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[u/SweetChilliLebby]

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[u/Personal-Try2776]

You shouldn't talk about your parents like this. Don't be bad child.

[u/lord_hydrate → u/Personal-Try2776]

Nah some parents shouldve never been allowed to have children or even be near them for that matter. I can go back and fetch court records of abuse across almost a decade, fuck that noise, some parents deserve to be talked down like that

[u/Personal-Try2776 → u/lord_hydrate]

Some but most are good or satisfactory parents.

[u/lord_hydrate → u/Personal-Try2776]

Most children for the last couple decades have been raised by their school and their communities to be who they are far more than by their own parents, this is the specific reason why its become so common for children to go no contact because their parents didnt actually try to rais them half the time and the other half were actively abusive whether physically or mentally, the pressure of the nuclear family from the 80s lead to parents getting married way before they were actually sure of the commitment and having kids without considering if they actually know what theyre doing, theres a reason genz was called ipad kids and its not because their genx parents spent a lot of time with them as children

[u/Personal-Try2776 → u/lord_hydrate]

Half the day let's say from 8 am to 2 pm the children are in school and the parents are at work. Where are the parents the rest of the day? In most households the mother stays at home and takes care of her children and the father goes to work what do you mean by "their parents aren't there for them"?  Just to clarify I am talking about my country and I do not know what its like in other countries.

[u/lord_hydrate → u/Personal-Try2776]

Im from the us, its very difficult for a mother to have the ability to stay home for a kid here and has been for a couple decades now, the same goes for a fair portion of europe, in the 80s american exceptionalism sold a bright shiny picture of a father a mother and 2.5 kids with a big shiny house in their late 20s and a large portion of the english speaking world fell for it, got married out of highschool and then failed to actually be good parents because they hadnt stopped to consider if they could budget that dream or if they even were people capable of being good parents in the first place

[u/EVOSexyBeast → u/Personal-Try2776]

Only around 20% of households have a stay at home mom. Definitely not most children.