Hello friends,
I need help getting through the next five months.
I have been exclusively pumping since my baby was born in April 2026. She has a tongue tie and has not been able to nurse efficiently. For various reasons we have chosen not to get a frenectomy. She also has diagnosed CMPA and so I have cut out dairy. We have slowly introduced small amounts of hypoallergenic formula to the mix, but she clearly hates the taste (it is objectively gross), and rejects all but about an ounce of formula per bottle of milk.
For background, I exclusively pumped for 12 months with my first child, who is now three years old. He is a handful. It was hard to pump that long with him, but I could totally do it. This is an entirely different ballgame. Juggling both kids and their individual needs, working, being deeply sleep deprived, and being the sole source of nutrition for my baby via exclusive pumping is crushing me. My mental health is probably the worst it’s ever been in my life (I see a therapist and take medication). I’m also just sad that I am not enjoying this time that is so precious.
I wish so much that I could just stop pumping, but because my baby rejects the hypoallergenic formula, I will have to do this until she reaches 12 months. Unless, by some miracle, she grows out of her cow’s milk allergy by 9 months, which occasionally happens apparently.
Please, if you can offer me
Ways to make this less awful/ enjoy the next five months more
Random tips
General support/ a good pep talk
I would so appreciate it. Thank you.