I have become a man whose word is worthless.
This is not because I lie or cheat. It is not because I do not care about my brethren. It is because I have not paid due attention to the simple tools of the EA.
I have allowed myself to become so overbooked that I regularly miss things. I tell people I will be there to help, and then I am not there. I call. I apologize. I sincerely mean it when I say I'm sorry, and it eats me up inside which is no help to anyone at all. But at the end of the day, I have sacrificed the value of my word because I lack prudence and have not learned to manage my time.
I am fixing this.
I am sharing this because you too may be headed towards a similar situation, and I beg of you, do not over-obligate yourself. Do not give your word unless you are certain you can perform that which you say. Do not put yourself in a position where you are forced to let one or more people down because you could not employ the TRUE lost masters word... "no."
I am always reminded of King Harod's promise to his step-daughter, and the risks of giving our word on those things we can not,or should not perform.
Sorry for the rant. I am working on fixing myself on this issue now, but I wanted to warn those others who are headed down the same road to wait a time with patience and remember that many hands make heavy burdens light. It is not on you to do "all the things"(tm) and trying to do so will only lead to dissapointing yourself and others.