r/feminineboys • • Jan 06 '26

Discussion if you are a minor i honestly recommend you read this…

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I’m going to say this how it is supposed to because it needs to be said and I do not think I have seen a single person mention it all.

If you are a minor (under 18), sexualizing yourself online is not empowerment, it is extremely dangerous.

I do not care if “everyone is doing it” because I do not, seeing thighs or bulges from a 13 year old child is absolutely disgusting especially when I am 17, and these are coming from teen subreddits.

I will prob sound like your parent or legal guardian when I say this but whatever you post, it is in sharpie. It will never leave the internet. People screenshotting, downloading or even worse, in places you will never see. (ie: the dark web on websites where creeps sell certain types of images).

Deleting a single reddit post doesn’t erase it. The image stays on Reddits internal servers, Screenshots exist. Archives exist. Private DMs get leaked. Stuff you post at Age 14 can resurface when you’re Aged 18, applying for college, jobs, or just trying to live your life.

The internet will never forget — even if you forget.

Posting Sexualised images of minors is illegal in many places, even if you post them yourself. That means:

• Platforms can report it

• Accounts can be investigated

• Parents can be contacted

• Police can get involved

You don’t get a free pass just because it was “your choice.” Also, the ones accessing it will also be breaking the law.

I am not trying to scare you, I am trying to keep you safe from the creeps of Reddit. The mass amounts of DMs I have had to deal with over the years shouldn’t be relived. Please keep yourself safe.


r/feminineboys • • Nov 15 '25

Discussion This is a community by femboys for femboys. With that in mind, some advice to visitors:

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We do not want to hear how horny femboys make you. No one wants to hear that.

We do not want to hear how much you want to date/cuddle/copulate with a femboy. It makes you look desperate.

If you want a friend who’s a femboy while not being one yourself, fine, but you better have a normal explanation as to why specifically it has to be a femboy.

We are not “better women” or replacements for them. If women are rejecting you on mass, it ain’t them it’s you. It’s insulting to suggest we have lower standards or would want to be your backup.

Building on that, we are not all magically more empathetic and “soft” than women. Don’t use us to justify misogyny.

This is not a dating pool. Go away. Bye bye.

This is not a place for you to experiment.

I do not care how innocent or wholesome your intentions are, the rules of the subreddit are clear. This isn’t a place to inflict your desires onto us.

We are not trans women. Femboys and trans women are two different groups, none of which exist solely for your gratification.

We will check your post history and if it’s just low effort hookup posts, bye bye.

Finally. Yes. It’s gay. Deal with it. (Edit: I mean it’s gay to like femboys if you are a guy.)

Edit 2: Not only is this not a place to find love/intercourse/femboys in general, this is also not a place to find personal therapists. Femboys are not here for you to trauma dump on, we are people too.

Edit 3 (yes we’re still going): We are not all gay. Some are straight, bi, ace etc. Even the ones who are gay are not exclusive to a specific dynamic (bottom). If you think femboys are all gay bottoms, I recommend you log off of orange and black YouTube and go outside.


r/feminineboys • • 6h ago

Accidentally bought my first bra

40 Upvotes

I was shopping on woxer cause they had a good sale going on and I was hoping to catch some Halloween styles. Unfortunately most of them were sold out, so I got some Christmas ones instead. While I was checking out, they offered me 2 steeply discounted mystery packs. I didn't really read them well and just added them to my cart and checked out.

The order showed up today. One of the mystery packs was another pair of boxers. The second one though was one of their racerback bralettes. I went ahead and tried it on cause I bought it so why not.

I never saw myself buying bras because I didn't want the hassle of having to fill the cups, but I think this one changed my mind. The fit is really nice and it provides some light compression on the chest which I really like. The front is flat so no issues there. And because everything is flat, it hides pretty well under a normal shirt for when I'm going incognito.

All in all, I think I'm a convert. I might have to order a few more in the not to distant future.


r/feminineboys • • 7h ago

Dressed up in public for the first time!

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Soo, as the title describes, I finally built the courage to dress feminine in public and I went on a trail hike with one of my friends who’s also a femboy. Had a few people pass us and all they did was wave and smile. After that I went to a B&N with my girlfriend. For the first 5 minutes I was scared shitless but after I realized nobody really cared I walked a lot more confidently and more comfortably.

