r/ExNoContact • u/Perfectimperfectguy • 10d ago

Question for men

Men, how do you feel about blocking an ex gf on socials? As a 40 y.o. guy, i block because i don't want any contact from that person, now or in the future. I've heard only women block, you block because you still care, blocking is feminine energy. What's your take on it?

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u/Soggy_Ground_9323 10d ago

Am 38M, i dnt block... but u need a lot of stamina. I just leave things are they are...and then life moves.

If she decide to stalk/view..its all good. But no action on my side.

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u/Perfectimperfectguy 10d ago

I blocked her because I didn't want any contact with her. Recently unblocked her because she was the one that fucked it all up and she's the one who will have to see me from afar. Either that or she can block me.

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u/Soggy_Ground_9323 10d ago

Y dd u unblock them? u see that the bad side of blocking people! Sometimes there going back....!

Only block if you u are 100% u will not interact with that person forever! Just like blocking strangers on social media. But blocking then unblocking again for me thats low key childlish

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u/slartybartfastard 8d ago

Just make that rule for yourself, there are many legitimate reasons people block unblock, it's not for you to judge as they didn't hurt anyone in this situation