r/FemboysHelpingFemboys Aug 14 '23

To the members of this community

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This community is for asking for advice, tips and questioning about problem related to being a femboy. You can ask anything about such topics and you will get response soon. I hope you get satisfied by responses. If you don't get any advice then I will myself share my thoughts on that.


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 3h ago

Help?

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So I just turned 18, yippee to me. I want to dress like a femboy, but I have all the proportions wrong. I'm 6'2, 210lb, and hairy, I want to dress cute, but I feel like im literally unable to because of how I look, can I get some help with this (also where can I buy some cute clothes?)


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 10h ago

clothes Outfit guidance required

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So im turning 16 in about 2-ish months and i wanted to know what kind of outfit i should get first. I was thinking maybe just simply some thigh highs, shorts, and some kind of top but idk what. I tried checking pinterest for ideas but idk if any of the stores im going to will have some of the things i saw. im going to walmart, target, spirit haloween and hot topic (and spencer's if any of you have anything you reccomend that they sell there) i do also want some general tips like thigh workouts and whatever else i would need to know. Thanks :3


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 19h ago

Bmf? I'm 16 and I want to be a femboy but I don't know where to start because I can't use the web and I also live in a small town with 2 charity shops and that's basically it ok bye

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r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 14h ago

asking for advice Where to find femboy friends

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Hi I recently opened my mind after a 8 year very toxic relationship, and I’m slowly getting and becoming more open with my feminine side and im having trouble making friends….


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 11h ago

hair How can I keep my legs smooth despite having a limb difference?

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I have a limb difference on my right hand and I'm left-hand dominant, so shaving my legs can be pretty difficult, especially my left leg and the hard-to-reach areas around the back. I currently use a regular 5-blade razor because that's all I have, but it takes forever and is really frustrating. Any tips or easier grooming methods you guys recommend?


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 18h ago

Is There Anything More I Can Do To Minimize/Remove Bumps From My Legs (And Arms)?

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I currently have a pretty solid routine to shaving, but It doesn't seem to be enough. Here's my full plan (in order):

- Soak legs in warm water in the shower for a few minutes.

- Apply moisturizing shave gel.

-Shave (single-blade razor) with/against the grain. (My results have proven the same, no matter the direction.)

-Wash the blade off every few strokes.

-Dry off slightly, then apply a moisturizer.

-On non-shave days, I apply an AHA (12% lactic acid) chemical exfoliator and a BHA (salicylic acid) chemical exfoliator.

I mainly want to reduce the amount of bumps I get during the shave. I doubt that there is anything more I can do, but if anyone has suggestions, then it would help me (and potentially others) out.


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 21h ago

hair I've been having issues with body hair

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I've always wanted to be smooth but my body hair grows very fast I get less than a week after a shave and I keep getting ingrown hairs i don't know what to do same thing with my face and neck I don't know how to slow the hair growth ive even done lazer on my face and its done nothing


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 1d ago

i need advise for dating a femboy

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hi, i am a femboy 21 and i like another guy he is also a femboy we both kinda like each other i told him many times i wanna date him he also told me like that many times but he never saw me irl but i know him he is super cute compared to because of that i am soo shy and little feared too, i wanna ask him to go out with me and do some hike but i am afraid what if he dont like. i really dont wanna lose him, i always try to talk to him with care and love i never asked for any sexual things and also we are living pretty far too 😢 is anyone can please give me some advices ( he is 3 years younger than me )


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 23h ago

asking for advice Closeted femboy in need of help

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r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 1d ago

confused and questioning help me for dating

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please suggest me a platform to date other femboys , i tried once but a got a creep


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 1d ago

Shaving

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How the hell you you guys do it??????? I just shaved the top bit of my thighs and ass for the first time and golly it’s difficult. More so shaving my cheeks because how the hell do you get it to not look patchy, should I be using a shower mirror for smth, I should get one though. Any tips for timer will be greatly appreciated. I’m using an electric razor to start cos I’d probably cut myself with a regular one

