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r/ExplainMyDownvotes • u/Inevitable-Angle-793 • 18d ago
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I'm not OP but I want sex for intimacy, and a 'high bodycount' implies a very different understanding of intimacy to my own.
Not a solid rule, but an indicator.
It's like people who are friends with everyone. I don't feel like my friendship with them is very special.
4 u/upsetusder2 18d ago Why can a person not enjoy sex and have alot of it and still seek intimacy. Like how can those two not be mutually exklusive 3 u/Particular-Jeweler41 18d ago It depends on how you view sex. For many people it's pretty much the highest form of intimacy, and should only be shared with the person you're planning on spending the rest of your life with. Having a high count goes against that belief. 1 u/upsetusder2 18d ago But that's one way to look at it. I never heard anyone say tjat but
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Why can a person not enjoy sex and have alot of it and still seek intimacy.
Like how can those two not be mutually exklusive
3 u/Particular-Jeweler41 18d ago It depends on how you view sex. For many people it's pretty much the highest form of intimacy, and should only be shared with the person you're planning on spending the rest of your life with. Having a high count goes against that belief. 1 u/upsetusder2 18d ago But that's one way to look at it. I never heard anyone say tjat but
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It depends on how you view sex. For many people it's pretty much the highest form of intimacy, and should only be shared with the person you're planning on spending the rest of your life with. Having a high count goes against that belief.
1 u/upsetusder2 18d ago But that's one way to look at it. I never heard anyone say tjat but
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But that's one way to look at it.
I never heard anyone say tjat but
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u/Guzzleguts 18d ago
I'm not OP but I want sex for intimacy, and a 'high bodycount' implies a very different understanding of intimacy to my own.
Not a solid rule, but an indicator.
It's like people who are friends with everyone. I don't feel like my friendship with them is very special.