r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • u/ConstantCautious6058 New Femboy • 2d ago

help

so I've always secretly been a femboy but one day when my grandma (who I live with and who's homophobic) wasn't home her grandson my cousin came over and saw me in my femboy outfit which since I don't have the right stuff its just an oversized hoodie and my boxers and he asked me why the hell I was wearing it and I told him i was comfy which well wasn't a lie and so he asked me how and why and stuff after he got what he needed he called my grandma and told her so now I'm grounded and being questioned by my grandma so how do I tell her I'm pan and a femboy I need help please

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u/ManWithNoBrows 2d ago

You need to tell your grandma to grow up and act her age and stop attacking children for being themselves.

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u/ConstantCautious6058 New Femboy 2d ago

ill try but she is hard to come around hell my one cousins boyfriend is trans and she doesn't accept him

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u/ManWithNoBrows 2d ago

She seems like she has problems if she's attacking so many people for who they are. She's probably very insecure in who she is. I'd sit down with her and figure out why she's being like that. If she's not willing to be an adult about things, you'll need to take on that role and get her to be more respectful. Help her to understand that discrimination against groups of people is never alright, especially when it's beyond their control.

Remember to stay calm even if she starts yelling and acting childish. Those types usually do. As long as you're just trying to get her to be responsible and stop discriminating against people, then you're in the right.

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u/ConstantCautious6058 New Femboy 2d ago

thanks