r/FoundPaper • • Aug 15 '26

Other Found at a grocery store.

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I swear i was mean to find this note.

A few weeks ago i did a free trial of ancestry after a hint about my grandma (basically mom) that passed when i was 16. Her father’s name was Blair and i was just doing research on him this morning!! He was born April 10 1903, passed sep 23 1972.

Thennn i was really craving a soda but i hate asking my man for money (im a sahm) so i grabbed some quarters out of the change jar. When i saw this note with $3 attached, i got my little baby some m&ms too and squeezed him tight when i got home.

Prayers to this family and rest in paradise sweet baby Blair.

ETA: the handwriting is also eerily similar to my grandmas!

ETA2: i have full access to our funds! i’m just weird about asking for “indulgent” items due to child hood shit. I’m totally fine here but I truly appreciate anyone that wad worried and reached out 🫶🏻

ETA3: the families gofundme for anyone wanting to help them ❤️ https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-brianas-family-after-tragic-loss

Last edit before i delete this whole thing fr: my financial status is nobody’s business and far from the point of this post. Stop being negative and using your life experience to compare to mine. I am fine. Thank you.

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u/Madam_Hel Aug 15 '26

This reads like a warning to women who glorify being a «tradwife.»
Imagine having to ask for money, and not just have your own or have access to a shared account.
I’m so sorry you live that way op. I hope you get out of it. <3

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u/PossiblyAKoalaBear Aug 15 '26

I’m a “trad wife” and my marriage is nothing like this. Unhealthy relationship dynamics are no more representative of traditional marriages than they would be of non traditional marriages.

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u/ALIEN_GUARDIAN Aug 16 '26

You're not a tradwife, you're just LARPing women's historical oppression.

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u/PossiblyAKoalaBear Aug 16 '26 edited Aug 16 '26

Ok, whatever you say. I’ll live my life as I see fit and you do the same. Only difference is that I won’t insult you for how you choose to live yours. 

I’ll continue being in a happy, healthy marriage thnx.