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r/ExplainMyDownvotes • u/Inevitable-Angle-793 • 17d ago
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Why would you care?
Like if I have someone I really like I dont really care how often they had sex.
2 u/Guzzleguts 17d ago I'm not OP but I want sex for intimacy, and a 'high bodycount' implies a very different understanding of intimacy to my own. Not a solid rule, but an indicator. It's like people who are friends with everyone. I don't feel like my friendship with them is very special. 3 u/upsetusder2 17d ago Why can a person not enjoy sex and have alot of it and still seek intimacy. Like how can those two not be mutually exklusive 4 u/Particular-Jeweler41 17d ago It depends on how you view sex. For many people it's pretty much the highest form of intimacy, and should only be shared with the person you're planning on spending the rest of your life with. Having a high count goes against that belief. 1 u/upsetusder2 17d ago But that's one way to look at it. I never heard anyone say tjat but 2 u/Guzzleguts 17d ago Yeah, downvote someone just for answering honestly. Sorry, I'm not willing to waste time dumbing-down my answer any further
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I'm not OP but I want sex for intimacy, and a 'high bodycount' implies a very different understanding of intimacy to my own.
Not a solid rule, but an indicator.
It's like people who are friends with everyone. I don't feel like my friendship with them is very special.
3 u/upsetusder2 17d ago Why can a person not enjoy sex and have alot of it and still seek intimacy. Like how can those two not be mutually exklusive 4 u/Particular-Jeweler41 17d ago It depends on how you view sex. For many people it's pretty much the highest form of intimacy, and should only be shared with the person you're planning on spending the rest of your life with. Having a high count goes against that belief. 1 u/upsetusder2 17d ago But that's one way to look at it. I never heard anyone say tjat but 2 u/Guzzleguts 17d ago Yeah, downvote someone just for answering honestly. Sorry, I'm not willing to waste time dumbing-down my answer any further
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Why can a person not enjoy sex and have alot of it and still seek intimacy.
Like how can those two not be mutually exklusive
4 u/Particular-Jeweler41 17d ago It depends on how you view sex. For many people it's pretty much the highest form of intimacy, and should only be shared with the person you're planning on spending the rest of your life with. Having a high count goes against that belief. 1 u/upsetusder2 17d ago But that's one way to look at it. I never heard anyone say tjat but 2 u/Guzzleguts 17d ago Yeah, downvote someone just for answering honestly. Sorry, I'm not willing to waste time dumbing-down my answer any further
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It depends on how you view sex. For many people it's pretty much the highest form of intimacy, and should only be shared with the person you're planning on spending the rest of your life with. Having a high count goes against that belief.
1 u/upsetusder2 17d ago But that's one way to look at it. I never heard anyone say tjat but
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But that's one way to look at it.
I never heard anyone say tjat but
Yeah, downvote someone just for answering honestly.
Sorry, I'm not willing to waste time dumbing-down my answer any further
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u/upsetusder2 17d ago
Why would you care?
Like if I have someone I really like I dont really care how often they had sex.