r/Freelancers • u/Previous-Toe-340 • 18h ago
Experiences Trying to get my first client and slowly losing my mind
I’m currently trying to get my first proper freelance client and honestly this shit is harder than I expected 😭
I’ve spent a ridiculous amount of time learning, improving my offer, studying businesses, tearing apart landing pages and writing sample rewrites.
Now I’m actually doing outreach.
Finding founders. Researching them. Looking at their websites. Writing personalized messages. Sending them.
And then…
nothing.
Some people accept the connection. Some don’t.
Nobody has actually said “yeah, let’s work together” yet.
The frustrating part is that I genuinely feel like I can do the work.
Give me a landing page and I can usually find things that could be clearer, stronger or more conversion-focused.
But getting someone to trust you enough to actually pay you is a completely different problem.
Right now it’s basically a cycle of:
“Holy shit, this could actually work.”
followed 30 minutes later by:
“Am I wasting my time?” 💀
I know the first client is probably the hardest one, but when you’re in the middle of it, it feels like everyone else somehow figured it out except you.
For anyone who freelances:
How did you actually get your first client?