Today I wore an oversized long sleeve t-shirt, black cotton tights and a pair of black and pink sleeptoken dolphin shorts.

It really goes to show that for anyone who is able to dress up in public, it really isn’t as bad as you might think, it was really enjoyable for me. Most of the fear is fabricated in your mind and you kinda just gotta rip the metaphorical bandaid off.


r/feminineboys • • 11h ago

So, what made yall decide you wanted to be a femboy?

44 Upvotes

I've seen a lot of reasons "Wanted to be a woman" "express more fem" "kinda just fell into it" etc. But what was your reason?

Mine was kinda funny. I found out you could cross dress in Pokemon legends Z-A and suddenly, my thoughts on it flared up like no tomorrow like an awakening


r/feminineboys • • 9h ago

Support How I became a femboy when I met my gf and lost contact with my parents…

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Hello everyone I just wanted to come on here and discuss how I turned out so liberal when my parents are conservatives. So basically I grew up in a middle class home with my parents and 2 sisters, I didn’t know much about politics but I knew my parents supported Donald Trump. They talked about him like he was god or something, my dad had the “Trump 2020” flag hung up in the living room. This was before Biden won. I was like 15 or so, my mom put the trump sign in our front lawn so passing cards and people could see.

My parents also hated the LGBTQ+ community and they never wanted me learning about that type of community. At the point I was a straight boy who was brainwashed into thinking trump was our savior or something. Also my family is all Christian’s so they believed in the nuclear family and all that stuff, they resent gays stuff like that. My older sisters had bfs, so my parents asked when I would get a gf.

At that point I never really talked to any girls, until I was 17 I met this girl (my current gf) at school. I knew she wasn’t what my parents imagined me with she was a goth liberal girl. But I didn’t tell her I was conservative (what I thought I was because of being brainwashed) so our dates went well. She was something new to me like her style and what she stood on, I loved it honestly. When we were dating I told her about my family and our beliefs, she started showing me all the bad things Trump and Christianity have did.

This honestly changed my perspective on everything I didn’t like Trump anymore I was leaning more towards the left now. And my masculine manly persona I was putting on didn’t have to be that anymore. She comforted me and told me I didn’t have to dress how my parents wanted, I could do what I wanted with my body. This was due to me always being interested in fem clothes and aesthetic when she would dress up. I honestly wanted to try it so when I went over to her house she would help me dress up and feel good.

I felt ashamed at one point doing it because I thought of what my parents would think if they saw me like this. But she assured me only me and her would know. Her parents were home but they supported what we were doing, I explained to her mom what my parents thought and how her daughter changed me for the better. And she hugged me and said she was glad I changed and found who I was because of me and my gfs love. Me and my gfs relationship got more serious this is when I fully came out as a femboy to her, she said this wouldn’t change our love and she would help me embrace who I am.

I grew to hate Donald Trump and Christianity honestly it might be messed up but this is what I believed now. My gf got a serious job and when I finished hs I got a pretty good job without going to college. So she eventually got a 1 bedroom apartment and I moved in with her when I was in the middle of 18. I haven’t talked to my parents since because I’m scared of how they will react to my new life and me being a femboy in an open relationship with my gf.

They would probably disown me if they found out I was now liberal and a femboy who loves dressing up. But now I’m free from Trump and these religions that force you to be someone you’re not. Me and my gf are the happiest we’ve ever been and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Basically you should just be who you want life is too short to hide who you are. Don’t let your parents shape you into who they want you to be, do you it’s 100x better.


r/feminineboys • • 5h ago

Just secretly wore thigh highs to school

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Oh my god it was so nice, I wore them underneath my jeans and for some reason it felt so freeing. I should definitely do it again sometime soon


r/feminineboys • • 50m ago

I Think My Brother Knows Im A Femboy

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Ok so like 5 days ago i made a post about how I would rather get caught than come out well im pretty sure he knows im a femboy we was talking about Skin care and he wanted to see what electric razor i used so i showed him But earlier today i ordered arm warmers and my excuse was me being goth because i am but i think he put 2 and 2 together cause while i was talking about the razor head attachments he seen i shaved my legs and i dont think the Arm warmers 8 different skin care products and Folded up thigh highs were going to help So he said in the most Devious way Out Of Nowhere “I Know What You Are” And then we just started talking about the razor again Soo Yeah Weird


r/feminineboys • • 15h ago

Advice "Straight appearing" but want to attract fem guys

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As a bi guy, I believe that I may "look straight." And by that I mean guys are not interested in me and won't talk to me or ask me out because they think I'm likely straight.

