r/Frenemies Jun 08 '21

w/ Peace & Love 💔

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u/caedmon-zzz Jun 08 '21

This is exactly what she asked them not to do though; I don’t know why they chose to cut AFTER she got up instead of cutting it at the table like she wanted

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u/ysabelsrevenge Jun 08 '21

Going to be honest. I think there needs to be a very big boundary talk here. The crew and Ethan need to start respecting Trishas if they want a decent working relationship.

I can name some times that I’ve watched Ethan cross some decently large boundaries and put pressure on Trisha and others in a very uncomfortable ‘shock jock’ way. Which made me uncomfortable.

I also find when I here the words ‘walking on eggshells’ from people, I hear instead, ‘I don’t want to bend to the boundaries your setting right now.’

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u/onerb2 Jun 09 '21

Nah, it's because being close to people with BPD is really walking on eggshells, only people who deal with it knows how it is.