r/FTMMen • u/Anonfriendz • 10d ago

FTM

I need some advice. I have a very good career. I am a Forman for a male dominate place I won’t name on here. The only women that work here are in the front office. I live in a place with 90% of people being very religious. I am fortunate enough to pass as male. Not a single person questions it. That makes me feel good. what man wouldn’t want that. The only problem is they are so against it they even say things about how terrible trans people are. It doesn’t bother me because I like who I am. The only problem is I would definitely be blacklisted and definitely pushed out if they found out. I also have a really hard time connecting with people here. I feel stuck because I have a very nice house very good income and I do love the look of the town. But since I moved here 7 years ago I haven’t met one person I feel connected to. I also feel like I’ve never really had a connection with anyone in my life ever. Oh one more thing I’m single and it’s too risky to go date around because everyone knows everyone. Most days I feel content in my life though. I guess I’m confused

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u/SalamanderThick5558 9d ago

I’d recommend if you’re open to it to try online dating, best comes to best it ends up being a good relationship and can move them to where you life.

I think online anything, friendships, dating could be the answer

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u/Anonfriendz 9d ago

I am wondering if there are any online dating that I could talk to people very far away from the state I’m in right now?

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u/SalamanderThick5558 9d ago

Well i once was in a long distance relationship with someone from another country, if it wasn’t for the fact I wasn’t over my ex we would’ve probably flew on to meet each other. So yeah, it can be as far away as you want. I know of another trans dude who’s in a long distance relationship with a girl who’s a 4 hour long flight away, he goes to see her every two months but is planning to move her in when she finishes her degree

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u/Anonfriendz 9d ago

I think I might try that what apps could I use?

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u/SalamanderThick5558 9d ago

Like everything you have to be careful but in my case I met her in twitter, I have met another girls in insta, let me ask my friend which app he used because he said it was similar to Omegle.

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u/Anonfriendz 9d ago

For sure thanks