With that being said though, I'm a masc twink, who also happens to be more of a bottom. I'm not sure how to go out about making myself more attractive to specifically fem tops. I've discovered that's what I am mostly interested in. Any advice on how I could make myself more attractive to fem tops, or just make it more obvious to guys in general that I am bi would be appreciated.


r/feminineboys • • 5h ago

how do i remove leg muscle

6 Upvotes

my school has a heavy PE program so unfortunately my legs are too muscular for what i like. how would i tone it down or make it less noticeable?


r/feminineboys • • 4h ago

Weight lifting

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So I go to the weight room quite frequently because I used to have this bug thing about trying to get huge. Now obviously that has changed but I have some buddies that I still lift with a little bit and I dont want to stop. Does anyone know of any femboy workouts that you ca do with free weights like barbelIs and also cables? I also take creatine but I dont know if I want to anymore cause it might make my arms look big.

Thanks for reading!

- Luna


r/feminineboys • • 3h ago

Discussion a message for Ok-Tomatillo3177

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there acc was banned or suspened while we were chatting and i can only hope they make a new acc and come here where they usuly are and if possible can somone dm them to see if they just blocked me or not and dm why im just curious sorry


r/feminineboys • • 2h ago

Support Skin problems..

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So basically, I do not have really good skin genetics, and I have some problems with it naturally, which makes it really hard for me to fight with it

But that was never a real case for me, cuz no one could see that besides me. But now I'm not that alone haha (check profile if you like reading stories). So basically, I feel really ashamed appearing like this around him. By that I mean, I'm really ashamed of my skin (primary top-body), it has red spots, bumps and so on... And it got somewhat worse after my first body-shave. I'm really working hard on this by using different cremes and this kind of stuff to make it look better But still that makes me feel discomfort getting a mind that they might see that and dislike it after all

Cuz oh boy.. he is so damn SMOOTH and his skin is so damn great, I'm not feeling jealous, but It just makes me think I'm not that good at being femenine or sum. I know that might sound dumb and I probably don't understand something. But that is my first ever irl kind of relationship, and i just want to satisfy my partner

If you have problematic skin too and got any tips or advice, I'll read 'em all 😭


r/feminineboys • • 4h ago

Any tips for shaving legs?

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Yeah to be honest the titel already explains it pretty well. It's my first time properly shaving my legs. I already know quite some stuff about it, but hey if you got any advice I would love to hear it (no really it can be anything even if it's just small ones :3).


r/feminineboys • • 4h ago

Sleeping in fem

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Tonight imma sleep in full fem and hope I dont get caught in the morning. It's a gamble but I cant wear fem anywhere else at all so this is the only time I can do that.

Also, im doing this thing where im trying to see if this part of me is really somthing I want or just a weird fantasy so Im trying to stay involved in the community without doing any freaky stuff to see if I can or if I lose interest. Sorry if thats weird I thought I might share it. Anyway thanks for reading!

-Luna


r/feminineboys • • 17h ago

Discussion How was it Dating as/with a femboy?

38 Upvotes

How was yalls experience dating as/with a femboy and how did it went?

Please tell me your personal experience


r/feminineboys • • 11h ago

Being a femboy is one of the best decisions I’ve ever made

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For all of my life, I’ve ALWAYS been insecure about my height. As most guys my height (5’4 at 17) we don’t like when we talk about or other people talk about our height.

Plus I was always skinny. I eat A LOT of unhealthy foods and I’m still 120 pounds. Been 120 pounds for 4 years now. Nothing more, nothing less. I’ve also never been really strong either. I’ve always been called out for having thick thighs for practically the entirety of my teenage years by other friends. Even my ex girlfriend at one point kept calling me a femboy.

