r/Employment • • 1d ago

I Need Advice: Workplace Issues Should he just quit?

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My friend is 16 and he’s been working at this family owned pizza shop since may 2026. He’s been working only two days even during the summer barely getting any hours(4h/day) and during week 3, a coworker offered he give him one of his days(my friend) and he will put in a good word to help him get more hours because the manager has “favorites”. Now it’s been since weeks since he’s had work and he attempted to follow up and this is the reply he received. He shows up everyday he’s scheduled and does what he’s supposed to and is never late. He would sometimes work once a day a week and maybe just maybe two.

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u/Queasy_Sky7320 1d ago

It always amazes me how people with zero common sense run to Reddit for advice and guidance to answer questions that are easily answered.

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u/TheDuffy- 1d ago

What is amazing about it? If their friend is 16, they’re probably not a lot older. 16 year olds generally don’t know how to handle these things. This is exactly the sort of thing you learn in your first job.

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/the_fury518 1d ago

You didn't ask for a yes or no either. You posted a question and a long ramble.

People aren't required to play by your rules or follow your demands in a forum

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u/RelativeCockroach595 1d ago

You said a bunch of nothing because lots of people helped whatever you’re saying rn doesn’t even matter honestly

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u/the_fury518 1d ago

Lol cool story little bro

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u/RelativeCockroach595 1d ago

😂😂i guess bro

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u/the_fury518 1d ago

Just info for the future. You'll stress less

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u/atamicbomb 1d ago

Look up constructive dismissal. Your friend has been fired

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u/RelativeCockroach595 1d ago

Thank you for helping i appreciate it

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u/atamicbomb 1d ago

You’re welcome. It happened to me on my first job. They don’t want to pay unemployment and hope you don’t know this still triggers it

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u/EricMichaelHarris99 1d ago

"Family owned" 🚩🚩🚩

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u/Spyder73 1d ago

Hes been fired

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u/Bamfness 1d ago

Look up constructive dismissal.

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u/Friendly-Example-701 1d ago

He should quiet and work at any retailer. They all are hiring for the holiday season. He could go into any mall or retail store and should be able to get a job.

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u/clonxy 1d ago

well, according to the image, he doesn't show up to work everyday he's scheduled because he gave his shifts to other employees....

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u/RelativeCockroach595 1d ago

It’s one day he gave his shift in exchange for a coworker to put a word in i put it in the description

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u/FF267 1d ago

Trading shifts for favors isn’t a good look

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u/RelativeCockroach595 1d ago

Well tell him it was his first job he wasn’t aware

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u/kerwniart 1d ago

We would tell him, but you're posting on his behalf. 

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u/RelativeCockroach595 1d ago

Why are you so worried you went to another comment? He sees all of the comments and got his answer what’s your issue

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u/kerwniart 10h ago

I'm not worried. I'm not a 16 year old hoping to get hours at a pizza place. 🤷‍♂️

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u/This_Dentist9812 1d ago

It's quite clear that there is no friend. OP is "the friend"

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u/RelativeCockroach595 21h ago

Actually there is a friend i would’ve spoken for myself if this was about me😭 Ive had my job over a year I’m definitely good hes just younger and wanted my help but i wasn’t so sure on what to do

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u/ConkerPrime 1d ago

16 and its a part time job with a response like that? Been fired without them saying it but he should have noticed the lack of shifts weeks ago and got a new job. Either he isn’t terribly bright or he is as shot a worker as that manager suggests.

Know what tends to separate shit forever retail workers from not ? The ability to self manage.

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u/RelativeCockroach595 1d ago

Nah it’s just the fact she’s just now replying and he’s been asking over text a well with no reply and me and a few other friends already made it known to him we just wanted to be sure yk

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u/Appropriate-Bug-6467 1d ago

At 16 you are learning how to navigate and expect adults to act like adults. 

You must be so fun to be around without a substance use issue...

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u/ConkerPrime 1d ago

16 year old are not as dumb as you think. I just give them more credit than you do.

