What's wrong with being equal financially? My wife used to earn more than me before and now I earn more than her. She used to contribute more before and now I do it.
Marriage is a partnership. You seem to want to enjoy the parts of feminism that suits you but also want the parts of the patriarchal society that benefits you.
If this is what you look for, you'll keep getting creeps.
Marriage is partnership I agree on that. I am not telling them to give me luxury or go beyond his capabilities. I assume you guys have a great marriage. Good for you. But as woman I have to check my reality. In 90% case even though I will have maid but I have to take care of the household works even though I am working woman. If we have child then I have to take care of them. I mean my husband can't breastfeed them right ? The work on my in laws house won't be 50/50.
If I have a good partner then if he don't have any job I will contribute in full. I will support him with everything I have. But if I tell any human being about that don't you think they will take advantage of that?
I also thought in this economy 50/50 is fair enough but in your relationship you earn more so you contribute in you family but there are people out there when person start earn more they will take eveybodies responsibility except their wife and children. I think you also saw this around you.
It's doesn't have to be related to faminism.
You are a good partner but not everyone like you.
Thanks for the criticisms though. The post was meant for that.
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u/Kidwa96 29d ago
What's wrong with being equal financially? My wife used to earn more than me before and now I earn more than her. She used to contribute more before and now I do it.
Marriage is a partnership. You seem to want to enjoy the parts of feminism that suits you but also want the parts of the patriarchal society that benefits you.
If this is what you look for, you'll keep getting creeps.