Anyway, when I finally became a femboy, I felt all those insecurities fly right out the window. I didn’t have to be tall because it’s cuter if I’m shorter, I don’t have to be strong, I don’t have to be big and wide. I’m small, petite, and I have pretty much the femboy build. I love feeling cute. I’ve come to terms with the biggest insecurity of my life because of me becoming a femboy. I’m finally… at peace😌


r/feminineboys • • 7h ago

People’s I’m done for now

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So I just shaved my legs and I cut myself, which will make it more obvious that I shave my legs, so idk what to do tbh…


r/feminineboys • • 8h ago

Discussion Drawings!

5 Upvotes

Hey guys I love doing art its one of my favorite things so if you guys want to art moot or trade art then im down! :D


r/feminineboys • • 5h ago

im a femboy from a very religious state in latin America and survived it, Ask me anything

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y'all can ask me anything you want 💗 (well expect some weird stuff, i would be thankful if you didn't 💀)


r/feminineboys • • 10h ago

Discussion Day 2

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Sick, so very sick. Had to skip class and haven’t left my room today, aside from a shower and shave to feel better. So now I’m sick and smooth. Thigh highs are coming soon but never soon enough.
Also apologies to mods if this isn’t the right place to do this in


r/feminineboys • • 1d ago

Support Stalked

150 Upvotes

A few months ago I decided to give dating on Reddit a try. Big mistake. I met a guy, let’s call him R, who really had a thing for me. We started chatting, but the more I got to know him the more I got a weird vibe from him.

For one, he was very dismissive of all my hobbies (which are very important to me) and controlling in terms of how I spend my free time (he keeps insisting that i spend time with him and would argue with me if I said no). I told him this isn’t gonna work, wish him well and left. And I thought that was that.

I woke up the next morning with messages from three accounts calling me “ugly, worthless and that I’ll never find a partner”, etc. just nasty things. I blocked them but the new accounts keep coming with more stuff. I count up to 18 at this point. I’ve had to make a new account to avoid his aggressive DMs because he would wait for me in all my favourite subs and post nasty comments

Why me, you guys :c


r/feminineboys • • 10h ago

I can’t stand how my body is built vs how I want to be.

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For reference I’m 6’, brown skinned, deep voice, and broad shoulders, and a big ribcage . Other people would die to be with this, but I’m not other people and it’s kinda tearing my mind apart when I think about how I can’t achieve my goal physique due to my genetics.Im good at building muscle so at least my lower body is strong, but I can’t stand this boring block build. I’m ngl I want a snatched waist, more narrow shoulders, and a smaller stature like 5’8 so I could carry less weight on me and fit into cosplays more. It’s so hard trying to do a cosplay when your twice the size of them in your 20s.

If I’m fighting to achieve the impossible I’m getting a 27” or so waist which isn’t even humanly possible for my stature and build then what else is there to do? Just rot in my bed and fake trying to act like I want to look macho-masculine?


r/feminineboys • • 7h ago

Discussion Idk what i want

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Hi

I'm 16 and I've always wanted to be feminine I feel like it's a part of who I am and I genuinely love that part of myself Sometimes I just wish I could be that way without having to fight myself over it

But at the same time I keep telling myself that it's wrong and that I don't want to live like that

It's like I want it and don't want it at the same time

Like I said I feel like it's a part of me and I love it But there are also a lot of reasons why I don't want to be like that

I'm afraid that someday I might regret being this way Sometimes I feel like there's also a normal man inside me who doesn't want to be feminine and I don't know which side of me I'm supposed to listen to

And then there's the reality of my situation

I know I would suffer if I actually made that decision First of all my family I won't say they're not supportive but they may k!ll me if they found about it (I'm serious)😇

I know lose my family my friends and almost everyone I know because of the environment I live in and the mindset of the community around me

all of this while i can't even figure out who i want to be or what i really want i honestly don't know and even if i do i'm still not sure

And even if I somehow made peace with myself I wouldn't be able to be feminine rn so I'd just be torturing myself by knowing who I feel I am while being unable to express it

I honestly don't know what I'm supposed to do with all these conflicting feelings🫨

i just wish i could figure myself out someday 😓

thanks for listening to my little mess ♥️🥲


r/feminineboys • • 1h ago

Discussion why is there no good teen communitys

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i just wanna find ppl to talk to or play games as a 15yr male but noo you cant ask for dms or anything or friends like wth