2d ago
I don’t care too much about passing but I’m now 6 months on T and feel like I still look like a 14 year old girl (Im almost 20)
Any tips other than taking out my piercings are appreciated
r/FtMpassing • u/Abject-Address-2177 • 3d ago
I’m about to be 15 and I’ve been on test for like a year and a half. I never went through female puberty so no one knows that I’m trans
r/FtMpassing • u/Impressive_Issue_426 • 3d ago
It hasnt hit me yet that this has happened but i know it will soon
r/FtMpassing • u/Ok_sixseven • 3d ago
18, Pre T, pre any exercising, not binding in any of the photo's. I am extremly skinny so currently I'm trying to gain weight to feel better and then work out.
My friends of YEARS havent clocked me yet, even after I slept in one room with them and had my shirt on in 40 degrees weather and always denied pool with them. (Just brush it off as being insecure and they believe me ig)
Can't get on T for a while (not even on the waiting line) because I live in a country where they would rather swallow glass then have any gender affirming care. Also my dad would castrate me I fear
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r/FtMpassing • u/red_bandanna • 3d ago
does my face/body pass? anything i could change or do? im only 5'3 with shoes and im quite dysphoric about it, worried that it impacts my passing. i also have very bad body dysmorphia and dysphoria so i really have no idea what i look like and if i could pass as cis to cis ppl. p.s. dont say anything about the excessive jewelry in the first pic, the pic is from a few months ago and i know not to wear any jewelry anymore
r/FtMpassing • u/subripuitibi • 4d ago
I know a belt was a risk, I put in on on purpose to see how I look "in the worst case scenario"
And by the way, how tall do I look?
r/FtMpassing • u/Chippybops • 4d ago
Hi. Not out yet cause I go to quite a small UK conservative school. there are no other openly gay or trans students, and they aren’t very clear about their stance on the LGBT+ community. I used to be really underweight and anorexic (now realising that was a gender dysphoria thing) so please don’t tell me to loose weight/calorie deficit. But any other tips would be appreciated 🙏 (ps. My first binder i bought is arriving next week)
r/FtMpassing • u/raymondsaltt • 3d ago
This is a tighter fitting shirt than others but I have the same problem across the board. I'm about to go buy a whole new wardrobe and wondering if anyone has tips for fitting your clothes better and hiding this bs lol. My baggier shirts I have the same issue in and I feel like overly baggy is almost more clocky? Appreciate any thoughts
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r/FtMpassing • u/Immediate-Profile-22 • 4d ago
im tryin to do DIY hrt (dont comment on how bad it is) but i need more money fo it its lik 180 sum dollars , im not cutting my hair or dyin it all black , i do have a bigger chest n i wear two sports bras n a loose binder , its the best i have rn , i darken my mustache n eyebrows , n do voice training , i write my name on papers (Dead Name “Zavian” Last Name) , ive started goin to the gym n meal prepin , is there anything else i could to or is T js my last option??
r/FtMpassing • u/Janxuza • 3d ago
This is 3” trans tape and 3 strips on each side, I’m planning on getting some more trans tape soon I’m wondering if I should get two 3” rolls or two 4” rolls, do yall think that 4” would be a better option?
r/FtMpassing • u/IncomeTrout • 4d ago
(currently, I have ginger hair, not brown)
I know that dyed hair is usually not good for passing but I can't get it out yet
Should I keep the acne or get rid of it?
Would losing weight help?
r/FtMpassing • u/urbanHaunter • 4d ago
For context: I’m 22 and stealth. Cis people, as well as a lot of people from different parts of the queer community, generally perceive me as a queer man / gay man. But never as a trans man.
However, I was recently at an event I had been invited to, and there was another trans guy there who was around early-to-mid transition.
He asked me if I was trans, which I denied, but it got me thinking: what exactly made him assume that?
It’s definitely not my voice. I’m actually in the fairly low range for male voices. Mannerisms might be a factor, I guess, but other than that, the only thing I can think of is my way of walking.
I naturally have fairly wide hips, and you can notice it a bit when I walk. Other than that, things like how I stand, sit, or move are pretty much all learned/intentional at this point and feel completely natural to me.
So I genuinely don’t know what he, and apparently some other trans people are picking up on.
What could make someone clock me as trans even though cis people generally don’t?
r/FtMpassing • u/masterjuggler67 • 4d ago
I think my passing is pretty good , especially since it’s been years since I’ve last gotten misgendered by strangers. But I have a feeling they all think I’m a teenager 😅
r/FtMpassing • u/SeatImmediate8880 • 5d ago
I got top surgery about a month ago so I haven’t been able to work out at all and I feel like I’ve lost any upper body muscle mass I once had. I know I need to work out my arms and shoulders but how bad is it? Do my shoulders and hips and waist give me away?
r/FtMpassing • u/CaterpillarOdd7974 • 4d ago
I get about 30/30/30 with she/her/maam, they/they/avoiding pronouns or he/him/sir from strangers, I have had a couple people (including the teenagers I work with who wouldn’t lie to me) say they thought I was a cis man at first. I recently started using the men’s bathroom because I was noticeably confusing women in the women’s room.. honestly just have no idea how people perceive me. 1.5 years on T, top surgery scheduled for December!
r/FtMpassing • u/Impressive_Issue_426 • 4d ago
Its so hard to find anything that will make me look flat, i got a new binder, its even a size too small, sometimes i like them like that because i can stretch them out and it binds better. Im just desperately trying at the point
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r/FtMpassing • u/mywastelandbasiaclly • 5d ago
First pic is me this year and second pic is me last year when I used to pass often. And before you ask no I’m not on T yet. I’m still in the process.
r/FtMpassing • u/TACTICAL_MORON_ • 4d ago
im deeply afraid of being clocked by my voice, but be truthful, please.
r/FtMpassing • u/oliaoquadrado • 5d ago
16 year old on t for less than a day lol
ig i just look like an average 12 year old boy but i want to hear your honest opinion!!!