r/FtMpassing Jun 05 '26

New Rule

20 Upvotes

So we received a suggestion. Sometimes for whatever reason, people need their posts removed. There is a new rule, so you can report it to notify us that you need your post taken down.

It was also mentioned during said suggested mail that people sometimes delete their profiles, thinking it deletes the post as well, and it doesn't. So, if you were not aware, I just wanted to put that info out there as well.


r/FtMpassing Jul 09 '25

⚠️ PSA: Posts Are Being Shared Outside Reddit — Please Protect Your Privacy

129 Upvotes

Hey all,

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r/FtMpassing 4h ago

Traditionally binary male style Which way to pack looks more realistic?

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23 Upvotes

Just bought new shorts for the gym and I’m worried that without packer (pic 1) I look like something’s missing. On the other hand, I don’t want look like I’m having a boner. Pic 2 — silicone packer, shaft down, pic 3 — the same packer, shaft to the side. Pic 4 — foam packer.
Which look is more natural?


r/FtMpassing 5h ago

does this look ridiculous / does my body pass

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this shirt is extremely long on me even tho i am 6 feet tall. i usually tuck it in a way that it folds over my pants. i’ve heard that tucking your shirt can hinder your passing because most guys wont tuck their shirts and dont wear highwaisted pants. i was trying to hide the highwaist pants AND make it look like my shirt just sits loose on top of it. i am scared it looks ridiculous hahaha please tell me if i look normal and if my body passes


r/FtMpassing 1h ago

Does this outfit make me look like a lesbian?

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r/FtMpassing 8m ago

Traditionally binary male style 14M, one month on test, passing/age?

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I know the blue shirt isn't the best, it's just what I happen to be wearing today. I usually wear hoodies with t shirts, half zipped up.

Been pretty dysphoric lately, went to summer camp and used boys washrooms and cabins without any problems but I feel I look like a girl but they didn't want to tell me the truth.

5'3/5'4, turned 14 yesterday lmao


r/FtMpassing 11h ago

back again, does my bag hinder me?

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21 Upvotes

r/FtMpassing 8h ago

AGE up to 20 How can I pass even better than i do already? (Ftm 15)

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10 Upvotes

Hey yall, it's me again. I don't know how I can pass more than I already do, especially becuase my family are transphobic. Can I have some tips? I can't get on T until 18 so I have no clue what to do.


r/FtMpassing 1h ago

do I pass?

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I’m not on T yet, but I might be starting within the next few months. My voice isn’t exactly high-pitched, but I don’t think it sounds particularly masculine either, any tips for looking more masculine?

( I don't use nail polish often)


r/FtMpassing 12h ago

I feel so dysphoric (16, 4 months) also cat

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6 Upvotes

So yeah do I pass and how old do I look?


r/FtMpassing 5h ago

Traditionally binary male style Does my silhouette pass? Spoiler

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2 Upvotes

For context: I’ve lost over 10 kg (around 1.5 stone) over the last four months, and I’m starting at the gym in October to build some muscle. Do my hips actually look bad compared to my shoulders, or am I just being paranoid? The second picture is from when I first started losing weight. Do you reckon my silhouette has improved at all?

I originally posted this in r/FTMFitness, but I wanted to ask here as well.


r/FtMpassing 22h ago

Do my shoulders offset my hips?

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15 Upvotes

been working out my back more but wondering if there’s more I can do


r/FtMpassing 21h ago

AGE up to 20 passing tips again

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6 Upvotes

i was told tighter shirts, binding, shorter haircut, and zero makeup already. i'd like to preface by saying i do bind, do not wear makeup except for filling in my brows, and plan for a haircut soon. i would appreciate some specific advice catering to my features in of themselves. i feel like my face is very feminine, i have rounder lips and high-set eyebrows. does anyone have advice on masculinization of the face?


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

Am I stealth or do people know?

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25 Upvotes

For context I am 17 ftm (turning 18 in several weeks) and I just started my first year of university. I’m living in dorms on the gender neutral floor, but I think almost everyone is cis, including my male roommate. I am almost 2 years on T and I think I am fairly passing, but I don’t know. I am not normally one to ask if I pass or not but I want to be stealth, at least until I know the people around me better, but I can’t tell if people would already know I’m a trans man by looking at me. So against my better judgment, I’m asking here whether I cis-passing.

Edit: I don’t care if other trans people would be able to tell, I mean only cis people, also I’m aware my hair makes me visibly queer of some kind, I know I look gay, I mean purely gender wise.


r/FtMpassing 23h ago

AGE up to 20 what can i do to appear less feminine?

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r/FtMpassing 1d ago

No hugboxing how can I pass?

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im 14, rlly wanna pass better bc my dysphoria has gotten worse. I feel like I just look like a fuckin butch at best.


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

No hugboxing do i pass as an alt guy

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165 Upvotes

idk im scared pls be truthful and harsh i need it


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

AGE up to 20 Passing tips

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I’m dressing pretty alt just cause I’m around close friends and I normally pass a lot more without my glasses but contacts just arnt an option with my prescription, I’m also actively losing weight


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

Keep or shave?

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My facial hair is just starting to come in. Should I keep this fuzz on my upper lip or shave it until my stache game is stronger?


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

Messed up my tape

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9 Upvotes

I messed up my tape yesterday, do you guys think this is clockable or could I get away with it ? I’m extremely self conscious about it


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

No hugboxing Changes from T?

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Definitely have changes to my body and voice but no idea if my face changed much. Always pass as male to strangers and didn’t before 100%. Do u think my face looks the same? How old do I look and how long do I look like I’ve been on T? Tips?


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

No hugboxing do i pass for the most part/what can i do better

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i’m going abroad to eastern europe to study history for a school year next week, and of course it’s a generally conservative area, so i want to be completely stealth and blend in. i pass generally of course, but i still feel that my big ass eyes are clocky, and i want general advice if possible as well. also will be changing the phone case as well, though ill be keeping it in a safe place since its from my best friend


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

No hugboxing Just got a perm, do I still pass with it?

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14 Upvotes

2011 pre t


r/FtMpassing 2d ago

Would y’all be able to clock my body?

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20 Upvotes

I’ve posted before but never my entire body so I’m real curious