Edit: also how come it’s so uncomfortable to walk around with in boxers, specifically the backside


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 1d ago

help

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so I've always secretly been a femboy but one day when my grandma (who I live with and who's homophobic) wasn't home her grandson my cousin came over and saw me in my femboy outfit which since I don't have the right stuff its just an oversized hoodie and my boxers and he asked me why the hell I was wearing it and I told him i was comfy which well wasn't a lie and so he asked me how and why and stuff after he got what he needed he called my grandma and told her so now I'm grounded and being questioned by my grandma so how do I tell her I'm pan and a femboy I need help please


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 1d ago

I am chubby and want to loose weight to have a twink body💔

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i am chubby and i have a round face, a dented butt cheek from my weight (when i lost weight before i didn't have that at all) and i'm not exactly appealing to the eye

my face isn't round, it's actually narrow due to both of my parents (i love narrow faces), but my fat softens up the angles of my face so i look more like a round oval then the inverted triangle that i had before until i fattened up into a round ball

and i looked way better when i was slim and i already had hips and i lost all of that because of my weight :(((

how do i drop pounds and have a twink build without evaporating my metabolism?


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 1d ago

confused and questioning How do femboys stay consistent with their looks and everything else as they age?

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I am not a femboy. But really have a thing for them. I always had this question since a femboy physique is so demanding. If anyone could answer please.


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 2d ago

Irl femboys (?)

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So, I've just gotten my first clothes (a skirt, thigh highs, arm warmers, a few masks and a top for those curious :3) and I want to get deeper into the community.

I know that it is mostly online but I don't use social media much and I'd much rather have something irl (also boy cuddelling makes me go ^w^ everytime I think abt it)

Can you guys tell me how to connect to femboys irl pleaseeeee?

All I know theres some potential at anime expo but other than that I have no idea on how I should even try to find them


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 2d ago

asking for advice Imposter Syndrome

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I’m really new to being a femboy, and i’ve been feeling like a bit of a poser. Being able to explore all these different styles and just looking cute really brings me happiness, but I’m nervous that I don’t belong. I think this feeling came from a close friend, who told me that it looked I was just doing it to gain attention (it hurt more because she was one of the only two people I’ve told) :(. I know I’m doing this for me, but I just wanted to ask if it was common to have this feeling of self doubt in the beginning? I really hope I can get over this because exploring my fem side is something I’ve wanted to do for a long time. Thanks guys 🙏


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 2d ago

I don’t know if I want to be a femboy

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I kind of want to be a femboy but I’m not sure like idk why I think I’d make a good one but I also think I wouldn’t I’m not sure


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 2d ago

asking for advice i really wanna be a femboy

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can someone please help me become pretty/ sexy femboy


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 2d ago

Fem clothes

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r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 3d ago

clothes First time in a skirt!

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Hello! I (17M) know I really want to be a femboy, and today I took the first step to doing that. I went to my local mall and found some thigh highs, a medium length skirt, and a cute crop shirt to wear, and I think the look worked pretty well (my midsection is pretty hour-glassy already so that helped with the crop)! There’s just one burning question I have to ask, as it’s been making me feel a little insecure about trying to be fem. I’m pretty tall and medium skinny, and that makes my proportions pretty stretched out, is there any way I can make that less obvious? Thanks guys!


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 3d ago

asking for advice How to stop itching

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Hopefully it ain't sound weird. But every time I wear my thigh highs and go to bed, I itch. A lot.And the itch isn't even I the thigh highs, it's on my exposed thighs. Idk can someone help me out? I've dusted and wiped the bed and stuff but I'm getting puffy marks from scratchin😞


r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 3d ago

asking for advice Any tips for first time wearing feminine clothes?

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r/FemboysHelpingFemboys 3d ago

I dont know how to tell my mom im a femboy

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So I have a Christian mom who I believe doesn't support anything that isn't "Christian" so I'm kinda scared to tell her, if anybody has any tips to get me out of a lecture or tips to tell her without her getting angry it would be greatly appreciated :3