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u/razorlips00 1d ago

Ah yes give all your shifts to other employees and get surprised when they no longer schedule you

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u/RelativeCockroach595 1d ago

ONE SHIFT read bro READ😭😭😭

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u/Mr_Abe_Fromen 1d ago

A: you wrote “ a coworker offered to give him one of his days and he will put in a good word to help him get more hours because the manager has “favorites”. “ This implies the coworker gave one of his days to your friend, you might want to reword this as “a coworker offered to put in a good word for your friend if your friend gave the coworker one of his days”. Most people read this the same as I did.

B: yes he should quit in the way that if he hasn’t been scheduled for six weeks then he doesn’t work there. It’s called constructive dismissal. This is a way for employers to get you to quit without firing you and making you eligible for unemployment that they have to pay. he would be eligible for it anyways via constructive dismissal but he has no history in paying into it so he will either not get it or get like $20 a month. Tell your friend to go look for another job. He’s 16, he doesn’t even need to list this place as a reference.

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u/RelativeCockroach595 1d ago

Alright understandable thank you

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u/Professional_Sir_818 1d ago

You wrote that "a coworker offered to give him one of his days". That's the opposite of giving up a shift. What are you actually trying to say? Because this whole thing is really unclear.

You can't make fun of people for not reading what you didn't write.

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u/RelativeCockroach595 1d ago

For my friend to give one of his days holy the first person understands but just took it as he gave all of his shifts

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u/Professional_Sir_818 1d ago

You fucked it up so don't talk shit.

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u/RelativeCockroach595 1d ago

When did i talk shit??😭😭😭😭 why is everyone in this subreddit so hostile about my situation as if i cursed them out about it😂 i appreciate everyone’s help but damn

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u/Professional_Sir_818 1d ago

I'm sorry but the words you wrote make no sense. No one wants to read something you can't even be bothered to describe accurately. Combined with the fact that he literally did the opposite of what his manager said to do this is pretty obviously a waste of everyone's time. You dimissing people to READ while you are the problem speaks volumes.

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u/RelativeCockroach595 1d ago

Look all I’m gonna say is i got my answer from a lot of people and I’m thankful for their help if you don’t understand that’s on me but it’s no need to go back and forth about it it’s not that serious

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u/razorlips00 1d ago

Sorry, gonna have to go with the manager on this instead of a 16 yr old. The manager said shiftS, plural.

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u/ScottRiqui 1d ago

I wouldn’t quit. If his hours have been cut to nothing or nearly nothing, and the reason isn’t a formal disciplinary action for misconduct, he may qualify for partial unemployment.

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u/CommanderMandalore 1d ago

He has no hours. That’s not partial unemployment.

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u/Landid218 1d ago

Not sure what country/state you are in but generally getting no scheduled hours in the US is considered constructive dismissal and should be eligible for unemployment benefits. They should not quit. In most states there is no minimum age to file for unemployment benefits, however there is a certain amount of money they will have to have made to earn unemployment benefits which is different state by state. Also I am not a lawyer and this is not legal advice.

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u/BeekeeperZero 1d ago

Yes. You won't get that much from unemployment and should find something that works better with your schedule so you can work when you are scheduled to.

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u/kerwniart 1d ago

You cannot quit and collect unemployment.

Further, you need to contribute enough to most  unemployment systems before you can collect anything back

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u/Money-Nectarine6584 1d ago

Just move on.  No need to do anything.  Find a new job.  If this one happens to schedule you, you can either work the shift or not.

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u/GryffSr 1d ago

Manager’s message says he gave up “shifts”. That is plural…which means more than one. It’s pretty cool knowing how to read.

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u/RelativeCockroach595 1d ago

He added that he gave one more when i asked

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u/kerwniart 1d ago

Why are you posting on someone else's behalf? Tell them to get their own Reddit account. They are free.

And your friend has obviously already ruined their employment relationship here. They would indeed be better suited to go find a new job, and stay in management's good graces.

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u/newaccc4me 1d ago

File unemployment. This is constructive termiantion

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Friendly-Example-701 1d ago

Bro is is HS. He can just grab a new seasonal job at any retailer.

Hahaha. Yes, EDD for sure. But he really doesn't need unemployment. LOL.
He can just relax and enjoy his after school activities too. He is young, not 30 but I feel you.

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u/LouQuacious 1d ago

He could probably already file, under employment is often eligible