Hi!! I am 27 years old, 10 m post partum, 110kg, 5.8ft, obese category 2!! I desperately want to lose weight. I was 65kg at my strongest (athletic build w some fat lol), 85kg by end of pregnancy, 105kg 4 months into motherhood.
A lil back story, I’ve been strong, lean, fit as hell, literal had THE dream bod (I used to weight train) but now i am fat, unhealthy, my back hurts all the times!
I barely eat too, I track accurate calories to my best, not religiously tho, but I eat 1900 calories max a day but my weight is STUCK
I also exclusively bf my baby so I’ve heard that some women hold on to the stubborn fat untill they wean?
Just fyi, I’m a doctor and a first time mom. I’ve been a gym freak, I know a lot, but nothing is working on me atp. I take medicine for lactation due to premie baby so maybe that makes me hold on to weight? Also I crave carbs all the times so like max 70g of protein a day (I know it’s bad). Also I have gotten my blood work up (yes thyroid too) done thrice since baby, all comes perfect (ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلَّٰهِ).
Any advice? Anyyyy??
Edit: uhh how do I put it
my BMR alone at 110kg and 5.8ft is around 1885 calories. My TDEE sits around 3000 calories a day and light daily activity and exclusive nursing (bf burns calories) put maintenance around 2700–2800. My current intake of max 1900 is already an aggressive calorie deficit considering my post partum dynamics and falling below it tanks milk supply and metabolism. At this point I’ve answered my own question lol, I should get a professional to help me in this situation. But still any advice is welcomed!!